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ORIGINAL: Subano

This is a personal question because a Mistress who I met at a munch wants to have sex with me but the rules, she said, are that I must be helplessly tied up, ankle to ankle, wrist to wrist, and gagged, blindfolded, and basically inert.

I'm ok with all of that, but, I just wonder, how that works if I'm on top.
If I'm on the bottom, back to the bed, I can see that she can ride me cowboy, so, I see how that works.
But, if I'm on top of her, with my face to her face, can you even do it with the legs tied together?

I'm not asking for wank fodder, but just practical advice.
I can ask her, but I don't want to look stupid or scared.

I'm not scared but I just wonder how it will work out.
Do you have experience with being immobilized, and yet still being able to perform?

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ORIGINAL: Subano

This is a personal question because a Mistress who I met at a munch wants to have sex with me but the rules, she said, are that I must be helplessly tied up, ankle to ankle, wrist to wrist, and gagged, blindfolded, and basically inert.

I'm ok with all of that, but, I just wonder, how that works if I'm on top.
If I'm on the bottom, back to the bed, I can see that she can ride me cowboy, so, I see how that works.
But, if I'm on top of her, with my face to her face, can you even do it with the legs tied together?

I'm not asking for wank fodder, but just practical advice.
I can ask her, but I don't want to look stupid or scared.

I'm not scared but I just wonder how it will work out.
Do you have experience with being immobilized, and yet still being able to perform?

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ORIGINAL: Soyokaze

So... ok with being tied up helplessly for sex.... but still insists on being on top...

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ORIGINAL: Subano

This is a personal question because a Mistress who I met at a munch wants to have sex with me but the rules, she said, are that I must be helplessly tied up, ankle to ankle, wrist to wrist, and gagged, blindfolded, and basically inert.

I'm having a hard time believing that you met a Domme at a munch and she just came right out and said she wants to have sex with you. Nothing personal, OP. Is she a college student who found a willing (horny) male sub to experiment upon, namely you? Do you even know anything about this woman, and does she openly admit to being a sadist?

It sounds to me that it is wishful thinking on your part that there will be sex involved. BDSM /= sexual encounter. It can, but highly unlikely for a first encounter with a new play partner. I would be very suspicious of this proposition.

Elsewhere you've posted about having hemorrhoids, asking whether it would be all right to have strap-on sex with this condition. I am so shaking my head, that I can't tell you what I really want to say. You haven't returned to this thread, so does this have to do with the same Domme, or are you just canvassing around? It sounds to me that you are somewhat the anal virgin, in which case you don't jump right into anal intercourse without having been dilated over a reasonably gradual period of time. That would be like trying to complete a 500-yard course before you've mastered crawling on the floor without bumping into furniture.

And to answer your question, unless you're wearing a dildo gag or getting facesat/Queened while you're hogtied, there isn't much else you will be able to do unless it's being done to you. But don't count on that being sexual in nature either.

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ORIGINAL: KinkyForFun

I don't think complete immobilization play is a good idea for a first encounter, regardless of the surrounding factors.