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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/7/2014 6:17:53 PM   
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Baby Dom starts a bitch thread and then goes postal when not getting validated.

No, I get pissed off when people treat me like an idiot.

Then don't make idiotic threads and posts.

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Dude, concentrate on the one slave you have and grow up.

What slave? If you're talking about the Asian British chick, I don't own her yet! Slaves do not give themselves, mind body and soul, to a man they just met!

So please, tell me what slave I "have" that you're talking about?

Red gave you the answer: it's in your profile.

Incidentally, you are 25 and have the audacity to call yourself a 'master'.
Your profile is nothing more than a wish-list of an insta-dom.
Your journal is in breach of ToS and should be removed.
Your whole attitude on here is infantile and screams "inexperienced".

Get with the program dude and WAKE THE FUCK UP!!
Put your big boy panties on and grow up. Block and move on.


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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/7/2014 6:21:34 PM   
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and also, my first post is pretty innocent. I don't think I implied you were an idiot anywhere. I can if you're into that. But I haven't yet.

Sometimes the crowd on this site and board is a touch older, with less dating experience or web experience. We simply don't want you to waste your time or money on fakes, and were informing you, you were correct, they were fake, don't waste your time.

Relax a little.

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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/7/2014 6:27:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Wow, what a tantrum.

Baby Dom starts a bitch thread and then goes postal when not getting validated.

Dude, concentrate on the one slave you have and grow up.


Throwing a tantrum seems to be how he reacts in all his threads.




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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/7/2014 6:29:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

I don't think I implied you were an idiot anywhere.


You really didn't, shifty.

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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/7/2014 6:52:00 PM   
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I'm noticing a strange pattern amongst masochists, and I'm starting to wonder if this is really, really contrived. I won't name names, because that got me in trouble once before. But this is really ... really ... really contrived!

A single instance of this, by itself, doesn't really raise much suspicion. It's when I keep seeing this (and when I say this, I mean ... this exact combination) that makes it seem suspicious. It's like how the Nostalgia Critic - in his most recent Commercials episode - pointed out that all the Sunny Delight commercials had the kids passing by milk, soda, and "purple stuff," but every commercial - despite depicting a different family - had the EXACT same other drinks in their fridge, in the EXACT same order! This, according to him, was what was weird.

Here's the strange pattern I'm noticing out of slaves who come on here, looking for a master to torture them relentlessly in the most cruel and extreme ways imaginable:

They are all willing to give me a single picture of themselves, but that's it. The first picture, they give without hesitation. But anything beyond that? Nope, that's leaking too much about themselves on the Internet!

But strangely, they are all in college, seeking a master to dominate them online until they can finish their degrees. Fine, but here's where it gets weird:

- They are all unwilling to show themselves on webcam.

- They are all looking to completely disappear after graduating. This would seem to suggest that their college education would be worthless to them, but they all insist on finishing it anyway because ... fuck you, that's why.

- They aren't even willing to so much as show a picture of the injuries I have them inflict upon themselves. Why? Because ... well ... privacy, that's why. Even though their privacy is only supposed to last until they graduate (getting a degree that they will never use, simply for the sake of having it).

Look, I can imagine that there's a "no limits" slave out there like that. This scenario, standing by itself, seems plausible enough, and the "privacy" argument does make a small amount of sense. However, as this EXACT COMBINATION appears on about a half a dozen or so slaves makes me wonder if this is all some elaborate gag!

I wonder ... is anyone else noticing this trend? This really bizzare swarm of college-aged masochists who are looking to satisfy their pain fetish, but won't even reveal who they are, beyond a single damned photo, and who want to finish their degree because ... reasons? And they won't do diddly shit for you until then, but oh, they want you to torture them!

This reminds me of an article I read on cracked.com once. It was written by a cop, who had been told by countless arrestees who got caught with drugs in their pockets "These aren't my pants." This was the first thing that popped into their minds, and lo and behold, everyone else who gets caught (dare I say ... with their pants down?!) has the same idea!

This cop's joke (since cracked.com is a comedy site first and foremost) in response to this trend was "apparently there's some giant pool of pants that I'm not aware of, and hundreds of guys just pick their pants randomly out of that pile," or something to that effect.

So, anyone else noticing this swarm of contrived masochists on here?


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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/7/2014 7:52:11 PM   
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There are many forms of this CONTRIVED (seems to be a new favorite word for you ) submissive. Not new, and not at all real. They are simply , time wasters and masterbaters period. Do not spend another minute on them. Any sub after a reasonable time that will not prove themselves real. That is what they are. Posers and phonies. The stories many vary, but they do the same things, will not prove who they are, complete simple tasks, or share about themselves when you get intimate, talk on phone the list goes on. But my message ends here.

