inkedone
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From: Fritch Texas
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Is there anything that you recognize in particular that your Dom or Master does that excels in putting you into a submissive mindset? we all have our lives and responsibilities and sometimes find that our vanilla world gets us away from our D/s dynamic, I am ALWAYS thinking of new ways to help her stay focused on her service and help her to get deeper into her submissive mindset. Recently we had done some travel and she had surgery, and these type of things tend to interfere with the flow of the dynamic. What have you done or have had done that has helped at these life moments?
Different strokes for different folks that is what makes each D/s relationship uniquely special and individualized. I do have to agree that a week of micromanagement especially when stressed only applies more stress and inevitable shut down. Also forcing is something Sir does not do. In my time with him, it is more of simple things that he does to keeping him my constant thought when I am busy with daily things such as juggling work, family, and personal care.
One of the things that Sir does when I am recovering from an illness is have me read a book he picks a topic to write a paper to him about a specific topic or a review of our relationships over a period of time. This has been useful in providing him information about where we are or where I am floating in head space. It is also been a benefit to me as well. The ink purge provides a review of strengths and weaknesses that I need to improve on. He also will have me do little things such as required daily meditation focusing on service or a topic of his choice. The key is to keep him as a constant focus and how these things are positive triggers to increase the need, want, and desire of pleasing Him. As I get back on my feet he will introduce control in subtle ways such as texting a command for constant reinforcements.
Something as simple as sitting expose while he sips his tea or watches TV is a trigger for me. These are a few things that work for us in getting things back on track that perhaps might provide something useful.
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