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ORIGINAL: sub1986katsu

what are some places and or people to learn from about it? :) im very curious. :)
-david

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ORIGINAL: sub1986katsu

. . . I am very interested in this type of service to a Domme, so i wanted to get some education about it first.

How do I say this? Intellectual Discourse is not a service that is provided to a Domme in a D/s or BDSM capacity, meaning that it's no different than what a 'nilla lady might desire in a companion.

In other words, it's an individual choice, and there is no standard education or training apart from life experience and your own intellectual pursuits, along with conversational skills you've acquired.

It all depends upon the person and having common interests of a more cerebral nature that you both enjoy discussing at length, or issues which don't revolve around your own subjective (egocentric and cock-centric) universe.

Like MissToYouRedux noted, the bar is set quite low on the other (profile) side. Just acting like you're not a sex-crazed maniac, kink or fetish fiend should do the trick.

What I'm curious to know is why you have "sub" in your screen name since you joined nearly 9 years ago, claim to have 7 years' lifestyle experience David, sound here as if you are a male sub seeking a Domme, yet list yourself as a male Dom who is Actively Seeking FemDom and MaleDom couples?

Btw, what happened to your pet "kitten"? The one you wanted to arrange a gangbang for with two guys 4 years ago?

Based on your Interests list, you have plenty of vanilla interests. You already have more than enough Curious Abouts listed, but "Intellectual Discourse" should go there. (I would remove a few items first, as well as under your crowded Likes, before adding anything else.) Your BDSM type activities are mostly bottoming, particularly going by what you say you Live For. Other than having Female Supremacy as a Likes, your profile appears to be sending mixed messages and wouldn't hold a strong appeal for a Dominant woman to have to sort this all out.

If you are both sub and Dom, then you might want to consider changing your orientation to switch, to avoid confusion. Just saying.

DreamLady

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ORIGINAL: sub1986katsu

thank you very much Dave.
I will take this into regard, I am very interested in this type of service to a Domme, so i wanted to get some education about it first.

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ORIGINAL: ThatDaveGuy69


"Tell me again about how US monetary policy is an attempt to both stimulate the economy while keeping inflation in check! Oooooooh! Tell me about the Fed! Oh yeah, baby! You KNOW what I like to hear!"

Or nor.

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ORIGINAL: sub1986katsu

what are some places and or people to learn from about it? :) im very curious. :)
-david

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

You should, of course, learn from your intellectual superiors; although I've found their nose hairs to be quite distracting. Bring tweezers. Their tears of joy that fall when you pluck the errant strands is quite touching.

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ORIGINAL: Soyokaze

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

You should, of course, learn from your intellectual superiors; although I've found their nose hairs to be quite distracting. Bring tweezers. Their tears of joy that fall when you pluck the errant strands is quite touching.

You can always get the low hanging ones electrolysis-ized... Most painful thing ever.

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ORIGINAL: sub1986katsu

what are some places and or people to learn from about it? :) im very curious. :)
-david

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ORIGINAL: Gauge


My quick guide:

1. Buy the Oxford English dictionary. Read the entire thing.

2. Read the Internet, all of it, missing nothing.

3. After doing number 1 and 2, find someone to talk to and share what you learned.

Hope this helps.

That is just plane mean