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RE: Domination - 7/19/2006 10:16:51 AM

LadyHugs

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Dear CuteIrishM4F,

Here are some links to BDSM in Ireland:

International guide on Domination, Dominas, Dominatrix, Mistresses, Foot Worship and other adult subjects.
http://openadultdirectory.com/bdsm/Ireland/

BDSM Ireland - a group for anyone interested in talking about and taking part in bdsm in Ireland, has munches twice a month in Dublin for members and ...
http://www.fetishexchange.org/groups5.shtml

Sexuality > BDSM Directory > Society and Culture > Sexuality > Activities and Practices > BDSM. Search, all sites this category only UK only Ireland only ...
http://uk.dir.yahoo.com/Society_and_Culture/ ... Activities_and_Practices/BDSM/

Search, all sites this category only UK only Ireland only ... BDSM Information@ · BDSM Products and Gear@ · BDSM Services@ ...
http://uk.dir.yahoo.com/Regional/Countries/U ... ices/Sex/Adult_Galleries/BDSM/

BDSM Ireland - 18+ Forum for anyone interested in talking about and taking part in bdsm in Ireland. This is not a Personals List!! ...
http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/intlorgs.html

Northern Ireland spanking forum, IrishSpanking**E-mail List Irish spanking forum. Dominion Dublin Gothic music club, Intermission Belfast Goth Club ...
http://216.166.84.8/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi? ... iew_records=View+Records&ww=on

yahoo email group for Ireland, based in Dublin. Ireland's BDSM interest group, to grow the interest in the community. Regular munches are held twice a month ...
http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/ie/all_sections/

For anyone from Ireland interested in discussing BDSM. [Yahoo]. BDSM New Zeeland - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BDSM_NZ/ NZ forum for the discussion of the ...
http://directory.google.com/Top/Adult/Societ ... _Practices/BDSM/Mailing_Lists/

Lady Bitch - Domina based in Ireland new (Added: 24-Jun-2006 Hits: 336) ... explorations in fetish spanking sadism bdsm - Milliscent professional dominatrix ...
http://www.dungeonnet.com/weblinks/Mistresses/

Buy Venus In Furs [1970] Video at Shop Ireland. ... The prevalence of BDSM interest in the general public was probably greatly underestimated at the time, ...
http://www.shopireland.ie/video/detail/B0000 ... N90/Venus-In-Furs-%5B1970%5D-/

Hopefully this will be of assistance. If it isn't as 'local' to you perhaps somebody within such groups may direct you to a more direct location.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Domination - 7/19/2006 1:54:14 PM

Samwhiplash

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ORIGINAL: CuteIrishM4F
i am yet to meet a real time Domme in my country and i have been giving some thought to finally accepting that there are none.

..... and intend to further my involvement with Nimhneach&bdsmireland too. i apologise if You have been put out with me.
Thank You for Your time.
a.

OK..... myself and a few other Irish Dommes are invisible if u take this as true :(

This is a repeated idea from CuteIrishM4F that there are no real Irish Dommes.... however, since I know quite a few of them - I can honestly say he has not made any contact with any of us.

Im thinking that maybe online is his perfect forum.... that he possibly is just not ready for real-life.

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(cuteirish.... come see me at Nimhneach on the 1st Sept - to do nothing except prove that we are not a little known species - us Irish Dommes)

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RE: Domination - 7/19/2006 2:20:47 PM

Oumae

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quote:

i am yet to meet a real time Domme in my country and i have been giving some thought to finally accepting that there are none.

What have you done to meet one?

I've met a few here in Ireland at events and I'm not searching for a Domme.

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RE: Domination - 7/23/2006 6:11:45 AM

CuteIrishM4F

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Mis Pandora,

Yes, i did think You were dissapointed in me and i didn't like that. Thank You for the tip, i will adhere to it in future.

a.

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RE: Domination - 7/23/2006 6:19:52 AM

CuteIrishM4F

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Dear Oumae, Lady Hugs and Samwhiplash,

You are all correct in that i have not yet attempted to attend a munch or BDSM event to date. i respect that this looks like i am not really interested in the real thing, but believe me this is more out of being busy and not posessing the confidence to just turn up alone at such a thing than anything else.

Because i have not met anyone in real life who is interested in or even knows about BDSM, i really do feel alone. It is not a knock at any of You who are true to Yourselves, merely my own limited experiance to date.

In fact i have been in email contact with one Irish Domme who seemed genuine, but she is either too busy or too disinterested at the moment to remain in touch. No disrespect was meant at all i assure You. i beg Your collective forgiveness for seeming to be insulting. i am so sorry for that.

Have a lovely day, all.

a.

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RE: Domination - 7/23/2006 8:35:05 AM

MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: CuteIrishM4F
Mis Pandora,

Yes, i did think You were dissapointed in me and i didn't like that.
a.

Thank you for your reply. Someone who was more inclined to be a kinky player (rather than someone with a submissive heart) would have lacked the personal sense of disappointment, and the sense that they'd disappointed someone else in their actions. You, my dear, more than likely are one that possesses a submissive heart. What you possess simply needs refinement. I believe it will simply be a matter of finding someone to draw it all out in you, and to develop you to be both humble and proud as a submissive male.

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RE: Domination - 7/24/2006 2:29:57 PM

JessicaLashes

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ORIGINAL: ArtimisBlack

I was going to post something similar to this, so I'm just going to tack on to the OP's original question...what methods can be used to make someone (specifically a female) who is not physically intimidating seem more forceful (to a male) ? What are some good names you could call a male sub that they might find humiliating? It's odd, I don't have this problem interacting with female subs, but when it comes to males my mind just goes blank. I need to jump-start my creativity.

i had asked mitchmasochist this same question last weekend. he said it's the way women stand and avoid eye contact that lets men know that they are scared or intimidated by him. then he knows that he has the upper hand and is in control of the situation. he said sometimes its in a womans voice as well. i'll mention this one to him maybe he'll post an answer.

i just cant talk dirty to a guy without the guy getting aroused. as for name calling what bothers one guy wont even annoy another.

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RE: Domination - 7/24/2006 5:36:01 PM

MistressSassy66

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ORIGINAL: ArtimisBlack

I was going to post something similar to this, so I'm just going to tack on to the OP's original question...what methods can be used to make someone (specifically a female) who is not physically intimidating seem more forceful (to a male) ? What are some good names you could call a male sub that they might find humiliating? It's odd, I don't have this problem interacting with female subs, but when it comes to males my mind just goes blank. I need to jump-start my creativity.

I call all My worms by fem names,I typically use a first initial to go by...like if their name is rob:I will use roberta,robin,rachel, etc
Having a baby names book can be useful to help come up with names.
If I want to be real mean I use bambi or candie.

Like was already mentioned...grabbing their balls tend to get their attention.
I think hair pulling is also a good way to get their head where you want it.

I like to use a cat collar with bells on it like a cock ring...attach a light weight leash and tug away...he will follow you anywhere....

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RE: Domination - 7/24/2006 7:48:51 PM

joyinslavery

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UGH just like a newbie to want to "talk" about it endlessly. Why dont you try real time chief?

Ugh, just like a newbie to the boards to come off like a right bitch. Your wisdom will not be welcomed for long - try treating the people you find her with a bit of kindness and respect.