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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/7/2014 8:59:19 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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~FRing it~

"20-year-old California college coed Stephanie" that you have been stroking your keyboard to is most likely Frank the 53-year-old lives in his mom my's basement janitor from New Jersey. The closest Frank ever got to a college campus was as his public transit bus passed by with him on it on his way to work.

If Frank took and sent pictures of the damage had inflicted on himself upon your über Masterly orders, the grand illusion that is young Stephanie would be blown...leaving you feeling a bit on the foolish side. Much like Im sure you are feeling right about now by even posting this in the first place.

Sorry that Frank broke your heart, OP. It will get better . But thank you for this thread. It was highly entertaining, much like your forum posts in the past have turned out to be.

In all honesty, this hasn't been a problem for me. But I don't participate in online activities. Not knocking it because everyone should do what makes them happy. However I tend to not run into Frankenstephanies either this way

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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/7/2014 11:11:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd

No, I get pissed off when people treat me like an idiot.

Change the behavior to change the outcome.

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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/8/2014 3:10:47 AM   
EmpressElsa


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It's probably a guy who has a particular fetish and makes new sock puppets to keep pulling people in, or it's a scam ring.

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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/8/2014 5:54:23 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd


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ORIGINAL: RockaRolla

Dude, they're fakes. I don't think many are running into this problem here because most aren't seeking to cyberdomme every attractive maso they come across.

Who said I'm "lookign" to cyberdomme? We start chatting, and it comes up that they're in college, looking to cyberdomme until they finish their degree. Then, the pattern emerges, like clockwork.

But I'm not going to avoid messaging a girl just because she doesn't have a very thorough and detailed profile. If anything, I message her with questions that her profile doesn't answer!

I'm currently chatting with a scorching hot Asian chick in the UK who seems very, very real. She isn't looking to finish anything. She's acknowledged the possibility of dropping everything if she finds Mr. Perfect.

But she's also being very realistic about dropping everything. She's not going to drop everything at the drop of a hat (no pun intended). He really does have to be Mr. Perfect, and that's going to take a long time to convince her that I am. So ... she's being realistic.

So please, don't go accusing me of "wanting to cyberdom every attractive maso." Many of these don't even have pics in their profiles!


If this happens everytime you start chatting with hot college chicks and they say they are looking to cyberdomme until they finish their degree, then why do you continue to pursue them. You already know how it's going to turn out so why not go for a different approach. And when I say different I don't mean start chatting with a chick in another country, I mean someone close by who you might have a chance to actually meet. Or you could go another few months and come back to start a thread on why that scorching hot asian chick won't leave the UK to travel and see you.

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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/8/2014 6:46:17 AM   
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There's so many things wrong with what you said I'm going to break it down for you.
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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd


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Well let's see. You're chatting up women, trying to get more pictures out of them and demanding they inflict pain on themselves for you. Sounds like cyberdomming to me, or the beginnings thereof. Even if you're not "looking," you've certainly found it.


I would appreciate it if you would actually understand what I'm saying before you start accusing me of shit. If I'm not being clear, you can always ask questions.

And I'm only interested in "cyber" domming to start. Slaves would have to relocate eventually, per my rules. It's just ... what can they offer me in the meantime?

OK, In that case you are the one responsible for the hand you are dealt. Not only are you "domming" online without cam verification, you are getting some sort of gratification out of it AND promoting these men to continue what they do for their "kink fix", same as you.

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Besides, Cyberdomming, in and of itself, is an honorable arrangement (well ... honorable by BDSM standards). It helps decide if the two are compatible as partners and as soulmates, in a low-risk environment. There's nothing inherently wrong with cyberdomming, as long as both parties are acting mutually, putting forth mutual effort, and there's a mutual meeting of the minds between them. Case in point: The aforementioned Asian British girl!


Then I see no problem here. Especially since you knowingly indulge without verification time and time again. What is the definition of "insanity"?
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But yes, they're most likely lying to you. Maybe it's a bunch of individuals jumping on some new technique to get wank fodder, or maybe it's an organized romance scam effort.

My guess is that it's the former. I highly doubt it's an organized romance scam effort, seeing as how some of them have made some bullshit attempt at proving that they're real by offering to relocate at their expense (rather than mine) and even take out huge loans (seeing as how they won't need their credit rating afterwards) to give ME money when they arrive, rather than asking me to send THEM money!

