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Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied up? (... - 2/13/2015 1:00:48 AM

Subano

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This is a personal question because a Mistress who I met at a munch wants to have sex with me but the rules, she said, are that I must be helplessly tied up, ankle to ankle, wrist to wrist, and gagged, blindfolded, and basically inert.

I'm ok with all of that, but, I just wonder, how that works if I'm on top.
If I'm on the bottom, back to the bed, I can see that she can ride me cowboy, so, I see how that works.
But, if I'm on top of her, with my face to her face, can you even do it with the legs tied together?

I'm not asking for wank fodder, but just practical advice.
I can ask her, but I don't want to look stupid or scared.

I'm not scared but I just wonder how it will work out.
Do you have experience with being immobilized, and yet still being able to perform?

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/13/2015 2:06:28 AM

Gauge

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ORIGINAL: Subano

I can ask her, but I don't want to look stupid or scared.

I would suggest to you that you do ask her. After all, she is going to be the one tying you up, immobilizing you and making you vulnerable. Wanting to know how that is going to work and that you have questions makes some good conversation, and demonstrates good sense as well.

Before I ever laid a hand on my slut, and because she was new, and fairly scared, I explained things to her. I was glad she had questions, to me, that meant that she wanted to learn, and wanted to understand what to do. I never once thought it stupid she was asking questions.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/13/2015 6:20:58 AM

Miyani

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If she wants you tied up and immobile, I doubt she's going to have you on top. Like you, I have difficulty seeing how that would work. But as always, Gauge has given some great advice, and I suggest you follow it. If someone I want to play with has questions, I want him to ask them. It shows that he's thinking, that he wants to be an active participant, and not just a passive responder.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/13/2015 7:35:08 AM

DarkSteven

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Lemme get this straight. You met some stranger at a munch, and she wants to tie you up, with the promise of sex?

Please tell me you checked out her local rep.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/13/2015 7:49:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Lemme get this straight. You met some stranger at a munch, and she wants to tie you up, with the promise of sex?

Please tell me you checked out her local rep.

Now, now, let's not be hasty. This could be the best sex he has ever had in life. Of course it also could be the first time he's ever been robbed. Might even be the last thing he ever does in life if she turns out to be a wacko and kills him. You just never know, do ya?

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/13/2015 10:59:15 AM

slvemike4u

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And it's the not knowing that's going to make it memorable.....which ever way it goes

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/13/2015 12:36:10 PM

Gauge

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Subano

This is a personal question because a Mistress who I met at a munch wants to have sex with me but the rules, she said, are that I must be helplessly tied up, ankle to ankle, wrist to wrist, and gagged, blindfolded, and basically inert.

I'm ok with all of that, but, I just wonder, how that works if I'm on top.
If I'm on the bottom, back to the bed, I can see that she can ride me cowboy, so, I see how that works.
But, if I'm on top of her, with my face to her face, can you even do it with the legs tied together?

I'm not asking for wank fodder, but just practical advice.
I can ask her, but I don't want to look stupid or scared.

I'm not scared but I just wonder how it will work out.
Do you have experience with being immobilized, and yet still being able to perform?

I think, from the responses you have gotten, that you should listen to DarkSteven and the rest of the crew. Check the person out. Google them. Ask around locally. Be safe.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/13/2015 8:35:48 PM

LookieNoNookie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Subano

This is a personal question because a Mistress who I met at a munch wants to have sex with me but the rules, she said, are that I must be helplessly tied up, ankle to ankle, wrist to wrist, and gagged, blindfolded, and basically inert.

I'm ok with all of that, but, I just wonder, how that works if I'm on top.
If I'm on the bottom, back to the bed, I can see that she can ride me cowboy, so, I see how that works.
But, if I'm on top of her, with my face to her face, can you even do it with the legs tied together?

I'm not asking for wank fodder, but just practical advice.
I can ask her, but I don't want to look stupid or scared.

I'm not scared but I just wonder how it will work out.
Do you have experience with being immobilized, and yet still being able to perform?

Your Ghogi is not my Ghogi.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/14/2015 2:39:03 PM

Bhruic

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As others have said... you should really ask her. It sounds like you are expecting the encounter to involve sex, and so you are wondering about the mechanics of that... But she may not be thinking of there being any sex involved at all.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/14/2015 9:47:32 PM

slvemike4u

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I'm just curious,since it's the guy opinions you are looking for.And this is ask a Mistress(most of them are ....girls)why isn't this in ask a sub/slave ?
Isn't that where this rightly belongs....he might even be getting more responses from the audience he seeks.
I only come here to eavesdrop on the Dommes,so as to gather information that I can ultimately use to get them to .....well,Domme me

So a guy conversation here does me no good,Bye

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/15/2015 7:01:36 AM

shiftyw

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Am I the only one who thought she might be considering pegging him?

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/15/2015 7:06:53 AM

ExiledTyrant

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quote:

ORIGINAL: shiftyw

Am I the only one who thought she might be considering pegging him?

I though she might show up in this...

Carrying a nice Chianti.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/15/2015 7:44:42 AM

shiftyw

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Lol!

Op- I think you should get to know this person a little better. I respect a one night stand/fuck buddy/play partner as much as anyone, but ask her expectations- if she calls you stupid- don't do it because she is probably not a safe person to play with.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/15/2015 11:13:07 AM

slvemike4u

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Not for nothing...but shifty that's a great picture.
Actually I find it smoking hot

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/15/2015 12:53:35 PM

Subano

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quote:

ORIGINAL: shiftyw

Am I the only one who thought she might be considering pegging him?

Yikes!
I'd better ask first!

Thanks.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/15/2015 12:59:53 PM

shiftyw

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

Not for nothing...but shifty that's a great picture.
Actually I find it smoking hot

My picture? Or the pretty girl Tyrant posted?

If its mine, thanks

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/15/2015 1:44:10 PM

InHisHeart

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Subano

quote:

ORIGINAL: shiftyw

Am I the only one who thought she might be considering pegging him?

Yikes!
I'd better ask first!

Thanks.

Pegging was the first thing that came to my mind too. That aside, I agree with the others, check this person out. Being tied up and completely immobilized by someone you know nothing about, not the safest way to go.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/15/2015 2:37:21 PM

slvemike4u

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quote:

ORIGINAL: shiftyw

quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

Not for nothing...but shifty that's a great picture.
Actually I find it smoking hot

My picture? Or the pretty girl Tyrant posted?

If its mine, thanks

Your picture shifty....it's a great shot,really is.

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Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

Funny stuff....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNwFf991d-4

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/25/2015 11:25:29 PM

tylerWILLsubmit

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The only stupid questions are the ones never asked.

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RE: Personal question: Have you ever had sex all tied u... - 2/26/2015 3:37:38 PM

GoddessManko

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Miyani

If she wants you tied up and immobile, I doubt she's going to have you on top. Like you, I have difficulty seeing how that would work. But as always, Gauge has given some great advice, and I suggest you follow it. If someone I want to play with has questions, I want him to ask them. It shows that he's thinking, that he wants to be an active participant, and not just a passive responder.

This. Gagged and blindfolded for vanilla sex? LOL
How well do you know this person? Have you even met face to face? If you are an edge player, go for it but this sounds really incredulous. Especially that you're willing to do all this with the expectation of sex. That made me chuckle.

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