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Wayward5oul -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/20/2015 6:34:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jdawg99 I'm not looking to offend anyone here. But looking over some posts and profiles on this site, some people need a reality check. I would think it's quite obvious women have more opportunity. If a woman posts a pretty picture, all she has to do is sit back and let the suitors fill up the mail box. Yeah, my mail box fills up. Just these last two weeks I had the "hey im starting a job in your area next week, do you need a live in dom", to the "how's that pussy" for an icebreaker, to the guy whose entire message was "too bad" (that was the first message I had ever received from him), etc etc etc...oh yeah, the suitors are lining up. I am afraid of what opportunities I missed out on by passing up these non-creepy guys. And those are the tame ones. Care to hear about the one that I received about having my breasts sliced off with a rusty knife? quote: picture that could have been taken 20 years ago or may not even be the real person? Ever see that show Catfish on MTV? There are a lot of fakers, hackers, and scam artists out there. Goes both ways. quote: You won't get any sympathy from me if you are not willing to put any work into it. It's 2015, not 1910. It ain't taboo for a woman to approach a man anymore. No one has said it is. Read closely. Its not a woman who started this thread. Women are not on here asking for sympathy for their emails or whining that the men are supposed to do the approaching. Several of us have simply stated what happens when we receive emails, which is what the OP was specifically asking about. Women contacting men was not part of the OP and so it has not been addressed. If that were the case, I am willing to bet that there would be lots of comments from the women about their emailing habits.

GoddessManko -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/20/2015 7:25:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jdawg99 I'm not looking to offend anyone here. But looking over some posts and profiles on this site, some people need a reality check. I would think it's quite obvious women have more opportunity. If a woman posts a pretty picture, all she has to do is sit back and let the suitors fill up the mail box. Then you can come on here and complain about how 99% are creepy and wankers. Then you can start asking for "tributes" to prove worthiness of your time and make a business out of it. You expect serious subs to pay money to strangers on the internet without even talking to you and basing it off a picture that could have been taken 20 years ago or may not even be the real person? Ever see that show Catfish on MTV? There are a lot of fakers, hackers, and scam artists out there. Are there people actually dumb enough to give money to strangers on the internet just so a person that claims to be a woman will talk to you? Think how many legit men you are turning away with that kind of crap. He's my advice for ladies that don't like the mail they get...don't accept any mail. Do your own searching and find a sub/dom that works for you. That's what us guys do! Both dom and sub men. We look for and find the perfect woman that fits our standards and needs. It's the same in the vanilla world as well. A man can go to a club or bar or whatever and ask out 10 women. If 9 say no it is no big deal. There are lots of fish in the sea. But if one says yes, then his night is set. But women sit back, wait to be approached, and then whine about how there aren't any good men in the world anymore. You won't get any sympathy from me if you are not willing to put any work into it. It's 2015, not 1910. It ain't taboo for a woman to approach a man anymore. Someone gave you fellows some valuable information. Go make a profile of the type of woman you are trying to attract, as a Dom female if you are a sub male seeking a relationship or as a sub female if you are a Dom male. You might actually have an epiphany one day of who the fakes and wankers are here and what's working against you. Everyone told you "bring you A game, try your hardest, zone in on one woman at a time and don't have your attention scattered." But no, keeping sending out copy/pasted emails and keep wondering why you keep failing due to lack of real effort and think your pretentious emails deserve a gold star. [8\|][8\|][8\|][8\|][8\|][8\|][8\|][8\|][8\|] By the way pussy might be a dime a dozen but mine certainly isn't, and they are all quite unique unless of course you're tossing a hotdog down a hallway all your life. PS I find it hilarious when a guy tries to capture the attention of a woman without reading the first line of her profile and then thinks anything he says will matter to her, at all. As far as fakes go, I am 100% sure the players are playing each other and have zero sympathy in this regard. Pretty sure my collared would just laugh as well, movie date tomorrow. I like when we do those. You don't like finDommes? Don't email them. All the FinDomme profiles I see say "I REQUIRE TRIBUTE". But you want a girl with perfect hair, makeup, body and skin, 30 years younger with an arsenal of toys and kinky furniture just as long as you don't have to pay for it right? lmao!

