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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/24/2015 4:50:20 PM

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/24/2015 4:55:10 PM

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It's the male equivalent to women posting tit/pussy/ass shots, which are much better received

I don't think so, RR. Such pics are done by women who have some rudimentary idea of how men tick. Men who post pictures of their dicks have no idea at all how real-life women tick, on the other hand.

Probably a better equivalent is women who post pics of themselves in their wedding gowns. See ResidentSadist's thread.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/24/2015 5:13:52 PM

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I don't know if this also applies to many male profiles on the Collarspace site, as I don't bother looking at any of
them, but as it does apply to male profiles on other BDSM sites, can anyone explain what makes some males want
to put up photos of their cock in their profile, as it seems like something that only a dickhead (no pun intended) would
want to do.

Good question ....

Yet why are the photos of so many females with just legs spread and a pussy shot?

Same motivation i think.

Even though i have no idea who they are trying to impress with these photos!

I view em as a red light, and move on to the next profile looking for substance. How about you?

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/24/2015 6:58:29 PM

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/25/2015 4:51:31 AM

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Men are visual creatures: they LOVE porn and they LOVE tits and ass shots (not all of you, but a decent majority, before someone jumps down my throat). The mistake they make, is assuming women are the same.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/25/2015 10:02:54 AM

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If I had a cock......Id take pictures of it...and then some

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/25/2015 10:59:55 AM

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The mistake they make, is assuming women are the same.

That's always the mistake they make, over and over again. They generally assume what works for them will work on us. When it doesn't, then they cry foul about how "manipulative" women are, because we don't play by their hare-brained rules.

It's where the fallacious "women are the same as men" sameness principle wreaks havoc in gender relations.
(No, the new fridge, d/w, w/d or whatever replacement appliance or home upgrade needed for the entire household's use is NOT a personal gift to be given to us for our birthday, wedding anniversary, Christmas or Valentine's Day in lieu of a personal, intimately and romantically thoughtful gift. If it were, then we're entitled to take it with us when we leave their sorry asses, or dispose of it as we see fit.

What's worse is when their gift-giving is actually something they want for themselves.)

The ones who've wised up somewhere along the line, are those acutely perceptive men who know that it's what's between their ears and what sweet assurances and sentiments that come out of their mouth that counts, not (only) what's between their legs.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/25/2015 4:17:17 PM

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True. Anyone who ever bought me lingerie, actually bought it for themselves.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/25/2015 4:35:49 PM

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True. Anyone who ever bought me lingerie, actually bought it for themselves.

Of course. Have you any idea how much the average man would love you to buy him underwear that's really 'for you'? Gawd. That almost never happens.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/26/2015 2:19:31 AM

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To be fair Dreamlady, many women have been pretty quick to let themselves down in this regard, by which I mean that they have assumed that to succeed, they must be more like men.

Early on in my career (in a male-dominated field) I worked for a number of absolutely ballbusting women. They were universally despised; and they often hit walls as people sought to manage them out. The really successful women learned that it is their feminine qualities that make them so desirable to a team: aggro type A males tend to rub along a lot better with a balancing influence.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/26/2015 7:25:16 AM

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Well…hmmmm

I think people should realize most, if not all, are on these types of sites to please themselves not those looking, uninvited, at their profiles. Yes they are public but no one is making anyone look at them. Now if someone sends a cock picture without being invited to do so then that is impolite but that is different than having nudes in their own profile.

I think CM is wise to limit the nudity in the primary profile picture but what kind of additional pictures they post is no ones business but their own…no one is twisting your arm to look at them.

I happen to love all types of nudity… I would never send a nude without invitation but I see nothing wrong with enjoying the look of another’s body. I must say considering the lifestyle of these boards I find it ironic that anyone would turn up their nose at another because of nudity.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/26/2015 10:52:01 AM

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Well that is of course entirely true, however when Mr Cock-Shot-Profile-Pic sends me a message, he is kinda forcing me to look at it. I didn't consent to that.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/26/2015 11:01:14 AM

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I understand and agree with you completely. To me it is the same as the trench coat exhibitionist...lol. I've nothing against exhibitionism either, in fact I'm all for it, but it should be consensual.

