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Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/8/2015 11:02:35 AM

IcarusBurning

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While this does not directly concern me, I was just driven to wonder (from the profiles of some littles on here) whether Littles should qualify as a separate category or orientation on CM / CSP / whatever we have chosen to call her these days. I believe Littles dont exactly identify themselves as a submissive, and probably even much less so as a slave, so it can be misleading and leave wrong impressions on a potentially great match. How do you reflect on this, ladies and gentlemen?

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/8/2015 4:55:01 PM

DerangedUnit

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Cm is unlikely to ever change it's layout so you pick a box and fill in the "why the box is inaccurate" in your profile. No matter what they offer there will always be ways people don't fit into the box (most people are round).

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/8/2015 8:07:08 PM

IcarusBurning

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hmm i think i agree with you there. there are really so many types of "us" that even adding a couple of categories would barely do justice. thanks for your opinion.

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/8/2015 9:19:55 PM

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Yeah...but this is a BDSM site not just a fetish or kinky site. one thing I have noticed since joining this site is that, while there is a DEFINATE, crossover there is a definate difference between people who identify as "littles"-adults that enjoy childish pursuits, TV shows..and those that are a subset of "submissives" in that they, in their ADULT persona, want the affection, discipline, care..that goes with the DD/lg . As a BDSM site...the thought is that we are all here as tops/bottoms, masters/slaves, doms/subs. Most littles who are interested in BDSM and have landed here DO identify as subs (they may want a parent to child dynamic ) but they never want to be the top or the master or the dom...so from our standpoint, if you are a little and on a BDSM site, you are probably a bottom or a slave or a sub...

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/8/2015 9:29:58 PM

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I'd like to see more identifers on here, but I can put what I am in my profile ,very easily.

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/8/2015 9:32:46 PM

LittleGirlHeart

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I'm a little, and I would only follow someones lead in agreed upon areas, outside that, try to tell me what to do and it aint happening. And yes, I DO want to, and quite frequently boss Daddy about.

There are subsets where the little is dominant, and the DADDIES are submissive.

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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Yeah...but this is a BDSM site not just a fetish or kinky site. one thing I have noticed since joining this site is that, while there is a DEFINATE, crossover there is a definate difference between people who identify as "littles"-adults that enjoy childish pursuits, TV shows..and those that are a subset of "submissives" in that they, in their ADULT persona, want the affection, discipline, care..that goes with the DD/lg . As a BDSM site...the thought is that we are all here as tops/bottoms, masters/slaves, doms/subs. Most littles who are interested in BDSM and have landed here DO identify as subs (they may want a parent to child dynamic ) but they never want to be the top or the master or the dom...so from our standpoint, if you are a little and on a BDSM site, you are probably a bottom or a slave or a sub...

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/9/2015 1:10:24 AM

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Yep I'm a little, and have had sub daddies, and i have a sub big brother. Most of the Littles I've known were more switches but those are probably just the ones I hang out with.

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/11/2015 5:21:15 AM

AlabamaPrincess

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Although I am a sub, I have little tendencies. I'm sure many others do, as well. If a little thread were started, I'd be quick to participate :)

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/16/2015 8:41:53 AM

preytolife

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Site is unlikely to change.

But I agree that many of the littles I know are switches and it's not at all uncommon for them to be tops.

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/19/2015 11:51:30 AM

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it was enlightening to know that dominant littles exist. i believe the mind (who am i kidding? my mind) is bogged down by the vulnerability and clinginess of a little which we do not associate with a (level-minded and genuine) dominant. it was eye-opening to know that exceptions exist. thank you all. one lives and learns.

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/20/2015 10:09:40 AM

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As a little I'm still naturally submissive. Being a "good girl" and wanting to please my Daddy are naturally there. But I also identify as a submissive. I do not like to be in little space during sexual acts and just become my role as a submissive or if I meet a Dom who interacts well with me and just isn't into ddlg... I can be a sub. I guess it's all perspective :)

I would like more identifiers on the site, but sometimes just looking at the profile helps enough as well :)

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/20/2015 12:46:25 PM

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I'd say I'm more sub, but still call Him Daddy, and I love little girl things. When we first met over 20 years ago, both of us were in other relationships, but we had roughly the same job (both of us are prior military). The jobs required very dominant personalities, and although I still carry that in daily life, when I'm with him, I'm all sub. Our children are grown, so I get to play Daddy's little girl whenever the mood strikes.

