ExiledTyrant
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ORIGINAL: smileforme50 While I knew it was him in the back of my mind because I did recognize his voice...he was talking in a very low soft whisper in my ear all the time so he did sound a little different. You knew it was him but did you question your safety? The reason I ask is, I love planning stuff like this so that the submissive will question their safety, even though they ultimately trust me. We read so much on here about 'trust' and whilst I appreciate how important that is, a 'head fuck' in my world is partly about fucking that trust up, even if only for a very short space in time. In my sick and twisted mind, that trust would have to be the baseline. I couldn't ever enter into a mind fuck scene where the trust wasn't implicit. It is the safety net for me. I am all about blurring the reality of trust, giving the illusion of doubt, but once the illusion became the reality and he/she was caught in the sudden awareness that "trust" was broken or could be broken, red would come too soon. Perhaps it should be another topic... I dunno... bringing someone to the precipice of madness, which is where the mind fuck is going... the realm of "oh fuck... this cannot be happening", I need trust to be the haven that his/her mind always retreats to for reassurance. IMO the mind fuck is to place the victim into a surreality of horrific possibility, and the mind falling back to the reassurance of trust, no matter how blurred, keeps the scene going. Thoughts?
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