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GoddessManko -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/27/2015 2:42:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Awareness

You really have some weird fucken hobbies, you know that? [:D]


Weird fucken hobbies make the world go round. I live for those. [:D]




DerangedUnit -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/27/2015 2:53:16 PM)

Mako: I wish I could deal with my natural color but I feel looking too normal isn't enough warning to people :P

Aware: you don't know the half of it ;)




sexyred1 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/27/2015 3:26:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Awareness


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ORIGINAL: Kittenluv954
i actually never defined what i find attractive, but nice try at painting me a hypocrite.
Actually you DID. I specifically said that 2-5% of women want the cute face and a set of abs. You responded by saying " im also one of the 2% that expect a man to be attractive TO ME." , specifically referencing my statement. (If you're going to try and say you weren't referencing what I said, then I call bullshit, because otherwise your entire sentiment is unrelated to the discussion at all - in which case you're just confused.)

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as for my security, i think you missed manko's post on that, as she knows me and you do not. again, nice try.
She may think she knows you, but in 5 seconds the bitterness in your response tells me more than she ever could.

One of the mistakes people make is to presume they're opaque. They're not. The people with the strongest emotional responses are generally the most transparent. Your response is not the response of a secure woman who disagrees. It's the response of a bitter, disappointed woman.





I was counting down the moments since you once again graced us with your presence, till you pulled that bullshit again.

You are nothing if not consistent for calling everyone who disagrees with you bitter or disappointed. I understand you like to be thought of as marching to the tune of your own bongo player, but really you just like to stir shit up.

You know nothing but your own narrow minded views, have a real issue with women who support each other, and while you made a slight attempt, you are back to insulting everyone who dares to disagree with you.

I expect your reply to me will be some variation of bitter, disappointed, emotional, confused, a cunt, a bitch, old, fat or delusional.

Here's a thesaurus, impress us with your command of language.





Awareness -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/27/2015 3:48:39 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
I was counting down the moments since you once again graced us with your presence, till you pulled that bullshit again.

You are nothing if not consistent for calling everyone who disagrees with you bitter or disappointed. I understand you like to be thought of as marching to the tune of your own bongo player, but really you just like to stir shit up.

You know nothing but your own narrow minded views, have a real issue with women who support each other, and while you made a slight attempt, you are back to insulting everyone who dares to disagree with you.

I expect your reply to me will be some variation of bitter, disappointed, emotional, confused, a cunt, a bitch, old, fat or delusional.

Here's a thesaurus, impress us with your command of language.


SexyRed, I'm not going to engage in unpleasantness with a woman who is suffering as much as you are. There's nothing to be gained by responding to your venom. I'm well aware you have never had anything other than spite for me, but if anything, you require more joy in your life, not less. There is no honour in my heaping any kind of recrimination upon your head. Accordingly, while you're free to believe as you will, I will not be using this forum to pull you down. I wish you long life, joy and peace.




Moderator3 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/27/2015 5:10:46 PM)

To the forum play boy:

That was a cute little trick fart boy. I'll be back.




PeonForHer -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/27/2015 5:16:49 PM)

What ... the hell?




Moderator3 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/27/2015 5:18:28 PM)

Just the guy that is stalking the forum.




PeonForHer -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/27/2015 5:21:07 PM)

Oh. Right.




sexyred1 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/27/2015 8:50:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Awareness


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
I was counting down the moments since you once again graced us with your presence, till you pulled that bullshit again.

You are nothing if not consistent for calling everyone who disagrees with you bitter or disappointed. I understand you like to be thought of as marching to the tune of your own bongo player, but really you just like to stir shit up.

You know nothing but your own narrow minded views, have a real issue with women who support each other, and while you made a slight attempt, you are back to insulting everyone who dares to disagree with you.

I expect your reply to me will be some variation of bitter, disappointed, emotional, confused, a cunt, a bitch, old, fat or delusional.

Here's a thesaurus, impress us with your command of language.


SexyRed, I'm not going to engage in unpleasantness with a woman who is suffering as much as you are. There's nothing to be gained by responding to your venom. I'm well aware you have never had anything other than spite for me, but if anything, you require more joy in your life, not less. There is no honour in my heaping any kind of recrimination upon your head. Accordingly, while you're free to believe as you will, I will not be using this forum to pull you down. I wish you long life, joy and peace.



Your fake good wishes fall flat. I will never lose my ability or desire to call it as I see it. Which is not venom or spite.

I am not worried about interacting with you on a forum.

I have Cancer, not Alzheimer's.





Awareness -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 12:47:34 AM)

*chuckle* There's nothing fake about me, dear lady. I don't have the desire or need for insincerity. And I'm still not going to attack you.

Your need for health and happiness is greater than my need to win an argument with a sick, unhappy woman on an internet forum.




NookieNotes -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 5:45:59 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit
I do ;) but that's because that's the only way you humans make any sense to me.


LOL! Yes. This.

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At the risk of proving your point awareness... I don't buy the "own group preference" stuff unless it's a group that already knows each other, or has other similarities... most women are naturally socially competitive. And will side with the group that seems beneficial. I.e. women will defend a potential partner to a group of friends, but they will throw a drink in their face if they see the group as "worth more"

Example 1: I met one of my owners friends for the first time last year, our conversation was joking but she was obviously testing me she told him she likes me but then the next day texted him saying she saw me somewhere talking to some guys. What she was doing was an obvious attempt to sow discordo there was no connection based on being female, it was competitive.