My guess is they're men and you're both wanking to "unrealistic fantasies". Also, how generous of them to relocate at their expense, despite a refusal to show their face,and,oh wait, they never have thus far so a fleeting promise to "get the show on the road" is just that. It's 2014, everyone has a webcam or microphone if they are on a personal computer. They're obviously using you to live out "fantasies" online and from the time you indulge you give willful consent.

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Sounds, to me, like the complete opposite of a romance scam.

Only problem is ... most of them are years away from graduation, so that's a trivial reward in my opinion.

Wow, then pretend they're what you think and wank away, but they are what the internet savvy call catfish or "g.i.r.l". Guys in real life. I can spot them a mile away. When I called one out, her response was "so?" LOL.


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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/8/2014 6:16:16 PM   
domincalifornia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stebbinsd

I'm noticing a strange pattern amongst masochists, and I'm starting to wonder if this is really, really contrived. I won't name names, because that got me in trouble once before. But this is really ... really ... really contrived!

A single instance of this, by itself, doesn't really raise much suspicion. It's when I keep seeing this (and when I say this, I mean ... this exact combination) that makes it seem suspicious. It's like how the Nostalgia Critic - in his most recent Commercials episode - pointed out that all the Sunny Delight commercials had the kids passing by milk, soda, and "purple stuff," but every commercial - despite depicting a different family - had the EXACT same other drinks in their fridge, in the EXACT same order! This, according to him, was what was weird.

Here's the strange pattern I'm noticing out of slaves who come on here, looking for a master to torture them relentlessly in the most cruel and extreme ways imaginable:

They are all willing to give me a single picture of themselves, but that's it. The first picture, they give without hesitation. But anything beyond that? Nope, that's leaking too much about themselves on the Internet!

But strangely, they are all in college, seeking a master to dominate them online until they can finish their degrees. Fine, but here's where it gets weird:

- They are all unwilling to show themselves on webcam.

- They are all looking to completely disappear after graduating. This would seem to suggest that their college education would be worthless to them, but they all insist on finishing it anyway because ... fuck you, that's why.

- They aren't even willing to so much as show a picture of the injuries I have them inflict upon themselves. Why? Because ... well ... privacy, that's why. Even though their privacy is only supposed to last until they graduate (getting a degree that they will never use, simply for the sake of having it).

Look, I can imagine that there's a "no limits" slave out there like that. This scenario, standing by itself, seems plausible enough, and the "privacy" argument does make a small amount of sense. However, as this EXACT COMBINATION appears on about a half a dozen or so slaves makes me wonder if this is all some elaborate gag!

I wonder ... is anyone else noticing this trend? This really bizzare swarm of college-aged masochists who are looking to satisfy their pain fetish, but won't even reveal who they are, beyond a single damned photo, and who want to finish their degree because ... reasons? And they won't do diddly shit for you until then, but oh, they want you to torture them!

This reminds me of an article I read on cracked.com once. It was written by a cop, who had been told by countless arrestees who got caught with drugs in their pockets "These aren't my pants." This was the first thing that popped into their minds, and lo and behold, everyone else who gets caught (dare I say ... with their pants down?!) has the same idea!

This cop's joke (since cracked.com is a comedy site first and foremost) in response to this trend was "apparently there's some giant pool of pants that I'm not aware of, and hundreds of guys just pick their pants randomly out of that pile," or something to that effect.

So, anyone else noticing this swarm of contrived masochists on here?



I haven't noticed the same pattern as you. That said, I would give up on these people way way way earlier than you do, because from your description it's pretty obvious to me that these are fakes. so I wouldn't experience the pattern. My guess is you've just been providing a lot of free entertainment for a lot of middle-aged gay men.

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RE: Anyone else running into this problem, on here? - 12/8/2014 6:23:07 PM   
domincalifornia


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd


My guess is that it's the former. I highly doubt it's an organized romance scam effort, seeing as how some of them have made some bullshit attempt at proving that they're real by offering to relocate at their expense (rather than mine) and even take out huge loans (seeing as how they won't need their credit rating afterwards) to give ME money when they arrive, rather than asking me to send THEM money!



Actually, that sounds like a pretty typical bait-and-switch online scam to me. They probably hook people in by offering to give you money and pay for moving (though of course they never actually give you money or move). And after a while of building your trust, some emergency happens -- zounds they're father is deathly ill -- and they no longer have money and need your help. In fact the setup you describe sounds like Online Scamming 101 to me.

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