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Level -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 5:49:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: feastie Well, I guess one could say, "Master made me do it, but I didn't really like it" and excuse what Level calls a bisexual act and I bet some have, but I'm thinkin...if you engage, you are. LOL feastie, I just had a vision of that Star Trek captain Picard saying "Engage" and dozens of same sex couples humping wildly.

farmersdaughter -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 5:50:05 AM)
well now i am wondering if i am bi...i love kissing girls...sometimes "playing" with girls too, but i have to be in the mood..but at the end of the day its a Man & his "manhood" all the time

Level -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 5:53:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: farmersdaughter well now i am wondering if i am bi...i love kissing girls...sometimes "playing" with girls too, but i have to be in the mood..but at the end of the day its a Man & his "manhood" all the time *puts on doctor's hat* I would say without a doubt that yes, you are bisexual. [:D]

LotusSong -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 6:20:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadiesBladewing quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong What I have expereienced is that women will be hooked up with a male.. and then constantly looking for a female partner/slave/sub what have you. Can a bi-sexual ever be satified? Do you find Bi-sexuality more acceptable in females than males? <<I actually find this kind of sentiment quite rude. >> I'm not one to play the PC role.l I ask questions directly without laborious cloaking until no one can figure out exactly what I am asking or stating. This is a question I'm sure most people wonder about- I just have the guts to ask it. So if you are offended.. that's is your problem. I make no apologies.

sleazybutterfly -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 6:54:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: feastie Well, I guess one could say, "Master made me do it, but I didn't really like it" and excuse what Level calls a bisexual act and I bet some have, but I'm thinkin...if you engage, you are. No, it makes you someone that commited a bisexual ACT...it does not make you bisexual. If you trim someones hair..does that make you a licensed stylist? If you cut someone open..does that make you a surgeon? If your Dom were to have you Domme someone for a scene..does that mean you are now a Domme? No..on all three counts.. it means you ACTED the part for for the situation. A bisexual is someone that can not only "engage" in sex with the same sex... it's someone that can have a relationship with them also. It's much deeper than some scenario and so much more than an "ACT"... Respectfully, Andrea

ownedgirlie -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 9:11:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sleazybutterfly quote: ORIGINAL: feastie Well, I guess one could say, "Master made me do it, but I didn't really like it" and excuse what Level calls a bisexual act and I bet some have, but I'm thinkin...if you engage, you are. No, it makes you someone that commited a bisexual ACT...it does not make you bisexual. If you trim someones hair..does that make you a licensed stylist? If you cut someone open..does that make you a surgeon? If your Dom were to have you Domme someone for a scene..does that mean you are now a Domme? No..on all three counts.. it means you ACTED the part for for the situation. A bisexual is someone that can not only "engage" in sex with the same sex... it's someone that can have a relationship with them also. It's much deeper than some scenario and so much more than an "ACT"... Respectfully, Andrea These are all good and interesting points. There are many things a slave will do for Master, whether bi-sexual activity or anything else, but would not do on his/her own. There are things a slave might do and not enjoy, but for the fact that Master enjoys it. There are many things I have done which I would otherwise absolutely loathe, but for the amusement, enjoyment or look of pride in Master's eye. It is he who brings forth a response I may not otherwise have.

cuddleheart50 -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 9:17:35 AM)
I'm not bisexual, I like men to much. [:D]

IronBear -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 9:39:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: feastie Well, I guess one could say, "Master made me do it, but I didn't really like it" and excuse what Level calls a bisexual act and I bet some have, but I'm thinkin...if you engage, you are. LOL feastie, I just had a vision of that Star Trek captain Picard saying "Engage" and dozens of same sex couples humping wildly. Ohh bloody hell now I can never watch rugby union again, for as a scrum packs the ref tells the two packs of heafty, brawney, heavy weight, sweety, testosterone charged males to "ENGAGE"! What follows could be seen by the novice as a mass humping....

Level -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 9:53:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: feastie Well, I guess one could say, "Master made me do it, but I didn't really like it" and excuse what Level calls a bisexual act and I bet some have, but I'm thinkin...if you engage, you are. LOL feastie, I just had a vision of that Star Trek captain Picard saying "Engage" and dozens of same sex couples humping wildly. Ohh bloody hell now I can never watch rugby union again, for as a scrum packs the ref tells the two packs of heafty, brawney, heavy weight, sweety, testosterone charged males to "ENGAGE"! What follows could be seen by the novice as a mass humping.... LOL IronBear [:D]; is there any fanny-patting like our American football?? grins

michaelGA2 -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 9:55:28 AM)
isn't sports just a discrete way for straight men to get away with fondling other men and still appear to be straight...LOL