Kittenluv954 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/20/2015 9:57:52 PM)
you're talking to a young dudebro with the word "dawg" in his name. i'm pretty sure anything said here is falling on deaf ears, he knows everything and has all the answers already. i mean, come on. he watches mtv so.... he's armed with the heavy artillery.

sexyred1 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/20/2015 11:19:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jdawg99 I'm not looking to offend anyone here. But looking over some posts and profiles on this site, some people need a reality check. I would think it's quite obvious women have more opportunity. If a woman posts a pretty picture, all she has to do is sit back and let the suitors fill up the mail box. Then you can come on here and complain about how 99% are creepy and wankers. Then you can start asking for "tributes" to prove worthiness of your time and make a business out of it. You expect serious subs to pay money to strangers on the internet without even talking to you and basing it off a picture that could have been taken 20 years ago or may not even be the real person? Ever see that show Catfish on MTV? There are a lot of fakers, hackers, and scam artists out there. Are there people actually dumb enough to give money to strangers on the internet just so a person that claims to be a woman will talk to you? Think how many legit men you are turning away with that kind of crap. He's my advice for ladies that don't like the mail they get...don't accept any mail. Do your own searching and find a sub/dom that works for you. That's what us guys do! Both dom and sub men. We look for and find the perfect woman that fits our standards and needs. It's the same in the vanilla world as well. A man can go to a club or bar or whatever and ask out 10 women. If 9 say no it is no big deal. There are lots of fish in the sea. But if one says yes, then his night is set. But women sit back, wait to be approached, and then whine about how there aren't any good men in the world anymore. You won't get any sympathy from me if you are not willing to put any work into it. It's 2015, not 1910. It ain't taboo for a woman to approach a man anymore. Great way to fail on your very first post. Try reading the entire thread before giving us your sterling wisdom after one day on this site.

NookieNotes -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 4:39:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessManko quote: ORIGINAL: NookieNotes quote: ORIGINAL: Baroana Women have their own equivalent of the pussy holy grail, as it were. Another reason why things even out. Agreed. And as a woman who spends time with both women and men, I can assure you (general you, not you, specifically, Baroana) that women and men make fools of themselves equally over the opposite sex. Thankfully none of my friends are that way. NONE of them glorify their sex lives. I wasn't talking about glorifying their sex lives. I was talking about people making fools of themselves over the opposite sex. For love. For lust. For infatuation. I don't know a single person who has not at some point in their lives. Including me. quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: SumYoungDudeFromAnotherState on 3/20/15 at 10:44 AM: It would be hot to see a picture of you presenting your holes from behind I've got to admit, that one did make me laugh. [:D] In the days of Jane Austen, a woman would always find an opportunity, early in the days of courting, to knock on her beau's door. When he opened it, he'd be treated to the sight of her bending over and with her knickers down. Looking through her legs, she'd say, 'Sir, may I present to you my holes?' Ah, the days of courtly romance, so sadly missed. :-( gigglesnorts

thishereboi -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 7:46:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MathewIndio quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP However, you have made it clear that you don't care how women feel by invalidating everything a woman says including telling her a guy isn't creepy when she tells you he is. Your assessment is not more important than ours. Nor should it be. Yet you consistently act and speak in such a manner. Honestly, to me, that's creepy. You telling me some guy isn't creepy when I think he is also tells me that you will ignore my hard limits because you believe they are as invalid as my feelings are to you. I know women who go to their email boxes, click all the emails and deletes them (Deleted, Unread). They wave their hands and say, "All these men are creeps, pervs, etc." Then they ask why can't they find a good man? My one friend let me look at her emails before deleting them. I ask her, "Why is this guy creepy? He looks normal to me." How can these women know they are creepy without even looking at their profiles or reading their emails? You are accusing me of not caring how women feel, I invalidate women because I'm curious how does she know all these men are creeps and pervs without even looking at their profiles or emails. How is it I'm ignoring your hard limits? Would you be so kind as to tell everyone on the forum how do you know all these men are creepy and pervs without looking at their profiles or reading their emails? I have never met your friend so I have no clue why she chose to delete the messages she did. Maybe she is really good at spotting creeps and maybe she has no clue and just likes to delete them. She is the only one who is going to be able to answer the question. What I want to know is why you think this one women represents all women? Personally I know a lot of them and I can't think of one who operates the way you described. So maybe the problem isn't with women in general and more with the ones you choose to hang out with. Something to think about.

thishereboi -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 8:01:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: jdawg99 I'm not looking to offend anyone here. But looking over some posts and profiles on this site, some people need a reality check. I would think it's quite obvious women have more opportunity. If a woman posts a pretty picture, all she has to do is sit back and let the suitors fill up the mail box. Then you can come on here and complain about how 99% are creepy and wankers. Then you can start asking for "tributes" to prove worthiness of your time and make a business out of it. You expect serious subs to pay money to strangers on the internet without even talking to you and basing it off a picture that could have been taken 20 years ago or may not even be the real person? Ever see that show Catfish on MTV? There are a lot of fakers, hackers, and scam artists out there. Are there people actually dumb enough to give money to strangers on the internet just so a person that claims to be a woman will talk to you? Think how many legit men you are turning away with that kind of crap. He's my advice for ladies that don't like the mail they get...don't accept any mail. Do your own searching and find a sub/dom that works for you. That's what us guys do! Both dom and sub men. We look for and find the perfect woman that fits our standards and needs. It's the same in the vanilla world as well. A man can go to a club or bar or whatever and ask out 10 women. If 9 say no it is no big deal. There are lots of fish in the sea. But if one says yes, then his night is set. But women sit back, wait to be approached, and then whine about how there aren't any good men in the world anymore. You won't get any sympathy from me if you are not willing to put any work into it. It's 2015, not 1910. It ain't taboo for a woman to approach a man anymore. Great way to fail on your very first post. Try reading the entire thread before giving us your sterling wisdom after one day on this site. You mean his first day on this site under that nic.

