Musicmystery
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~FR~ I get the point folks make about lowering limits and regretting it--been there. But I also believe such rules should be worn lightly and comfortably, keeping us warm and safe, but not straight-jackets restricting our options. I've also always allowed room for pleasant surprises. My fiancée was such a girl...wanted to get to know her, and ended up being surprised that she was several delightful things I wanted that I didn't know about--including wanting to wear my collar, as well as being an exceptional partner.
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