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RE: Being Scamed - 5/22/2015 7:05:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Moderator3

There was a time when they were not, until a certain number of reports, but staff now, take the time to review every report.



If this is the case, perhaps an update to the report page is in order. It still says:

INAPPROPRIATE CONTENT IS REMOVED BY OUR AUTOMATED SYSTEM
AFTER A PREDETERMINED NUMBER OF USERS HAVE REPORTED IT
REPORTS ARE NOT MANUALLY REVIEWED


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RE: Being Scamed - 5/22/2015 7:14:26 PM   
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Gah!

I will add it to my list.

Thanks for letting me know!

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RE: Being Scamed - 5/27/2015 6:22:49 PM   
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Anyone with a profile with a phone number should be reported by the button under their profile from the home page, as every report done this way is reviewed.


This is good to know because, for a while, I was reporting all the obvious fakes and scams to the collarmefakes site - but I eventually gave up as there just was one little ole me and a million scammers - and I couldn't keep it up.

It's good to know there's a team looking at the reports. Maybe I'll go back to reporting 'em when I see 'em.

BTW, I find it very odd that there are so many people paying (sometimes more than once) and THEN asking if it's a scam.
Seems backward, to me.

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RE: Being Scamed - 5/28/2015 12:21:48 PM   
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Most likely because they start out willing to do anything to get laid (sub frenzy is fun!) and then wake up and smell the butthurt when they get nothing out of it.

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RE: Being Scamed - 5/28/2015 1:02:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: crumpets


quote:

ORIGINAL: Moderator3
Anyone with a profile with a phone number should be reported by the button under their profile from the home page, as every report done this way is reviewed.


This is good to know because, for a while, I was reporting all the obvious fakes and scams to the collarmefakes site - but I eventually gave up as there just was one little ole me and a million scammers - and I couldn't keep it up.

It's good to know there's a team looking at the reports. Maybe I'll go back to reporting 'em when I see 'em.

BTW, I find it very odd that there are so many people paying (sometimes more than once) and THEN asking if it's a scam.
Seems backward, to me.


I'm in a tricky place here. I will not comment on another site, but will say that isn't a part of the site here and never has been. Reporting anywhere but here is more like a warning that we would consider blacklisting if it were on site. Everyone posting a warning would have no accountability basically and you would be taking a strangers word for what to look out for. That may be helpful at times, but really, adults should be able to determine what they are willing to involve themselves in. Adults asking people to protect them might try to sort this out for themselves. If it sounds too good to be true, well, you know the rest.

Of course you will find good people trying to warn others and they may find what ought to be obvious to most, but there have been wonderful site users here that were put on that list because they refused to do something, someone else wanted. They were slandered and had to find a way to protect themselves from what was falsely said about them.

When people take it upon themselves to save others and go around what we can actually do here, it becomes a mess and innocent people could be harmed. Many have reported people for things that constantly bog down Support because in their opinion, whatever was done shouldn't be allowed. We get a lot of revenge or false reports.

One person put in around five hundred reports a day. Another put in 29,000 reports in one day. Some report people because they didn't answer their cmail within half an hour and the person was on site. (I'm guilty of far more!) A great many report someone illegal or underage because they were rejected. Some claim someone is harassing them and want them taken off the site, yet they are engaging in a back and forth dispute. We are not law enforcement or mediators.

So, you see we are trying according to me, a stranger. Trust me Baby! You can send all gifts to a children's hospital.







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RE: Being Scamed - 6/2/2015 8:02:35 PM   
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every time we talked not about the website issue, she seemed to care. Asked me how I was doing, chat about mandane things, made me feel special, human for once. She sounded like she was seroious about wanting to meet me... and shes really the only one that ever responded to me in messages. She even gave me her YM name. I thought there was something special.


So...it was not a scam. She made you feel special, human for once. She seemed to care. She asked you how you wre and chatted about mundane things. You paid a little each week for her time and she had you obeying and you enjoyed it so much you still thing wonderful things about it.

I think you got what you paid for and were looking for and remember this: nothing worth anything is free.

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RE: Being Scamed - 6/4/2015 9:37:38 PM   
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Read my journal post on why there are so many findommes on this site. Then ask yourself if you have anything to offer a lifestyle domme worth her investing her time in you. If not..develop that by joining a local munch group and participating with intent to learn and develop basic ass from armpit wisdom on what lifestyle kink is. And maybe u get lucky and start attracting non pros or scams.

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RE: Being Scamed - 7/5/2015 12:11:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DommeShilo

Read my journal post on why there are so many findommes on this site. Then ask yourself if you have anything to offer a lifestyle domme worth her investing her time in you. If not..develop that by joining a local munch group and participating with intent to learn and develop basic ass from armpit wisdom on what lifestyle kink is. And maybe u get lucky and start attracting non pros or scams.



Your journal posts were so spot on. I just go through the one about the entitled married guy. Wow what a piece of work and he actually thought he was "winning" some twisted game somehow.

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RE: Being Scamed - 7/6/2015 8:23:59 PM   
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How can you tell if your being scamed. I met a mistress on this site who I talked to and thought she cared, or seemed to care. She then wanted me to go on this other dating site and create a bunch of profiles and upgrade them to boost her popularity. She wanted me to create 1 new one a day and upgrade it for $30.00 but then it went down to 2 a week. After figuring numbers out I told her this is not right and told her I cant do this anymore. She kept harping on me to fo this saying things like "jjust a small price to make me happy" or "you promised." I couldnt afford it and she didnt seem to care.

Would any of you mistresses ever do anything like this or is this something totally different and unethical for lack of better words?


I know no one (on Earth) who has been scamed.

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