MathewIndio -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 8:26:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi I have never met your friend so I have no clue why she chose to delete the messages she did. Maybe she is really good at spotting creeps and maybe she has no clue and just likes to delete them. She is the only one who is going to be able to answer the question. What I want to know is why you think this one women represents all women? Personally I know a lot of them and I can't think of one who operates the way you described. So maybe the problem isn't with women in general and more with the ones you choose to hang out with. Something to think about. I have chatted with several women who won't bother reading any emails (Deleted, Unread) because they believe they are all creeps, perv, etc. Both on this site and other dating sites. There are several women on this forum who admitted that they do this too. I never said this one woman represents ALL women. My point is that there are women who Delete, Unread their emails and then complain they can't find any good men. My question is how do they expect to find any good men if they don't even bother reading emails or looking at their profiles. One person made a valid point. She is able to read the first few lines of every email sent to her without ever opening the email. From this she is able to make a decision.

shiftyw -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 8:34:48 AM)
Ok, it happens. Those ladies won't make a suitable partner for you. Move on. I delete unread because I often get mail when my profile says JUST HERE FOR THE FORUMS. and if I don't recognize your sn from the forum- why would I respond? I'm in a relationship. My profile states what I am here for. Why are they emailing me? I don't bitch incessantly about it because its much easier to delete them and go about my day then worry about that.

sexyred1 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 9:42:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MathewIndio quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi I have never met your friend so I have no clue why she chose to delete the messages she did. Maybe she is really good at spotting creeps and maybe she has no clue and just likes to delete them. She is the only one who is going to be able to answer the question. What I want to know is why you think this one women represents all women? Personally I know a lot of them and I can't think of one who operates the way you described. So maybe the problem isn't with women in general and more with the ones you choose to hang out with. Something to think about. I have chatted with several women who won't bother reading any emails (Deleted, Unread) because they believe they are all creeps, perv, etc. Both on this site and other dating sites. There are several women on this forum who admitted that they do this too. I never said this one woman represents ALL women. My point is that there are women who Delete, Unread their emails and then complain they can't find any good men. My question is how do they expect to find any good men if they don't even bother reading emails or looking at their profiles. One person made a valid point. She is able to read the first few lines of every email sent to her without ever opening the email. From this she is able to make a decision. Yeah, we all do that. First you start this thread asking if we all agree that women appear to have more opportunities. Why don't you now start another ridiculous thread discussing why women hover over the first few lines of an email and then delete it? I am pretty sure the replies on that thread will go right over your head as this one did.

ExiledTyrant -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 9:55:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MathewIndio quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi I have never met your friend so I have no clue why she chose to delete the messages she did. Maybe she is really good at spotting creeps and maybe she has no clue and just likes to delete them. She is the only one who is going to be able to answer the question. What I want to know is why you think this one women represents all women? Personally I know a lot of them and I can't think of one who operates the way you described. So maybe the problem isn't with women in general and more with the ones you choose to hang out with. Something to think about. I have chatted with several women who won't bother reading any emails (Deleted, Unread) because they believe they are all creeps, perv, etc. Both on this site and other dating sites. There are several women on this forum who admitted that they do this too. I never said this one woman represents ALL women. My point is that there are women who Delete, Unread their emails and then complain they can't find any good men. My question is how do they expect to find any good men if they don't even bother reading emails or looking at their profiles. One person made a valid point. She is able to read the first few lines of every email sent to her without ever opening the email. From this she is able to make a decision. 9 pages later... do you think you've changed the world? There is no spoon, Neo.

MathewIndio -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 10:31:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Why don't you now start another ridiculous thread discussing why women hover over the first few lines of an email and then delete it? No, I don't have any interest in doing that. Why don't you create a thread instead of suggesting other people do it?

