RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall?

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DerangedUnit -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/5/2015 8:22:03 PM)
For example on the second page: "I want my partner to serve me and address me as a superior." And this one probably added to the voyeur... since I strongly agreed with that: "I believe that public masturbation should not necessarily be criminalized."

Wayward5oul -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/5/2015 8:43:46 PM)
= Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 100% Bondage Receiver 96% Experimentalist 93% Masochist 79% Submissive 78% Brat 71% Non-monogamist 70% Degradation Receiver 67% Primal (Prey) 50% Voyeur 47% Primal (Predator) 43% Girl/Boy 20% Daddy/Mommy 13% Exhibitionist 9% Vanilla 8% Slave 6% Pervert 4% Bondage Giver 0% All-Rounder 0% Brat Tamer 0% Degradation Giver 0% Dominant 0% Master/Mistress 0% Sadist 0% Switch

DesFIP -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/5/2015 8:54:11 PM)
I found all those questions about child porn and child/adult sex to be offensive. So much so that I refused to fill it out any more. The sheer fact that whoever devised this really believes a significant population of people who do this are loathsome criminals tells me they don't understand what they're talking about. Beyond that, the stress on this being primarily sexual and s & m meant it really is divorced from my life and our dynamic.

dreamlady -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/5/2015 9:46:31 PM)
I was also disturbed by the criminal perversion questions as unjustifiable on this test. It's also possible that the test designers assumed there would be an element of out-and-out perverts who would be filling out their test, and set this aside under that separate "Pervert" category. If they thought BDSM in itself is perverse, then that wouldn't have been necessary. Perhaps I shouldn't say, but this might be a potential red flag to me personally - and just me personally - to be alerted to whatever might comprise that classification (including porn addiction? also problematic or undesirable in a partner). Since there is a fairly detailed breakdown, I figured the extreme M/s-type questions were to distinguish Master/Mistress from Dominant, and slave from submissive. DesFIP, I would have also liked to have seen more purely D/s questions and less higher protocol stuff with all of that superior/inferior nonsense (which someone else also mentioned). To that extent, this Test doesn't go far enough. It doesn't recognize a separate Top/bottom polarity as a category in itself, nor does it cover that of Fetishist -- Not unless this test assumes everybody taking it is already a fetishist from the onset!

DesFIP -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/6/2015 2:52:33 PM)
I think it assumes people aren't into power exchange, just kinky sex. I didn't get the feeling that they understood how a power relationship works out in real life. I wouldn't say we're extreme but we fall into M/s simply because he can make any decision he wants to. But there's very little s & m here. And any test I've ever read assumes that slave equals masochist and master equals sadist. Here, play is primarily top/bottom. It's the time when I'm most likely to be able to get things done my way. Simply because it's very sexual to us so if I don't enjoy it then he can't do his forced orgasm thing which is one of his favs. Being dragged into the ice cold garage to work a socket wrench because my hands are smaller than his, and fit in the engine of a modern car, isn't something I get to safeword out of.

lthrpup -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/6/2015 3:39:13 PM)
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 88% Submissive 84% Bondage Receiver 84% Slave 75% Experimentalist 70% Degradation Receiver 70% Masochist 61% Girl/Boy 58% Non-monogamist 53% Voyeur 37% Brat 36% Exhibitionist 36% Primal (Prey) 32% Pervert 16% Vanilla 13% Primal (Predator) 12% All-Rounder 9% Daddy/Mommy 9% Switch 4% Bondage Giver 0% Brat Tamer 0% Degradation Giver 0% Dominant 0% Master/Mistress 0% Sadist See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=166680

GoddessManko -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/6/2015 5:04:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamlady I was also disturbed by the criminal perversion questions as unjustifiable on this test. The question made sense in my mind. It is an examination of whether or not there is that criminal intent in BDSM. It didn't offend me at all but then I looked at the question in a detached manner.

dreamlady -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/6/2015 5:48:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP I think it assumes people aren't into power exchange, just kinky sex. I didn't get the feeling that they understood how a power relationship works out in real life. I wouldn't say we're extreme but we fall into M/s simply because he can make any decision he wants to. But there's very little s & m here. And any test I've ever read assumes that slave equals masochist and master equals sadist. Here, play is primarily top/bottom. It's the time when I'm most likely to be able to get things done my way. Simply because it's very sexual to us so if I don't enjoy it then he can't do his forced orgasm thing which is one of his favs. Being dragged into the ice cold garage to work a socket wrench because my hands are smaller than his, and fit in the engine of a modern car, isn't something I get to safeword out of. Eww-wh, I would have to safe word out of that one. I'm not a car or bike tinkering person, and nobody with half a brain would let me near an engine.

slave4facesittin -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/7/2015 5:33:25 AM)
Here is my results @GoddessManko == Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 96% Experimentalist 93% Girl/Boy 93% Slave 84% Submissive 81% Primal (Prey) 80% Bondage Receiver 79% Masochist 75% Degradation Receiver 74% Primal (Predator) 63% Non-monogamist 52% Pervert 50% Daddy/Mommy 38% Switch 38% Vanilla 38% Voyeur 25% Bondage Giver 25% Exhibitionist 25% Master/Mistress 20% Sadist 19% Brat 8% Dominant 4% All-Rounder 4% Brat Tamer 0% Degradation Giver See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=167917

usememistress775 -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/7/2015 7:17:32 PM)
Well that was interesting to say the least... == Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 100% Girl/Boy 100% Slave 96% Submissive 88% Bondage Receiver 88% Experimentalist 60% Primal (Prey) 59% Brat 59% Degradation Receiver 59% Voyeur 58% Masochist 55% Non-monogamist 52% Pervert 50% Exhibitionist 38% Daddy/Mommy 29% Primal (Predator) 25% Switch 13% Vanilla 4% Bondage Giver 4% Sadist 0% All-Rounder 0% Brat Tamer 0% Degradation Giver 0% Dominant 0% Master/Mistress See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=169199

sexyred1 -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/8/2015 12:04:33 AM)
The results of my test made no sense to me at all.

