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NookieNotes -> RE: Staying in touch with your sub (2/23/2015 2:06:06 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Supernova606
As a Dom, how often you do establish contact with your online/long distance sub: every few days, every couple of weeks, or just whenever you're at a loose end and want to get your kink on?
Do you have the opposite view, that the sub should do the running, show their interest, make the contacts etc.
I was LD with my Pet for a year. Now that we are in the same town, we still keep up the same communication.
We use text as our primary method of communication. A slow day will see 50 messages or so. An average day will see 250. I know we've gone for 1200+ on some weekend days, as we do chores, or whatever.
We use the phone a few times a week, to discuss things that are a bit deeper than text (although we usually have several levels of conversation going—text, email and phone about the same topic).
We use emails for longer discussions and to forward things we've received.
And FaceTime every now and again.
We are in regular contact, and I prefer it that way.
I believe it is my responsibility to show him that I am interested, but it is his responsibility to reciprocate.
With others, I expect contact based on their personalities. Some, I hear from a few times per day, some more. If I do not hear from them for a day, that can be OK, depending on who they are, but 2-3 days would suggest I am just not on their radar any longer, and I would let them know that things were going backwards.
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