GoddessManko -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 10:41:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NookieNotes I wasn't talking about glorifying their sex lives. I was talking about people making fools of themselves over the opposite sex. For love. For lust. For infatuation. I don't know a single person who has not at some point in their lives. Including me. Ah OK, I would call remaining in a toxic environment/allowing it to have a negative effect on you as foolish and in such regard only a select few I would hope, do that. As far as "bad experiences" relationship wise, they are always learning experiences and that's really how we grow as people into becoming who we are. I truly believe pain allows people to go through profound metamorphoses and that's why I love it so much. quote: ORIGINAL: MathewIndio quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Why don't you now start another ridiculous thread discussing why women hover over the first few lines of an email and then delete it? No, I don't have any interest in doing that. Why don't you create a thread instead of suggesting other people do it? LOL, It was rhetoric...wow.

ChrchofDrk -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 10:48:37 AM)
quote: 9 pages later... do you think you've changed the world? There is no spoon, Neo. No spoon????? ... well doesn't that just suck

SeekingTrinity -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 11:03:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MathewIndio quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi I have never met your friend so I have no clue why she chose to delete the messages she did. Maybe she is really good at spotting creeps and maybe she has no clue and just likes to delete them. She is the only one who is going to be able to answer the question. What I want to know is why you think this one women represents all women? Personally I know a lot of them and I can't think of one who operates the way you described. So maybe the problem isn't with women in general and more with the ones you choose to hang out with. Something to think about. I have chatted with several women who won't bother reading any emails (Deleted, Unread) because they believe they are all creeps, perv, etc. Both on this site and other dating sites. There are several women on this forum who admitted that they do this too. I never said this one woman represents ALL women. My point is that there are women who Delete, Unread their emails and then complain they can't find any good men. My question is how do they expect to find any good men if they don't even bother reading emails or looking at their profiles. One person made a valid point. She is able to read the first few lines of every email sent to her without ever opening the email. From this she is able to make a decision. And again...why the hell does it matter so much to you what these women do? If they never date another man as long as they live...what's it to you? Life must move pretty slow in your world if you feel the need to devote your time and energy to something that has absolutely nothing to do with you. Shouldn't your focus be on YOUR dating life...not the dating lives of others?

wannabecuckedAR -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 11:28:52 AM)
I'd say you are dead on. I like your view on this and wish more people would open their eyes to this. quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessManko Ah OK, I would call remaining in a toxic environment/allowing it to have a negative effect on you as foolish and in such regard only a select few I would hope, do that. As far as "bad experiences" relationship wise, they are always learning experiences and that's really how we grow as people into becoming who we are. I truly believe pain allows people to go through profound metamorphoses and that's why I love it so much.

MathewIndio -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 11:32:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity And again...why the hell does it matter so much to you what these women do? If they never date another man as long as they live...what's it to you? Life must move pretty slow in your world if you feel the need to devote your time and energy to something that has absolutely nothing to do with you. Shouldn't your focus be on YOUR dating life...not the dating lives of others? I'm not devoting my time and energy and my life to the dating lives of others. The forum gives people a chance to ask all sorts of question and to bring up all sorts of issues and get the opinion of others. Is life moving pretty slow in your world that you feel the need to attack posters on the forum? Shouldn't your focus be NOT on attacking other people?

SeekingTrinity -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 11:35:14 AM)
Sweetie, you haven't been attacked by me. Trust and believe you'd know it if I did attack you. You aren't asking a question. You are bitching and moaning about what other people chose to do as far as THEIR dating life went. It's not your business, nor do you have any dog in the fight as far as what they do in their life goes. If they want to ignore every message, it's not your business. If they never date again because of how they handle things, it's not your business. And no amount of going on and on and on about it over and over and over again will change that

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 12:09:50 PM)
OP, consider that you have created a 9 page non-modifiable, non-removable profile of yourself here in this thread. I suspect I'm not the only submissive woman seeking a dominant man who rejects instantly men who whine.

MathewIndio -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/21/2015 12:19:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity Sweetie, you haven't been attacked by me. Trust and believe you'd know it if I did attack you. You aren't asking a question. You are bitching and moaning about what other people chose to do as far as THEIR dating life went. It's not your business, nor do you have any dog in the fight as far as what they do in their life goes. If they want to ignore every message, it's not your business. If they never date again because of how they handle things, it's not your business. And no amount of going on and on and on about it over and over and over again will change that I'm not "bitching and moaning" about what other people choose to do as far as their dating life goes. I'm asking a question, "Do you think women have more opportunity than men on dating sites?" After reading the reasonable responses, I've opened up my eyes. Women don't have more opportunity than men. You could go to everyone who posts on the forum and say, "It's none of your business." "You're bitching and moaning." But I'm not complaining about you. I realize that when anyone posts on the forum they will always attract others who will attack you, accuse you, put words in your mouth, make unrelated accusations. All one has to do is read the different posts and it happens. It's just the nature of the forum and I get that.

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