eulero83 -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/8/2015 7:33:21 AM)
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 88% Experimentalist 84% Masochist 84% Submissive 80% Primal (Prey) 75% Degradation Receiver 75% Switch 59% Bondage Receiver 54% Bondage Giver 54% Daddy/Mommy 54% Voyeur 53% Primal (Predator) 50% Non-monogamist 45% Girl/Boy 41% Exhibitionist 37% Brat 36% Slave 33% Vanilla 30% Pervert 29% Sadist 21% Dominant 15% Brat Tamer 12% All-Rounder 4% Master/Mistress 0% Degradation Giver See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=170037

RemoteUser -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/8/2015 9:28:51 PM)
As fun as random tests can be, I can't say I would want to take it because you don't know what happens to the data after the fact. And yes, it can be tracked back to you. I know because I've done it a few times myself, though not for tests. Like anything else on these boards, have fun, kids, but play safe.

MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/9/2015 11:03:30 AM)
It asked for too much data. I didn't finish it.

kdsub -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/9/2015 11:14:23 AM)
quote: I found all those questions about child porn and child/adult sex to be offensive. So much so that I refused to fill it out any more. I did notice this as well... the way the questions were asked was almost like the questioner almost expected child porn to go hand in hand with the lifestyle. Butch

CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/9/2015 11:26:07 PM)
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 100% Master/Mistress 96% Bondage Giver 96% Daddy/Mommy 96% Experimentalist 93% Dominant 63% Sadist 44% Primal (Predator) 43% Brat Tamer 25% Degradation Giver 25% Masochist 21% Vanilla 16% Non-monogamist 13% Girl/Boy 13% Primal (Prey) 6% Pervert 4% Exhibitionist 4% Switch 4% Voyeur 0% All-Rounder 0% Bondage Receiver 0% Brat 0% Degradation Receiver 0% Slave 0% Submissive On the exhibitionist part...the questions were geared toward (what I saw as) plain old vanilla type sex done in front of random vanilla strangers that didn't deserve to have their privacy violated like that. If some of the exhibitionist questions had been geared toward experienced BDSMers who scene at play parties...I would have scored maybe an 80% (I'm minusing 20% for the times when my nerves are on edge and I'm trying to squash down a panic attack from feeling too crowded, lol).

ARIES83 -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/10/2015 10:33:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP I found all those questions about child porn and child/adult sex to be offensive. So much so that I refused to fill it out any more. The sheer fact that whoever devised this really believes a significant population of people who do this are loathsome criminals tells me they don't understand what they're talking about. Beyond that, the stress on this being primarily sexual and s & m meant it really is divorced from my life and our dynamic. Hi DesFIP, That child aspect of the quiz did cause me to feel a bit of weird about the thing as well, and I tend to agree, it doesn't seem that well devised overall. The results seem pretty inaccurate in my case... I should think I'm much more perverted than 16%. == Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 76% Experimentalist 75% Dominant 71% Daddy/Mommy 70% Master/Mistress 63% Degradation Giver 45% Brat Tamer 43% Bondage Giver 41% Sadist 33% Primal (Predator) 26% Primal (Prey) 24% All-Rounder 20% Non-monogamist 20% Vanilla 20% Voyeur 16% Pervert 6% Brat 4% Bondage Receiver 4% Exhibitionist 4% Girl/Boy 4% Submissive 0% Degradation Receiver 0% Masochist 0% Slave 0% Switch See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=174598

xKinkyDomina -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/14/2015 11:18:40 AM)
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 100% Master/Mistress 96% Bondage Giver 96% Dominant 91% Experimentalist 88% Daddy/Mommy 88% Sadist 60% Primal (Predator) 55% Non-monogamist 41% Brat Tamer 41% Exhibitionist 38% Degradation Giver 33% Pervert 25% Vanilla 25% Voyeur 21% Girl/Boy 20% Primal (Prey) 9% Masochist 0% All-Rounder 0% Bondage Receiver 0% Brat 0% Degradation Receiver 0% Slave 0% Submissive 0% Switch See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=182835 I find it pretty accurate as well. Thanks to the OP. [:)]

ChrchofDrk -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/14/2015 3:17:31 PM)
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 100% Degradation Giver 100% Dominant 100% Master/Mistress 96% Sadist 75% Bondage Giver 66% Daddy/Mommy 66% Experimentalist 60% Brat Tamer 53% Pervert 53% Primal (Predator) 34% Non-monogamist 29% Voyeur 26% Primal (Prey) 24% Exhibitionist 16% Vanilla 4% Bondage Receiver 4% Masochist 0% All-Rounder 0% Brat 0% Degradation Receiver 0% Girl/Boy 0% Slave 0% Submissive 0% Switch

amaidiamond -> RE: The BDSM Test, where do you fall? (3/15/2015 11:46:07 AM)
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 100% Bondage Receiver 100% Degradation Giver 100% Experimentalist 100% Masochist 100% Primal (Prey) 100% Sadist 100% Submissive 96% Slave 93% Primal (Predator) 91% Non-monogamist 88% Degradation Receiver 88% Switch 79% Bondage Giver 54% Exhibitionist 50% Voyeur 45% Dominant 36% Master/Mistress 32% Pervert 29% Girl/Boy 22% Brat 16% Vanilla 13% Brat Tamer 4% All-Rounder 4% Daddy/Mommy See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=184967 I found the 100% Submissive and 100% Pray and 100% Sadist quite accurate. I am rather a blend :D

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