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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/21/2015 2:12:34 PM   
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Yup. In my world, it's entire cover down. Everyone has to lower and raise with each bathroom break.

Very simple.


No matter what?


I don't follow. That's how it works in my home, with my subs. It not only works fairly, but it also protects the world from some of this:

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8 studies since 1955 have documented the validity of toilet flush aerosolization of toilet water bacteria and viruses. In 2012 Best,et al in the Journal of Hospital infection (V80 p1), showed that Clostridium Difficile bacteria from toilet flush aerosolization went airborne whether you put the lid down or not, though less were airborne with the lid down. Fecal clouds can be produced 20 flushes after initial contamination.




Well, seems MzzJennifer tapped out, so...

This has been a very interesting drive down solipsism ln, I would've exited early, but it was such a train wreck I had to just stay on the clover leaf and keep circling, the depths of the solipsistic wasn't readily apparent... well, in all the admitted solipsists at least... until the toilet seat debate, then I could see clearly just how long and dreary that highway truly was.

For me, up, down, all up, all down, doesn't really matter. I personally prefer all down, but there was a time when I graduated from a wheelchair to crutches and lacked the ability to lift the toilet seat up. Now, tipping it down with a crutch was no big deal, gravity is your friend, but becomes your enemy when you cannot bend down to grab the lid and have to rely on a crutch to work such a simple, yet cunningly difficult, device.

What I found, through all those years on crutches, was those that insisted that the "Man" put the lid down, did not give one fuck how difficult it was on you, regardless of how obvious the impairment is/was, even and especially when they came into my home. When I see someone blathering on and on about the horrors of leaving it up, that is a solipsists I'm just going to avoid because their self centered nature is going to override my civility at some point and it's going to get UGLY.

Now, I know so many people are going to read this and go, WTF?!?!? but at some point, most of you've been out with this person that has treated the waiter/waitress like shit just because they can, because that is what solipsism is all about, and oddly enough, a toilet seat debate reveals a lot about a person.

Now, Nookie, I am going to guess that all seats down is your preference, and I am going to assume I know you well enough to know that when it came to accommodating someone, nothing (especially a toilet seat), would really get in the way of you considering their needs.

Jus sayin

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/21/2015 3:53:14 PM   
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From woman and money to toilet seats, I love this place. :)

My take on toilet seats is.....I don't care. Up, down, take the seat off if you want, as long as I have a place to go, it's all good. Behind a bush works for me if need be, I grew up hiking almost every weekend and spending many weekends camping in the woods, real camping, not fluffy camping at state parks that have a showerhouse and restroom. In my corner of the world, just need to make sure no copperheads are hanging around chosen bush. I don't know from experience because I never pee'd or pooped on a copperhead but I'm assuming they wouldn't appreciate it.

Toilet seats up or down, how the toilet paper is put on the roller and so many other meaningless petty things don't register on my radar screen. I might get a tad bit annoyed at a glob of toothpaste left in the sink, or some whiskers not rinsed away, I'm a clean freak like that but any annoyance I might feel passes in about 1.2 seconds.

Too many significant things in life to think about, I'm not going to get my panties all twisted over things that have no impact on my life.



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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/21/2015 3:54:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yah, we had a lot of bathroom modifying after my easy back surgery...I can't imagine a more difficult back injury. And I knew that is what you were getting at immediately. My guy was nice enough to buy me a tool to help me shave my legs when I was injured, he has never been sexier.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/21/2015 3:56:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Talking about toilet seats, this whole toilet seat up and down thingy seem to be a western thing haha.

Over here, it's never an issue, as in, it never occur to us that a man has to put the seat down after lifting it.

If it's up, we put it down ourselves.

If the toilet is messy due to some idiot man who can't aim, we scold the man for not aiming and messing up the seat. But no issues up or down.

And may I suggest a solution which my x-husband practiced? Men can also sit down on the seat and pee into it. Seriously, it's impossible to leave a mess that way.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/21/2015 5:09:03 PM   
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Talking about toilet seats, this whole toilet seat up and down thingy seem to be a western thing haha.

Over here, it's never an issue, as in, it never occur to us that a man has to put the seat down after lifting it.

If it's up, we put it down ourselves.

If the toilet is messy due to some idiot man who can't aim, we scold the man for not aiming and messing up the seat. But no issues up or down.

And may I suggest a solution which my x-husband practiced? Men can also sit down on the seat and pee into it. Seriously, it's impossible to leave a mess that way.


Not true, at times while sitting and peeing, the force of the stream can push the aim up along the side of the bowl and over the rim.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/22/2015 6:11:20 AM   
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Now, Nookie, I am going to guess that all seats down is your preference, and I am going to assume I know you well enough to know that when it came to accommodating someone, nothing (especially a toilet seat), would really get in the way of you considering their needs.


