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needy people - 1/16/2015 2:27:10 PM   
kateisreal


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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 2:34:26 PM   
MasterVenom13


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ORIGINAL: kateisreal

One thing I hate are people who are so needy that they bug me to tell them about myself I tell them to please read my profile

Okay disregard what I said earlier just ignore them.

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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 2:43:02 PM   
needlesandpins


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Status: offline 		you'll still be giving it a ffs in years to come, because it never gets any better no matter what your profile says. even if it starts with NOT LOOKING, don't ask because the answer is no. You'll still get some idiot that proceeds to send you some cut and paste drivel that he thinks is so important. of course they are just that special that it doesn't matter that they don't even fit what you would be looking for, because you'll change just for them!

the best thing you can do is just ignore them, or when the mood takes you, as it does with me occasionally, toy nasty with them. they don't like it, whinge like bitches, and suddenly you are not the bestest of the most best any more, but a fat ugly fake that no-one will ever want lol

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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 2:52:59 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		I don't understand being upset, to me someone asking for more information means they want to get to know me. No matter how detailed a profile is, there is still a lot unsaid.

If I've zero interest I either tell them that or ignore if they've pestered me.

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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 3:01:02 PM   
DesFIP


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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 6:12:03 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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People actually ask you to tell you a little bit about yourself as a means of having a conversation and getting to know you???



Those fucking needy assholes. How dare they try to get to know more about the person behind the computer screen!
I hate being the one to burst your bubble, but your profile honestly doesn't say very much about you at all.

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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 6:27:25 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		That's not needy...

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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 7:14:05 PM   
Gauge


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ORIGINAL: kateisreal

One thing I hate are people who are so needy that they bug me to tell them about myself I tell them to please read my profile


So, tell us about yourself.



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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 7:27:11 PM   
InHisHeart


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Status: offline 		So you're complaining about them doing what your profile invites them to do?



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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 7:28:19 PM   
Musicmystery


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ORIGINAL: kateisreal

One thing I hate are people who are so needy that they bug me to tell them about myself I tell them to please read my profile

1) I don't like you already, just from this insight into your personality
2) Glanced at your profile and journal -- it says very little about you.

Maybe just tell people you aren't really interested. Or just don't read your mail. Or hide your profile so that can't find you in the first place.

Real people -- since "real" seems so important for you to stress -- get to know each other. They chat.

Try it. It can be fun. So can actually meeting real people.

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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 7:28:27 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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ORIGINAL: Gauge


quote:

ORIGINAL: kateisreal

One thing I hate are people who are so needy that they bug me to tell them about myself I tell them to please read my profile


So, tell us about yourself.




There ya go gettin' all needy, Gauge

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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 7:45:44 PM   
RockaRolla


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Status: offline 		But she's real. And that's what most of the HNGs on this site really need to know, right? Maybe she wants to skip straight into play.

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RE: needy people - 1/16/2015 10:38:49 PM   
seekingreality


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ORIGINAL: kateisreal

One thing I hate are people who are so needy that they bug me to tell them about myself I tell them to please read my profile

But
I think what's bothering you is not their neediness but their laziness. It is tiresome for people to contact you with nothing more than "hi" or "tell me about yourself" because they are expecting you to do all the work and start the conversation.

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RE: needy people - 1/17/2015 12:14:50 AM   
ResidentSadist


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RE: needy people - 1/17/2015 12:37:12 AM   
DaddySatyr


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I'm relatively fluent in several languages so let me help y'all out:

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ORIGINAL: kateisreal

One thing I hate are people who are so needy that they bug me to tell them about myself I tell them to please read my profile



... translates to: "Please look at my profile. I'm not getting enough attention"

Thank you for your attention. That is all.



Michael

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RE: needy people - 1/17/2015 4:31:04 AM   
LiveSpark


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quote:

ORIGINAL: seekingreality


quote:

ORIGINAL: kateisreal

One thing I hate are people who are so needy that they bug me to tell them about myself I tell them to please read my profile

But
I think what's bothering you is not their neediness but their laziness. It is tiresome for people to contact you with nothing more than "hi" or "tell me about yourself" because they are expecting you to do all the work and start the conversation.

Oo! oo! oo! just got an idea! I'm going to send all the people whose only contact is "Hi". She won't be interested in "Tell me about yourself" they are the needy ones.

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RE: needy people - 1/17/2015 5:13:52 AM   
Kana


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One thing I hate are people who are so needy that they bug me to tell them about myself I tell them to please read my profile

"Tonight I say, we must move forward, not backward; upward, not forward; and always twirling, twirling, twirling towards freedom!"

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RE: needy people - 1/17/2015 5:17:21 AM   
LiveSpark


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ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: kateisreal

One thing I hate are people who are so needy that they bug me to tell them about myself I tell them to please read my profile

"Tonight I say, we must move forward, not backward; upward, not forward; and always twirling, twirling, twirling towards freedom!"


We just came THAT close to needing to replace my laptop. Thankfully I did not spray the mouthful of coffee all over the screen - literally not figuratively as so many claim. Bravo Kana you win the internetz.

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RE: needy people - 1/17/2015 7:14:27 AM   
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LOL THanks Kana


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RE: needy people - 1/17/2015 7:15:53 AM   
LiveSpark


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