seekingreality -> RE: FYI Ladies: Memes for photos = "Might Be A Man". (1/26/2015 9:04:10 PM)
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ORIGINAL: EvilGirlWantd FYI Ladies: If your profile picture is a Meme or a Sex Toy or some guy's ass or a series of porn photos, the first impression the viewer will have is to wonder if you might be a man. I mean this respectfully: This impression is not your fault, ladies. It's all the males posing as women to try to manipulate other users. However, so you know, memes for photos = "Might Be A Man". That is all. I assume you are well meaning, but people don't come off well when they present their personal subjective opinion/experience as some universal truth. You would have done better writing: "When I see that a woman's profile picture is a Meme or a Sex Toy or some guy's ass or a series of porn photos, the first impression I have is to wonder if she might be a man. Anyone feel that same way?" See the difference: In my version, you are opening a discussion rather than giving a lecture (and no offense people look like asses when they start a thread to give a lecture and end by saying "That is all," as if to suggest no comment is acceptable other than applause). Also, in my version, you are open to the idea that other people might disagree with your opinion (which clearly some do). Also, keep in mind that your forum postings can be easily searched from your profile, so if you are looking for dominant women, you don't serve yourself with a thread that makes you look snide and thin-skinned.
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