ThirdWheelWanted -> RE: Montana homeowner found guilty in slaying of German exchange student (12/27/2014 4:12:28 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery Way to say things I didn't say, let alone someone to whom I didn't say them. Difference being -- you're not always whining about it. That's not "blaming the victim," but rather, stop playing the victim. And...90% of what Bama says is bullshit. When called on it, he goes off on tangents. Apparently, that's a strategy you're contemplating as well. I love my home. That wasn't always the case. And I simply wouldn't live long-term somewhere I didn't love. If you would, I can only say we disagree. Extremely. Let's be clear here, in a thread about a Montana home-owner killing an exchange student and going to prison because of it, you directed a post to Bama suggesting that if his neighborhood made him feel so unsafe he should move. And you're complaining about other people going off on a tangent? As has been mentioned to others from time to time, once you make a thread or a post, anyone is free to respond. I'm in a similar situation to Bama, so I thought I'd weigh in. As to "saying things you didn't say", I'd have to disagree. You asked a question. I asked a question to clarify yours, and further stated that it sounded like victim-blaming to me. You may not like the implication I drew from your question, but that's not the same as "saying things you didn't say" or putting words in your mouth. I'm glad that you have the option to be able to say that you wouldn't live somewhere you didn't love. For some strange reason, not everyone has that option. Just maybe, my home is worth considerably less then I paid for it, due to the economy and the burst housing bubble. Maybe, I had to take medical assistance for my wife, when she spent years dying of cancer, and her medical bills were hundreds of thousands of dollars a year. Maybe, they can't touch my house as long as I live here, but they can come after any proceeds if I sell. But feel free to disagree (extremely or otherwise) with my "decision" to stay in an area I don't absolutely love.
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