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RE: Sub Drop - 7/7/2015 11:38:56 AM

experiment2

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i suspect it is normal to experience a serious falling of interest after an orgasm. it seems to be just basic human chemistry. perhaps it might be better for male subs at least to just have a "ruined" orgasm periodically just to release some of the pent up frustration from chastity control or orgasm denial. i find when i just have an ejaulation without a full aroused orgasm, it calms me down and i don't experience the sudden drop in interest in being a submissive. perhaps it is similar to effects of a "milking". interesting topic

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RE: Sub Drop - 7/7/2015 1:26:25 PM

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Hi experiment2, I think I know very well what a "ruined orgasm" feels like as well dropping out of the slave zone after I've been allowed to come.

What a terrible thing - my master could either make me miserable on purpose or give me what I wanted only to be repaid by my no longer wanting to be his boy.

But I can assure you that for me it was all a matter of practice. Nowadays my climaxes are just that, culmination points provided by my master.
The excitement waxes and wanes, and while that special moment still exists I sometimes have to check my underwear to know whether I have ejaculated or not!

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RE: Sub Drop - 7/11/2015 11:38:12 PM

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aftercare is everything, really it is, Daddy wraps me in a blanket the moment he's done, thats the signal that its done and the beginning of his gentle bring back, if Im laid on the floor at the time, he joins me there, and holds me until the shakes stop, the tears flow and my breathing calms, then he has me move somewhere comfy, and continues to hold me until I am coherent again... this can take just a few minutes or an hour, depends on the intensity of the session.
I bought the dvd , 50 shades (just out of curiosity) we watched it together and laughed at the true to life bits which we connected with, sniggered at the straight from wikipedia bits and coveted the red room of pain... but the one big thing we both agreed on... that man had no idea about after care, he dumps the blanket wrapped Anna into her private room and leaves her there to come down alone? sucky in the extreme... Daddy won't play if he knows he has to leave me soon after, never less than a few hours of togetherness before he goes away.

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RE: Sub Drop - 7/15/2015 7:33:37 PM

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I wonder what your dominants must be like. When I got the blues and was dropping all the balls he said: Go take a day off. Get drunk. Order Chinese. Respect the rules if you can but pee on them if they don't suit you. I'll be here tomorrow and I'll be your master, and I will sure as hell beat you if you don't obey.

Your order of the day: don't berate yourself and have as much fun as you can.

Next day I reported my old strapping self to service and Master said, chuckling, I see that I have trained you well.

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RE: Sub Drop - 7/15/2015 8:04:00 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kittenheels1968

50 shades (just out of curiosity) we watched it together

Same here! Big disappointment! No understanding at all, the only good part was the end when the woman walked away from what was an abusive relationship.

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RE: Sub Drop - 7/18/2015 3:12:18 PM

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Star goes into "sub drop". Best I can do is be understanding and not question her suddenly wanting to leave the club and go get an ice cream cone or a nice dinner somewhere. Sudden changes in mood are just tolerated with a smile. It's hard to not be frustrated but one must avoid that. She snaps out of it.

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RE: Sub Drop - 7/18/2015 3:43:06 PM

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