Tikkiee -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/15/2006 11:16:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: farmersdaughter what is YOUR definition of Bi(bisexual)????? MY definition of bisexual is a man/woman who is sexually attracted to both sexes equally.

peeka -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/16/2006 6:22:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: farmersdaughter what is YOUR definition of Bi(bisexual)????? A friend and I had this very disscussion not that long ago. He hates labels and thinks that they are for the birds. He views sexuality as fluid. One can be sexual with whomever they choose to be and not be "gay" or "bi", but merely sexual. He levels that concept with the fact that using "vanilla" definitions to describe, catagorize or define anything BDSM related, makes no sence. This is a "new frontier" lifestyle and as such should be validating its own set of descriptions as they are formed, not merely addapting "vanilla" standards to our way of thinking or opting to use them verbatum.

LaTigresse -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/16/2006 6:42:59 AM)
Interesting topic and points of view. I especially like the idea that sexuality can be fluid. I spend alot of time in a community that has a very strong gay/lesbian population. There are many lesbians that have the opinion, if a woman has ever had any sort of consensual sex with a man at ANY point in her life she is absolutely NOT a lesbian but can only call herself bisexual. I call myself a lesbian. Even though I have had satisfying relationship with men at this point in my life I am only interested in the dynamic I can have with another woman. I know that if I said I was bisexual I would have a flood of men trying to convince me they are that one super god that will peak my interest and I just don't want to go thru the hassle. I am not interested, don't want to discuss it. I am not saying there will not be a point in my life that will change. To say that would be assinine. For right now and the forseeable future I am a lesbian in my happy little book of definitions IF someone feels the need to slap a sticker on my butt.

IronBear -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/16/2006 6:48:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: feastie Well, I guess one could say, "Master made me do it, but I didn't really like it" and excuse what Level calls a bisexual act and I bet some have, but I'm thinkin...if you engage, you are. LOL feastie, I just had a vision of that Star Trek captain Picard saying "Engage" and dozens of same sex couples humping wildly. Ohh bloody hell now I can never watch rugby union again, for as a scrum packs the ref tells the two packs of heafty, brawney, heavy weight, sweety, testosterone charged males to "ENGAGE"! What follows could be seen by the novice as a mass humping.... LOL IronBear [:D]; is there any fanny-patting like our American football?? grins No but in the scrum except for the front row who go head to head literally (kissing maybe) the rest ofthe pask have their shoulder/s rammed hard into the arse of the bloke in front.... Does that equate? (Shoulder to arse humping???)

feastie -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/16/2006 6:49:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: feastie Well, I guess one could say, "Master made me do it, but I didn't really like it" and excuse what Level calls a bisexual act and I bet some have, but I'm thinkin...if you engage, you are. LOL feastie, I just had a vision of that Star Trek captain Picard saying "Engage" and dozens of same sex couples humping wildly. LMAO! You just so had to say that. Now I'm having images of same sex Klingons, Vulcans and Romulans humping wildly, all the while, Captain Picard is roaming the bridge, wearing his wellingtons, adjusting his uniform blouse and tapping a crop against his thigh. Thank you very much for that. I'm not sure how I'm going to get through the day now.

branwen -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/16/2006 10:19:09 AM)
Does the label REALLY matter? I put it like this. If I am attracted to someone, I am attracted to them. Their gender doesn't matter. MUST there be a definition of "what is bi" or "what isnt bi"? Who cares? As long as YOU know where you stand and can communicate that clearly, does the actual word you use matter?

ownedgirlie -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/16/2006 10:42:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: branwen Does the label REALLY matter? I put it like this. If I am attracted to someone, I am attracted to them. Their gender doesn't matter. MUST there be a definition of "what is bi" or "what isnt bi"? Who cares? As long as YOU know where you stand and can communicate that clearly, does the actual word you use matter? Well, no, unless you're trying to have a conversation about it. Using a word is often times easier than a description. Saying "I'm bisexual" seems more efficient than "I enjoy sexual experiences with both men and women." Similar to saying "leaf" vs. "those green substances with veins running through them that dangle from tree branches." [:D]

Curiossdragnlily -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/16/2006 1:34:33 PM)
To me, there has to be a sexual attraction to the same sex and enjoyment with being with them sexually. with respect, lily, collared and owned slave of Master Curios srn 308-692-331

LotusSong -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/16/2006 2:07:37 PM)
Have you ever heard of bi-"chic"? Where one claims to be bi-sexual to become part of a group or to attrract a man?

IronBear -> RE: to Bi or not to Bi...that is the question... (7/16/2006 2:42:25 PM)
I've come accross the term bi-"chic" often here but it always refers to a girl who is bisexual and is often a term used bythe girl herself.. E.G "Hi I'm xxxxx and I'm a bi chick...."

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