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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 4/29/2015 7:14:13 PM   
DarkSteven


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I am speaking only of hetero guys here, but I think that because men are so turned on by our female genitals,


I'm not. I love women's faces and hair, breasts, and bottoms. But genitals? Nah.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 5/6/2015 3:10:14 AM   
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@DarkSteven, I am unsurprised by this. You have always stood out to me as a different kind of male and I mean this in a good way!

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 8/6/2015 7:53:21 AM   
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Well, I am ambivalent over this issue. Sauce for the Goose is Sauce for the Gander and I like cunt shots on females profiles so I cannot be a hypocrite.
I do however empathise with women who do not like it.
Most of the reasons trotted out are pretty wide of the mark. Why on earth any guy should be insecure just because he posts his dick on his profile is clap trap.
At the end of the day, you either like it, don't like it or it doesn't bother you. To try to put the guy down is just judgemental Horse Shit and if anything puts you down as insecure.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 8/6/2015 8:22:37 AM   
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As I'm blatantly guilty of using cleavage shots, I can only assume they post them for similar reasons. As for me, I don't care to post my face for privacy reasons. When I share it publicly I can't regulate who sees it, or for how long, or what they do with it. The idea makes me uncomfortable, being watched by someone that I can't see. Yet, the picture you upload is typically expected to have you in it. So I go for the next best feature. As I've had issues photographing my own bare brain in the past, I often opt for boobs, bum. Occasionally feet or lips. Not my vagina, but that is because it's not as visually impressive to me as the rest of my physical attributes. If I was confident that my vaginally was stunning it might be different, but I am quite a tease and think it's more erotic to leave them wanting to see more... Rather than turning away, knowing they've seen all there was to see. I suppose I view the "about me" section an opportunity to show a bit of my character, and the profile picture an opportunity to show a bit of my looks.

On top of that, let's not forget plenty of males are here to find a No Strings fling, in which case it really is one of the main features. I'm not saying they have to be well endowed or anything of the sort. We just all have preferences on what we find most attractive, differing from big to small in all shapes and shades. But if you are looking for sex only, it's pretty important to establish a mutual physical attraction. I think I might be different from other women in this respect but I cannot and will not agree to a casual play date if I can't see what I'm signing up for. Sometimes those profile pictures make the search a lot easier as you don't spend time "getting to know each other" to then find out upon arrival that for whatever reason their piece is not appealing to you. And at that point it will be a lot harder to reject someone, as you've already gotten so friendly.

Don't get me wrong, a bad attitude is a deal breaker all the same. If a man has a gorgeous cock but a foul personality, I will happily pass. However... For those looking for a more casual encounter, rather than an emotional bond, the penis can be a deal breaker too. At the end of the day, you can't fuck a personality. No matter how lovely it is.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 8/6/2015 9:05:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm not. I love women's faces and hair, breasts, and bottoms. But genitals? Nah.


Ditto. Leave out the growlers and poopchutes, please.


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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 8/6/2015 2:09:29 PM   
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I think they are just trying to compete with the plethora of cleavage and taco shots in girl's profiles.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 8/6/2015 5:31:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Transcender8

I don't know if this also applies to many male profiles on the Collarspace site, as I don't bother looking at any of
them, but as it does apply to male profiles on other BDSM sites, can anyone explain what makes some males want
to put up photos of their cock in their profile, as it seems like something that only a dickhead (no pun intended) would
want to do.


Some chics (not many) actually love that. I dated a woman who loved the fact that I......well....anyway.....but....some do...most don't.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 8/7/2015 5:01:28 PM   
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Now there is absolutely nothing wrong with a beautiful cock shot

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 8/8/2015 3:09:17 AM   
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The occasional cock shot in a profile doesn't bother me. I do assume that if one is actively seeking another for intimate or eventually intimate purses, then taking a look at the whole package including genitals would be something that comes up sooner or later. Might be because I'm not actively seeking anything (short of perhaps a mentor, and more rope-people), but I'm much more interested in a profile filled with full-body or facial images that demonstrate some inclusion of vanilla hobbies than anything else. The occasional cock is fine. 50+ images of them? No thanks.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 8/8/2015 7:42:43 AM   
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I'm with the 'prefer not to see a strangers genitals' camp.

I've yet to hear anyone complain about blatant cleavage, it's the best kind.

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RE: What's the deal with male profiles that have cock p... - 8/8/2015 8:57:57 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

I'm with the 'prefer not to see a strangers genitals' camp.

I've yet to hear anyone complain about blatant cleavage, it's the best kind.


Ugh. Boobs.

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