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slavebabe -> going down..... (11/25/2004 8:26:19 PM)

to all the D's out there.if i may ask...can you tell me please why some Masters do not go down on there slaves...is it a feeling of loosing the D factor or what i am confused..please help me with your points of view

slavebabe



ManicVortex -> RE: going down..... (11/25/2004 9:45:28 PM)

I am not sure why they wouldn't. I love going down on my slave, it brings me great pleasure. I did ask myself a similiar question, as in going down on my slave if it makes me less Dominate and it doesn't by a long shot hehe. My slave asked wasn't she suppose to be the one going down on me most of the time and I said NO , it's my pleasure to do as I wish.
*shrugs*









Estring -> RE: going down..... (11/25/2004 10:47:47 PM)

Some men for some reason think it is icky to go down on a woman. In my opinion they are missing out on one of lifes great pleasures.



BeachMystress -> RE: going down..... (11/26/2004 4:20:22 AM)


There isn't anything inherently Dominant or submissive about oral sex. I, at times, enjoy giving my sub a blow job. It is who is in control of any act that makes it a dominant or submissive.



masteroffire -> RE: going down..... (11/26/2004 12:42:36 PM)

As mentioned by other, it will vary from Dom/me to Dom/me. This is not something that would make them more or less dominate in any way. It is just their personaly preference. I personally enjoy going down on my slave. I do know there are those who do not, that is their choice and in my opinion their loss.




MRonin -> RE: going down..... (11/26/2004 3:55:13 PM)

This is a question that has been asked many times. My answer is usually the same, if you find out why they wont go down on their subs/slave I'd like for you to let me know because I really don't understand. I get that people (even in a vanilla context) have preferences that lead to them liking or not liking oral sex. What I don't get is this idea that going down on your slave some how makes one less Dominant, that bit of pretzel logic just escapes me.



Nagatzhul -> RE: going down..... (11/26/2004 9:42:33 PM)

Like there is just one reason? Everyone is different and everyone has their own reasons. But the dominants have the choice not to do so. And some might even be valid, from other's point of view.

For example, maybe it does not encourage the right head space in the submissive. If the submissive views oral sex as a submissive action, it may leave them "out of it" for an extended period.



Falcor64 -> RE: going down..... (11/26/2004 11:39:56 PM)

slavebabe,
I think it has more to do with personal preferences, as Estring said, rather than D/s issues. For what it's worth, my perspective is that given that I'm in control of her pleasure, it can be quite "domly", and in general a lot of fun for everyone. [:D]
One other issue- practices vary across ethnic lines as well- Caucasian men are more likely than African-american or Hispanic men to give oral sex. There are cultural and religious norms at work here, too.

Regards,
Falcor



cariad -> RE: going down..... (11/27/2004 12:41:14 AM)

this slave has a question in regards to deep throating, she's done it but gags quite a bit and would like to know if there is a way she can do it without gagging?

have any of You found Your subs/slaves had this problem and if so what did You do to help them?

this slave wants so much to be able to please Master by doing this but as she said, she gags quite a bit and gets flustered and embarassed that she does.

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proudsub -> RE: going down..... (11/27/2004 12:50:51 AM)

There are some pointers here:

problems with deep throating



cariad -> RE: going down..... (11/27/2004 12:56:37 AM)

thank you proudsub, this slave appreciates your help very much and will look into the posts you suggested.

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Nvernilla -> RE: going down..... (11/27/2004 9:57:41 AM)

I love to go down on my slaves too. I don't think this is a matter of dominance or submission just a matter of personal taste. I find it is a fast way to build the heat I like in my slaves................Mike



Kwix -> RE: going down..... (11/28/2004 5:39:34 PM)

Mmmm, going down on a sub. Now there is a good time waiting to happen. I don't feel that it is in any way relinquishing my dominance. I do it only when I feel like it, and that is it. Because my sub likes it, I try to use it as a treat for learning/doing something well. As an aside, I find it much easier when my sub is bound spread-eagle (much less likely to crush my cranium at orgasm [:D])



warhammer2112 -> RE: going down..... (11/28/2004 6:49:14 PM)

I can't understand why some Dom's don't like to "go down" on their slaves or submissives(provideing the submissve is available for such). I personally use it as a form of torture and control.



Estring -> RE: going down..... (11/28/2004 10:11:10 PM)

quote:

I personally use it as a form of torture and control.


Torturing a girl through oral sex is not something I would brag about. [:D]



MrThorns -> RE: going down..... (11/29/2004 6:26:02 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Estring

quote:

I personally use it as a form of torture and control.


Torturing a girl through oral sex is not something I would brag about. [:D]


lol..I would. Nothing quite like watching a girl squirm and beg, plead, cry wanting what she knows you can provide.

(Master giveth and Master taketh away whenever Master is damned good and ready... so wait, little bitch.)

I think that getting those little whimpers is definately something to be proud of.

~Thorns



Estring -> RE: going down..... (11/29/2004 10:26:14 PM)

quote:

I think that getting those little whimpers is definately something to be proud of.


There is good torture and there is bad torture. I was making a joke about the bad kind. I'm sure the girls understand.[;)]



MrTed -> RE: going down..... (12/7/2004 12:04:49 PM)

[:)] I love going down on my sub....so I agree it is not a submissive act if I choose to do it. and yes controling the act and when she may have her Orgasm is a great power to hold.Wish I could go into detail on the last time I gave her oral pleasure.....WOW!!!! FOR BOTH OF US. But this may not be the place.

MrTed



MC2044 -> RE: going down..... (12/10/2004 2:17:08 PM)

Estring said it, and I agree with him.



blimabean -> RE: going down..... (12/12/2004 9:37:07 AM)

I Totally agree with Estring! Nothing like seeing My slave squirm in lust, from My tantalizing tongue, well-placed kisses, or devilish bites!



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