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Marini -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/22/2015 11:59:43 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Kana
Define opportunity.
I mean, this is the critical point of the whole question. This is why, when doing surveys, wording is everything.
If you mean do they have inboxes stuffed full like they wish their cunts were-sure.
But an email box full of spam doesn't necessarily mean that there's any real offers in the mix.
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Quantity does not mean quality and usually means the obverse
My experience is that if you're a Man who knows what he's about, know how to approach people and act, and are actually dominant, you won't have any issues finding a chica. Here or elsewhere
Now maybe this is different on Match or nilla sites (I suspect it is, but who knows. Nilla women-all they do is complain about not being able to find good men either. Fuck, they have TV shows dedicated to this ), but really, in a lot of ways, I suspect that on a place like this, it may actually be far easier for a man to find someone than the other way around.
Grins-we sure have a lot less garbage to weed through.
Thank you for writing this.
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This is very true in real life also. Go to a munch. Step back, sit still and really watch the dynamics at play. Its fucking fascinating. The doms that know what they are doing, that have some rep-they ain't single. Many have pick of the litter. And there's almost always an alleycat slave or two prowling and slinking about in the corner, waiting to pounce if something happens and His relationship status abruptly changes. Watch. Those guys, they don't stay single long unless they wanna.
Cripes. If nilla chicks can't find a decent guy, what makes you think BDSM, which ain't exactly a hotbed of mental health, especially on the male side, and is also small, and frequently almost incestuously interconnected, is going to be easier.
Preach!
Seriously Kana, thank you so much for this.
Maybe the real problem is a severe and chronic shortage of decent Men.
Not boys or whiny bitches.
Not Christian freaking Grey.
Men.
Just saying'
Thanks Kana, for stating something that I already knew, in a different way.
Now, I have a way of explaining that will be easier for me to articulate.
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Also, I don't view this as "bashing" men, I am speaking of a numbers game.
I know of far too many single Dominant/submissive women on here, despite all the so called "millions" of submissive and Dominant men.
**MAYBE, it's not about the "selection" available, but the desirability factor of those that are available.**
If you are not what women "want/seek/desire/are looking for", it hardly matters if the number is a billion to one.
Peace
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