Example 2: hanging out with the members of a poly house 2 girls and one guy... one of the girls and the guy were present and he decided to try to gain ground 'look impressive' by putting me in a hold and telling me to beg to let go. The girl that was there had a history of abuse and she immediately went quiet and wrapped her hand around the lamp. If I needed it she would have defended me based on her history though not the common 'female' ground

Maybe I just feel left out that girls never side with me :'( ;)


I have a few things to say to this...

1. Women side with women they have a perceived both with when NOT in competition for resources.

2. It was very late in my life before I found the joys of female company (beyond sexy times, LOL!), and I'm very glad I did. I still find most more difficult than men, but the ones I get along best with make AMAZING friends, and we have never competed over resources (mostly because all of us have a "plenty" mindset.

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ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit

Mako: I wish I could deal with my natural color but I feel looking too normal isn't enough warning to people :P


True story: I got a Mohawk for my 40th birthday, thinking (apparently erroneously) that it would make me less... I don't know... cute/approachable/normal-looking. That's not why I got it, but I thought it might change my appeal somewhat. I still got approached by little old ladies (they love my hair!) weirdos (they just want to talk about their issues), children (ick!), etc.

Don't get me wrong, I like being approachable, I just thought the 'do would have an effect. None. In fact, I think it made me MORE approachable, as people had a topic they could talk with me about immediately.

LOL!





sexyred1 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 11:09:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

*chuckle* There's nothing fake about me, dear lady. I don't have the desire or need for insincerity. And I'm still not going to attack you.

Your need for health and happiness is greater than my need to win an argument with a sick, unhappy woman on an internet forum.


I am not "sick", you [mod removed a PA].

Don't go around calling people with cancer, sick.






ModAssistant5 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 12:24:44 PM)

Please return to the original topic.




slvemike4u -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 1:27:32 PM)

It's called pussy privilege



ok,that satisfy's the "return to original topic".....now,welcome to the forums MA5 [:)]




PeonForHer -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 2:36:27 PM)

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*chuckle* There's nothing fake about me, dear lady.


That isn't a way to defuse sensitive feelings, Awareness. Jesus Christ, if you're going to do the 'I tell it like it is' thing - which you do well, when you put some effort into it - I would suggest you *go all the way* in eliminating the oneupmanship element. It's unnecessary and gets in the way.




Moderator3 -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 3:13:48 PM)

As all good threads do, they change. At some point, the good discussion becomes other things.

I'm wondering if it is that time for this thread.

Already, certain people have had me continuously on the thread hunting posters with an agenda. Lots of attention through the fault of no one else. Then the debate becomes something different than the original post. If it continues, this thread will be locked and that would be a sad thing in my view and totally unnecessary if mod staff wanted to appoint a thread sitter, 24/7.

That's not going to happen.

Let's return to the topic please.




GoddessManko -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 3:18:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

*chuckle* There's nothing fake about me, dear lady. I don't have the desire or need for insincerity. And I'm still not going to attack you.

Your need for health and happiness is greater than my need to win an argument with a sick, unhappy woman on an internet forum.


Personally I think pointing out such a thing is more cruel than actually engaging her like I engage others but I suppose this goes back to perspective.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

That isn't a way to defuse sensitive feelings, Awareness. Jesus Christ, if you're going to do the 'I tell it like it is' thing - which you do well, when you put some effort into it - I would suggest you *go all the way* in eliminating the oneupmanship element. It's unnecessary and gets in the way.


Agreed. Though I think he was being genuine in this case. Again perspective.

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1. Women side with women they have a perceived both with when NOT in competition for resources.


Once again perspective. I'm not in competition with anyone here because no matter what I do, my livelihood, which is far more important is still in tact and not threatened in any way. I will still have this home and the other where I can call home. There is less pressure on me to compete. I prefer uplifting other women but sometimes small things like looks, manner of dress, disposition, manner of speech etc "rubs people the wrong way". Even when it is apparent there's no hard feelings on your side and you have never made any form of direct insult towards them. Sometimes mob mentality comes into play in this regard.
I get along with women generally once they get to know me but it takes time and consistence. Women at my gym would give me dirty looks and one even tried to kick me out once but I keep my sunny, happy disposition and I focus on my workouts, not the boys oogling me, and eventually they got the drift. Everyone at my gym loves me, they realize I'm not the "gym skank" they initially thought, LOL.
I am a member of many large women groups and have been for several years. A forum on a kink site is not my choice for a soapbox. I like women by default.




CelticPrince -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 3:56:39 PM)

It is a fact but one that does not need to be
honored. If a male has a good cock and knows how to use it.......that is all that is needed to balance the equation.

Perhaps a lot less sex but when it is there on your trms, the fems know a winner and will keep coming back.

CP




Apocalypso -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 4:46:04 PM)

It's true. Women love a man with his own poultry farm.




Awareness -> RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity (3/28/2015 5:55:16 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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*chuckle* There's nothing fake about me, dear lady.


That isn't a way to defuse sensitive feelings, Awareness. Jesus Christ, if you're going to do the 'I tell it like it is' thing - which you do well, when you put some effort into it - I would suggest you *go all the way* in eliminating the oneupmanship element. It's unnecessary and gets in the way.
I'd say that's pretty convincing proof that no matter how conciliatory I am, there are people here who specifically go out of their way to find fault in anything I say.

Any pretense that people are reacting to the content - rather than the individual - is pretty much going to fall flat right now.




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