Truth. PEOPLE are more important than preferences.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/22/2015 6:36:49 AM   
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Not true, at times while sitting and peeing, the force of the stream can push the aim up along the side of the bowl and over the rim.

Not if he use his hands to push his dick facing downwards.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/22/2015 6:52:39 AM   
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I've allowed her to have the fluffy bath mat and toilet mat; but I draw the line at matching seat and roll covers!!



Jesus, FD ... that's a level of female primness that I can't even imagine. Don't you live up north? I didn't think they were like that up north. Does your SO rush off the to kitchen and get you a glass if you look as though you're going to drink beer straight from the tin?

Naaaa, Peon. Born and bred dahn sahff yanno's..... Kent.

If I'd let her, she'd have those matching seat and roll covers.... and in purple no less!!!!
Together with matching His'n'Hers bath towels and mat in front of the wash basin to boot.
Fuck that for a game of soldiers - ain't happening in this house!!

As for the beer.... she brings it to me complete with glass before I've even opened it!
I guess I should be thankful that she does bring it to me.
...And that it's a pucka beer glass


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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/22/2015 10:30:25 AM   
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Anyone coming into this thread to promote themselves and asking for money, will be removed and I'm pretty sure I will growl.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/23/2015 9:32:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Toilet seats? Really?

Over the years, I've learned to be a "look before I sit" sort of gal. The only time this ever became an issue is with my prior partner. The bathroom in the master bedroom did not have its own door-- so he had an option- either put the seat down after using the toilet, or have me put on the light if I got up in the middle of the night to use it. He put the seat down every time.

He had physical issues, and certainly, if putting the seat down were a legitimate issue for him, this wouldn't even have been a conversation.

In my current relationship, we have 2 dogs who just love drinking from the toilet, and we both need to learn to put the lid down.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/23/2015 12:05:26 PM   
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In my current relationship, we have 2 dogs who just love drinking from the toilet, and we both need to learn to put the lid down.


I heard once that they actually prefer toilet water because it doesn't taste as strongly of human-added chemicals.

Disgusting, I know, but dogs have always been uncouth.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/23/2015 5:00:24 PM   
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I work hard and I make good money. I love what money buys for me. When I buy something nice I feel appreciated and I deserve it.

I meet so many women that want me, and men, to buy them nice things. And I'm talking about women I don't know very well. For example, I saw a woman twice, strictly platonic, and she said she wants a boob job and was hoping to find a man to pay for it.

I paid cash for my car and I love it. If someone paid it for me, I just wouldn't feel good about it. The car wouldn't have as much value to it then.

I don't understand why some women want men to pay for all their things. Isn't what they get devalued and not appreciated?

I was corresponding with a woman on this site and she wanted to meet me for lunch, but she would like $100. She isn't a Dominatrix. Don't women realize how difficult it is for people these days? Don't they care?



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They can.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/24/2015 12:20:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Luckily hubs puts the seat down and we always put the top down. We have small animals and we wouldn't chance them getting stuck trying to drink out of the toilet.
...I got lucky. He's great.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/24/2015 5:35:43 AM   
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I informally ask the MODs to put this in polls and random stupidity for the sanity of all us who are SICK of this subject. Do it in memory of Moderator 11.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/24/2015 5:39:32 AM   
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I informally ask the MODs to put this in polls and random stupidity for the sanity of all us who are SICK of this subject. Do it in memory of Moderator 11.


Good thing the universe revolves around you.

Yay!!!! Now we all know how insignificant we are.

Welp... I am off to work at the cloud city salt mines... the new quotas are fucking ruff.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/24/2015 5:49:03 AM   
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I work hard and I make good money. I love what money buys for me. When I buy something nice I feel appreciated and I deserve it.

I meet so many women that want me, and men, to buy them nice things. And I'm talking about women I don't know very well. For example, I saw a woman twice, strictly platonic, and she said she wants a boob job and was hoping to find a man to pay for it.

I paid cash for my car and I love it. If someone paid it for me, I just wouldn't feel good about it. The car wouldn't have as much value to it then.

I don't understand why some women want men to pay for all their things. Isn't what they get devalued and not appreciated?

I was corresponding with a woman on this site and she wanted to meet me for lunch, but she would like $100. She isn't a Dominatrix. Don't women realize how difficult it is for people these days? Don't they care?



If you are a Dominant Man the submissive should cater to you and live by your rules. If you pay it shows you are weak. That's just my professional opinion.

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/24/2015 5:53:44 AM   
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If you are a Dominant Man the submissive should cater to you and live by your rules. If you pay it shows you are weak. That's just my professional opinion.


Oh boy...

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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/24/2015 6:12:22 AM   
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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/24/2015 6:33:00 AM   
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RE: I Don't Understand About Women & Money - 2/24/2015 6:37:49 AM   
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Oh, see. Now we can have a legitimate BDSM discussion as to whether or not that should be considered topping from the bottom of the wallet.


We may need to ask for PROFESSIONAL advice... maybe permission.

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