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/20/2015 1:04:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AlabamaPrincess

I'd say I'm more sub, but still call Him Daddy, and I love little girl things. When we first met over 20 years ago, both of us were in other relationships, but we had roughly the same job (both of us are prior military). The jobs required very dominant personalities, and although I still carry that in daily life, when I'm with him, I'm all sub. Our children are grown, so I get to play Daddy's little girl whenever the mood strikes.

Well, that changes things drastically now. You no longer quite fit in the slut category in my head... which is causing a whole lot of angst cuz "slut" is always my go to thing... and PrincessFlyingKittyUnicornPowderPuffDragon just doesn't roll of the tongue like slut does...

Wot's a prick to do?

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/20/2015 1:28:08 PM

AlabamaPrincess

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

quote:

ORIGINAL: AlabamaPrincess

I'd say I'm more sub, but still call Him Daddy, and I love little girl things. When we first met over 20 years ago, both of us were in other relationships, but we had roughly the same job (both of us are prior military). The jobs required very dominant personalities, and although I still carry that in daily life, when I'm with him, I'm all sub. Our children are grown, so I get to play Daddy's little girl whenever the mood strikes.

Well, that changes things drastically now. You no longer quite fit in the slut category in my head... which is causing a whole lot of angst cuz "slut" is always my go to thing... and PrincessFlyingKittyUnicornPowderPuffDragon just doesn't roll of the tongue like slut does...

Wot's a prick to do?

No, no it doesn't, and that's a mouthful for any slut, I don't care how good you are. However, if you want "SluttyPrincess" or "PrincessSlut", that's ok. Oh and the "flyingkitty" part is a no go. I'm not a big cat person. However I do like the Dragon part, so figure it out.....

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/20/2015 1:44:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AlabamaPrincess

quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

quote:

ORIGINAL: AlabamaPrincess

I'd say I'm more sub, but still call Him Daddy, and I love little girl things. When we first met over 20 years ago, both of us were in other relationships, but we had roughly the same job (both of us are prior military). The jobs required very dominant personalities, and although I still carry that in daily life, when I'm with him, I'm all sub. Our children are grown, so I get to play Daddy's little girl whenever the mood strikes.

Well, that changes things drastically now. You no longer quite fit in the slut category in my head... which is causing a whole lot of angst cuz "slut" is always my go to thing... and PrincessFlyingKittyUnicornPowderPuffDragon just doesn't roll of the tongue like slut does...

Wot's a prick to do?

No, no it doesn't, and that's a mouthful for any slut, I don't care how good you are. However, if you want "SluttyPrincess" or "PrincessSlut", that's ok. Oh and the "flyingkitty" part is a no go. I'm not a big cat person. However I do like the Dragon part, so figure it out.....

Okay, slut, I'll work on it... but it may take awhile. Prickzheimer's, ya know?

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/20/2015 2:19:03 PM

AlabamaPrincess

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Dealt with pricks all my life....you ain't the first nor will you be the last. And if you're not careful, full on raging dickhead can result!

But by all means take your time, I want it to be good!!

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/20/2015 2:20:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AlabamaPrincess

Dealt with pricks all my life....you ain't the first nor will you be the last. And if you're not careful, full on raging dickhead can result! But by all means take your time, I want it to be good!!

Sweet!

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/20/2015 2:48:57 PM

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I'm not surprised they don't have separate listing. I wish I could "check everything that applies" but I suppose there are so many options out there that it would be hard to include everyone. I've never met a little who also tops, so I learned something today.

Personally I only identify as a little with the right energy.

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/21/2015 9:28:14 PM

LittleStarBerry

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Yes, a section for Littles.

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RE: Should CM / CSP have a separate category for Littles? - 2/22/2015 8:46:36 AM

Koby23

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Similar situation for Daddy's, Sadist & Dominants

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