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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 5/16/2005 7:00:07 AM   
cellogrrlMK


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ORIGINAL: Searching41

In the first place, if E/everyone would fill out T/their profile as to what they are looking for instead of poetry or BS, there wouldn't be a problem. Filling out your profile, as to what you want, what age group, if you will relocate, if you are looking for a M/male, F/female, or C/couple is like a spamkiller, it will eliminate a lot of trash mail.


In a perfect world, yes Searching41, that might work. Probably not though.

One of the things that's so cool about this site is that there are many people on this site who are not looking for anything other than comraderie, not a life partner, not a play partner, just people who like to read and share on the message boards or just meet for coffee, a drink, or a meal and to make friends. They state that in their profiles very clearly. It's a community site, not a dating site, although it can be used that way for people who ARE looking. Many of the profiles also state what age group they are seeking. Do you think that stops the trolls from sending them emails? Uh, nope!

Common courtesy is a precious commodity and there are a lot of people who simply do not possess it or are to insecure with themselves to just say "okay, no problem" when they recieve a response that says "Thank you, but I'm looking for someone older/younger, whatever the case may be.

cello

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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 5/16/2005 12:41:20 PM   
BobcatsLilMinx


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Status: offline 		My Master is quite a lot older than me, but I am his first slave, so age definitely does not indicate experience.
I prefer someone older, as I've found older men are more likely to be patient with my psychological problems. Younger men, without much actual life experience, have much more of a tendency to be embarrassed by irrational outbursts and unpredictable mood swings - also, it can require some real care and understanding, and a lot of younger men aren't comfortable having somebody be literally dependent on them.

Of course, this is only generally speaking... but I've never met a 21 year old who could be there for me in the way that I need, as an older man can. Also, life experience is a huge turn on for me. A man who's travelled the world will hold my fascination much easier than some young surfer in CA who believes Los Angeles is the biggest city in the world... and that Wales is the capital of England... *shakes her head*

Minx

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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 6/13/2005 12:39:04 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Now i am not saying the either is right or wrong. I have always liked older men. My later Master was 22 years my senior. I just think older man take more time and can sometimes be more creative then youngers guys. They have the experience.

If you are both happy i say more power to you.


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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 6/13/2005 1:30:09 PM   
pygmalionsub


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Status: offline 		I have always prefered slightly older men (10-15 years). My husband is 9 years older then me. For awhile I said No to much older Doms older then around 45-50. But i recently found one to train with who is 52 whom i adore, and i have a great time talking with him. However i'm not looking to marry him or have a relationship other then to experience some new things in the BDSM realm.

I have a hard time with guys my age(25) at this point, just because its rare to find any that have alot more experience then i do. And i'm not the type to let a Dom learn on me. I want some one who is already well experienced, and those in their 20's are few and far between.

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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 6/13/2005 5:16:52 PM   
stormsfate


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Status: offline 		I definately prefer older. My owner is 15 years older than I (and he almost discounted me when we met because I was "too young" at 28). I've always felt that older men are more mature and have interests more in line with mine than do younger gentlemen. Those who are dominant seem to come more into their "power" (a word that isn't exactly what I mean, but I don't feel like writing a long post to explain) in their 40's, imo.


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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 6/13/2005 5:55:23 PM   
fourpeas


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Status: offline 		I was born in the wrong age period. My Dom is 18 years older than me, and I have always, always, ALWAYS dated older men. It's just how I'm wired, I think. And I just want to be with someone whose goals and interests are in line with mine, and I've always found that to be the case with older men. Vanilla or no. So that's my two cents. ;)

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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 6/13/2005 6:43:54 PM   
fencerpet19


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Status: offline 		My first Master is 10 years older than me at 30, and I've had experience with younger Doms around my age. The way I see it, the younger ones (for me this means 18 to 25 or so) have no idea what they're doing. They haven't had much sex at all and are inexperienced in that way, let alone as a Dominant. I heard a quote once that "BDSM is advanced sex", so if the sexual part sucks, you need to fix that before breaking out the whips and chains. Aside from lack of sexual experience they also haven't taken the time to understand a D/s relationship from the submissive's perspective, and therefore don't know what it is we crave out of the relaitonship. ie: the slightest protest from me and they back down.

It's because of this that I prefer my Doms to be at least 5 years older than I am. As a side note, I'm getting back with my first Master whom I love and care deeply about. The thing is, I think he feels that I'm a bit too young for him.... Agh! why is age such a problem!! haha. I guess we'll see where it leads

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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 6/14/2005 3:08:23 AM   
subversiveone


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Status: offline 		All of my Doms have been older, save for the one i married, who wasn't so much a Dom as a sex addict! I've met men 5 years older than me who'd been in the life since early teens and had tons of experience yet weren't a good match, and conversely lived w/a 53 yr old at the age of 25 who'd been into it for less than i had. You never know! Now im with a man 15 yrs older who has limited experience but is open to learning, which is sometimes rare in this scene. So, my lesson has been, look past the dust jacket, past the cover, past the preface and start reading the book before you judge it. You may get a sweet surprise like i recently did!
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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 6/14/2005 4:06:31 PM   
dougadams


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Status: offline 		I reckon the guys will say it doesn't matter and the girls will (being in the main smarter and not thinking with dicks instead of brains) say that +10 -2 is about the best spread of ages. Naturally we'll find a few that think otherwise but for a long-term sustainable friendship when the sex is no the only focus, you have to be somewhere in that space.

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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 6/14/2005 4:12:33 PM   
RiotGirl


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Even though I won't do OR belive any of these things, I was just curious about others submissive's experience.


Just to answer the question. i got alot of the same things when i was looking. But i was looking for older, but not completely older. Being 24 at the time, i didnt want a 50 year old. And actually i wasnt looking for some one my age either. i felt a man around my age would have little experience and just be plain incompatible. As i've never really dated guys my age (but once which was a disaster) i looked for older, but not older older. Yeah it was ageist, but oh well. Just didnt think a guy my age could cut it.

and Master is a year younger then me, with more experience, who "cuts" it quite well.

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RE: Young slave Versus Old Master - 6/14/2005 6:35:38 PM   
cltcdrd


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Status: offline 		My late Master (rest his soul) was 23 years older than I was. At the time that we first met, I was only 16 (he was 39); when I turned 18, we were married.

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