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BuxomGoddess714 -> RE: loving and caring Dommes? (8/2/2006 7:45:52 PM)
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Porn has had too much of an influence IMO. There has been a huge shift since the internet and everyone got horny watching what it is that we do. A Dom/me used to be someone with a truly Dominant personality who acted that out in the Lifestyle. Now, there is a lot of role playing going on, weekend warriors, "TOPS" calling themselves Dom/mes and bottoms calling themselves subs. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Have fun. Imitation is the highest form of flattery.
But do not mistake MY kindness for weakness. I control My environment, and I prefer a peaceful, calm existance. If I have to beat the crap out of someone to make them behave, that is serving their needs, not Mine. They are in control, not Me. If someone is acting out and I have to punish them all the time, I have no use for them. They need to go. Let them go pay a ProDomme to get their jollies and needs met. My needs are met by someone willingly worshipping Me and serving Me. That means I don't need to be a bitch. I'm a Goddess. Being a bitch gives me grey hair and hypertension. Worrying about a brat is stressful, Who needs it? The sub I have had for 5 years will break down in tears when I calmly (but firmly) correct her as she lives to please Me. My son was the same way when he was young, because I am a good Mother. I never spanked him, I just kept control of My home and he loves Me. I am a powerful, smart, demanding Woman, thats what a Domme is, isn't it? My voice is enough. The people who have stayed in My life for many years go out of their way to please Me, and I let them know they have My favor. They seek to please Me, that is what a true submissive lives for. Thats why I have submissives who have been loyal to Me for over 30 years and they are devestated if they displease Me. That is Dominance. They do not live for getting the crap beat out of them or being abused. Thats a Masochist. I am a Domme, not a Sadist. There is a big difference. My most cruel method of discipline is to ignore a sub. My TRUE loyal subs who want nothing more then My attention and to be near Me, that is the most cruel punishment I can dish out, believe Me. Bondage, whips, chains, spankings are for scening and play and saved for people who are in My favor. That stuff is fun. I can put on leather, fishnets, boots and role play, too. Thats for Saturday night, parties and dungeoun scenes, not 24/7. The difference between Who and What I really am, how I run my household and role playing.
So the problem isn't that the Domme's are being too Loving and Caring. Dominants are Who they are. The problem is that so called "submissives" are not really submissive. They are just horny wanker bottoms who want to get spanked, fisted and forced to do things their pussy homophobic asses aren't man enough to do on their own. Send them to the prostitutes and get a real submissive. We do not yield to them. Its the other way around, dears.
Be blessed,
Goddess
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