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FieryOpal -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/19/2014 6:20:28 AM)
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
Agreed. What I was contesting was your statement: "Unless you are a person who has low to no self-esteem, you don't gravitate to those types of individuals." Because that's not actually the case, hooking up is quite the rage among women who are younger than you.
'Those types of individuals' specifically referred to someone who wants something for nothing, a selfish user who takes what he can get and sucks people dry. The fact that money gets injected into the discussion at a later point is irrelevant. (Lots of guys wave money at women, and in most cases, this adds insult to injury unless the woman is already a BDSM provider or sex worker). I never implied that this had to do with casual hook-ups where it's usually understood that this is intended for mutual pleasure and satisfaction, not merely for the guy to get his itch scratched. If that's all he or any other guy desires, then they need to be prepared to pay, if money is all they have to offer in exchange.
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
I've been in a monogamous relationship for 6 years now so none of this is really relevant to me anymore, but my 20's were a damn good time.
We've all sown our wild oats. Maturity tends to come with age, and I'm sure you're a lot more content in your stable LTR than you were when you were hunting around for your next hook-up back in your 20s.
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
I don't think a no strings attached hookup has got the best chance of success around here (think I mentioned that), he'd have a much better chance at a play party. But I don't think it's too much to ask, as in I don't think the request actually warrants a thread to publicly ridicule the guy. A thread specifically put in the random stupidity section to get an extra dig in.
You give me far too much credit. I had originally considered setting up this thread as a bona fide poll. But thanks for the thought. [:)]
I don't know what kind of play parties you've been to, but I can't see anybody giving some guy with a spitting fetish who essentially just walked up off the street the time of day. Why someone would think that he would have better success on line soliciting for favors is beyond me, sub-bottom or Dom-top, makes no difference.
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ORIGINAL: GotSteel
Thanks for the stats, I hadn't been aware of the ratios and you probably know how I like numbers [:D]
I am curious though, how does this one fit into the conversation? What was the thought process that made this relevant?
Um, the relatively few times I go over on P&R threads has made this abundantly clear. :p
Here I will admit that I was getting a dig in on you males, esp. the ones who go around touting that men and women are all the same and our only basic differences are anatomical. We also think and feel differently, our thinking and emotive processes aren't the same or identical.
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