But if someone is just surfing profiles and sees a cock and acts shocked... they are idiots and hypocritical... in my opinion anyway.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/26/2015 9:14:26 PM

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When I see a profile with nothing but dick pics this scenario comes to my mind. I have agreed to meet a man who has contacted me online with only a dick pic. I drive up to the restaurant where we have agreed to meet. There he is standing in front waiting for me wearing a paper bag on his head as he doesn't want anyone to know it's him and waving his dick in his hand to make sure I'll recognize him.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/27/2015 9:29:24 AM

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This is what I have posted in my profile about penis pictures:

IF you have pictures of your penis in your profile, then I'm probably not going to be interested in you. NO offense to your little fella there - and I may make an exception to my no penis pictures opinion if it is an absolutely STELLAR penis. In which case, I can understand why one would feel compelled to advertise it. In general, however, I haven't yet seen a penis picture that fell into that must post a picture of it category. Mostly, I've found that guys who lead with the penis, think with the penis and THAT is not something I'm interested in.

and from my journal:

8/12/2007 10:45:48 PM [Report Entry]
Things That Make You Go HMM...

Here's the thing. I like a man's little soldier as much as anyone. However, when I'm getting to know a person I want to know what the person might look like if I were sitting across from them at say, a dinner table. I don't really envision sitting across the table from a big dick...Ok, scratch that. I really do have too great an imagination to not actually picture that.

Back to my point, men who send pics of his little soldier in lieu of his face baffle me. It doesn't offend me, it just sort of makes me go hmmm?
I can understand that it might be a good way to close the sale, but it really isn't a great marketing ploy. Let's face it, even at full attention, and in all their patriotic glory, those little soldiers really aren't very attractive. Whereas a nice smile, stunning gaze or a charming peeking around the corner face shot is much more intriguing. I really do appreciate the glimpse down under, but how about starting with a nice smile?

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/27/2015 12:12:55 PM

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Because when I see a BEAUTIFUL penis I get sooooo wet that all I can think about is sending a really nice polite message to its owner BEGGING them to let me play with it at their earliest convenience... I will DREAM about that perfect beautiful penis.
EVERY NIGHT.
Until i am allowed to take it in my...

oh...

wait....

this is the real world.

Sorry.

I see a penis picture and think... "What a knob..."

Now a really articulate intelligent attractive gentleman who can engage me in a lively conversation... make me laugh, flirt outrageously and fill my head with wonderful images of delicious debauchery... THAT will make me beg for more :)

But some men, bless their little hearts, all they have is a cock shot.
Its a shame for them.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/27/2015 10:52:46 PM

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Because when I see a BEAUTIFUL penis I get sooooo wet that all I can think about is sending a really nice polite message to its owner BEGGING them to let me play with it at their earliest convenience... I will DREAM about that perfect beautiful penis.
EVERY NIGHT.
Until i am allowed to take it in my...

oh...

wait....

this is the real world.

Sorry.

I see a penis picture and think... "What a knob..."

Now a really articulate intelligent attractive gentleman who can engage me in a lively conversation... make me laugh, flirt outrageously and fill my head with wonderful images of delicious debauchery... THAT will make me beg for more :)

But some men, bless their little hearts, all they have is a cock shot.
Its a shame for them.

But...but...but...what about all the beautiful cock shots I posted on the first page of this thread?

Didn't THEY make you wet??

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/27/2015 11:00:16 PM

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True. Anyone who ever bought me lingerie, actually bought it for themselves.

Of course. Have you any idea how much the average man would love you to buy him underwear that's really 'for you'? Gawd. That almost never happens.

Oh, I have done that for my men. I hate white underwear, so I bought them black or grey boxer briefs.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/29/2015 4:39:46 AM

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I am speaking only of hetero guys here, but I think that because men are so turned on by our female genitals, they think that we ladies will be turned on, in equal fashion, by pictures of their genitals. These men obviously are the ones who really don't understand women. With regard to the ass shots, I think the same thing is true, but I think a lot of them are also flagging that they like it up the b-hole.

I do not answer, nor do I friend people with a penis picture as their main profile photo. I'm not going to sit there chatting to some guy's dick. Also, I want nothing to do with a male whose photos consist mainly of various angles of his penis. That makes it clear to me that he is not looking to serve, he is looking to fuck and not much more.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/29/2015 9:33:10 AM

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I have some timely advice:

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