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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Try reading the replies, honey.

I posted this to see what Doms had to say...not subs, anyway! If I wanted your opinion I would have posted in ask a sub...

Your opinion can be kept to yourself!

Of course you did and of course you posted it here just to hear from Doms. I'm afraid some do not respect your desire and somehow try and make you feel wrong in suggesting they respect your wishes. Somehow they feel you should hear their opinion even if you obviously don't want it. There is a legitimate reason for wanting answers from a targeted audience, but since they don't respect you, then perhaps you should simpy not reply to them. Let them post and you focus on those you want to read because that is your right.

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Your post, Arturas, was not a direct answer to the original question. Should you be admonished for that? After all... the OP's hissy fit that you are responding to is not a question, but a statement... and the name of the forum is ASK a master... making it clear - if you want to be literal - that only questions and answers are permitted

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ORIGINAL: SinFix

Just a general observation, but has anyone else noticed that only subs posting questions in the "ask a master" forum ever have hissy fits when anybody other than a dominant posts a response. I have yet to see one throw a fit because a dominant responded in the "ask a submissive" forum...

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: SinFix

Just a general observation, but has anyone else noticed that only subs posting questions in the "ask a master" forum ever have hissy fits when anybody other than a dominant posts a response. I have yet to see one throw a fit because a dominant responded in the "ask a submissive" forum...

Shhhhhh...you're not supposed to notice that.[;)]

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ORIGINAL: SinFix

Lol.. well damn it, why didn't I get the memo? I never get the memo [:(]

Though our endearing Arty, loves to point out the fact that subs shouldn't post here given the name, has no problem being hypocritical and posting in ask a sub.. which begs the question.. Is he a switch hitter?


Edit cause of the sadistic bastard that created auto fill and auto correct..

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ORIGINAL: PavlovsPup

You're right and he's an ignorant ass and NOT a Dom for you.
His "style" might work for some on this site but don't go against what you want. EVER.
No one - not even "the one" is worth that and when you find "the one" He will understand and respect your wants, needs and "rules."
Be careful - trust your instincts - don't do anything you are not comfortable with.

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ORIGINAL: Bhruic

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Try reading the replies, honey.

I posted this to see what Doms had to say...not subs, anyway! If I wanted your opinion I would have posted in ask a sub...

Your opinion can be kept to yourself!

Of course you did and of course you posted it here just to hear from Doms. I'm afraid some do not respect your desire and somehow try and make you feel wrong in suggesting they respect your wishes. Somehow they feel you should hear their opinion even if you obviously don't want it. There is a legitimate reason for wanting answers from a targeted audience, but since they don't respect you, then perhaps you should simpy not reply to them. Let them post and you focus on those you want to read because that is your right.

Everyone, especially intelligent adults, always has the option of listening only to the answers they want to hear. But if you don't want to be exposed to everyone's opinion, perhaps don't shout your question to the world at large?

In spite of the title of the forum, it is public and open to everyone.

Your post, Arturas, was not a direct answer to the original question. Should you be admonished for that? After all... the OP's hissy fit that you are responding to is not a question, but a statement... and the name of the forum is ASK a master... making it clear - if you want to be literal - that only questions and answers are permitted.

;-)

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ORIGINAL: Bhruic

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ORIGINAL: Arturas

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ORIGINAL: iwillsurrnder

Try reading the replies, honey.

I posted this to see what Doms had to say...not subs, anyway! If I wanted your opinion I would have posted in ask a sub...

Your opinion can be kept to yourself!

Of course you did and of course you posted it here just to hear from Doms. I'm afraid some do not respect your desire and somehow try and make you feel wrong in suggesting they respect your wishes. Somehow they feel you should hear their opinion even if you obviously don't want it. There is a legitimate reason for wanting answers from a targeted audience, but since they don't respect you, then perhaps you should simpy not reply to them. Let them post and you focus on those you want to read because that is your right.

Everyone, especially intelligent adults, always has the option of listening only to the answers they want to hear. But if you don't want to be exposed to everyone's opinion, perhaps don't shout your question to the world at large?

In spite of the title of the forum, it is public and open to everyone.

Your post, Arturas, was not a direct answer to the original question. Should you be admonished for that? After all... the OP's hissy fit that you are responding to is not a question, but a statement... and the name of the forum is ASK a master... making it clear - if you want to be literal - that only questions and answers are permitted.

;-)

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ORIGINAL: SinFix

That is why I think they should rename these two forums or only allow the group noted to post, ie. only master/doms in this section and sub/slave in the other. While it is not all that confusing to most, it would cut out the snarky hissy fits new subs get when posting in this section and they get a response from a fellow submissive...

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ORIGINAL: SinFix

lol.. mo anam.. I didn't say that for you, but as a suggestion to make this the happy feel good zone that the majority want to make this place..

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ORIGINAL: SinFix

That is why I think they should rename these two forums or only allow the group noted to post, ie. only master/doms in this section and sub/slave in the other. While it is not all that confusing to most, it would cut out the snarky hissy fits new subs get when posting in this section and they get a response from a fellow submissive...

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ORIGINAL: SinFix

Livespark that is kind of the point of this forum "ask a master" it should either be just that.. sub/doms asking dom/masters questions... or it should be renamed to show that all can answer in here.. same goes for the sub forum

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ORIGINAL: SinFix

LOL.. I know I skipped that class, I instead went to the seduce tyrants class, much more fun and entertaining...

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But to stay somewhat on topic here, OP came onto this forum to pose a question to "masters", got answers from all types though resented the fact she got answers from fellow submissives. In all fairness, is that hazing? giving the name of the forum, should submissives keep their perspectives to themselves even though it could be very beneficial to newbies? The majority of newbs that come here, have that "cluelessness" about them of one true wayism, and would it benefit these forums to either "rename" them or keep status quo that has "regulars" appearing to haze and drive off the newcomers?