LipstickLeuger -> RE: Get Nude or Fail Class (5/15/2015 8:10:06 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LipstickLeuger This is a Visual Performance Arts class, so someone who took this class could use it to get a degree that allows them to perform on stage in musicals and plays on Broadway. It is NOT unusual for an actor or actress to perform nude on stage. Hair, Equus, The Full Monty, and several other shows that I can't think of off hand have nudity in them. Many visual performing arts in and of themselves deal with being nude, and how one uses their body to get across their performance, or message of that particular play, musical or dance. I am sure Mother is upset about her daughter having to be nude as part of her training for visual arts, but Mother needs to remember that her child is an ADULT and in College, so it is no longer Moms decision but her daughters. Daughter read the Professors syllabus, she decided to take the class and obviously has chosen to follow a career path where nudity is part of it. It is a non issue. Being not unusual in a professional career and being required in school are not the same thing. For instance, a short arm inspection is a pretty fundamental thing while entering the service but no where required in ROTC. Personally, for me, I'd fly to New York to see a Broadway play with Bernadette Peters naked in it. (Well I may be years past that bloom) But it doesn't happen. So I don't see the relevance of a forced audition in school. I suspect the instructor didn't either as apparently he's changed the requirement now that his cat is out of the bag. I'm not sure about your second paragraph. Is it your point that the mother should not be upset that her daughter was forced to appear nude in order to get her degree as opposed to your statement that her daughter was having to be nude for Training? Do you consider it true that the mother should butt out even if the mother was paying for the degree? Even if the mother knew for a fact the daughter would come and live with her until she was thirty because she'd never get a job with that degree? I remember that I went to college in a state where I was fifth generation resident on both sides of the family. The university chose, because I happened to finish high school in another state, to consider me an out of state student and tried to charge me egregious amounts to attend. Do you consider that my family getting involved with that situation was equally none of their business because I was over 18 years old? Or, do families just do those sorts of things and it's really part of being a family? I find it interesting in the extreme that suddenly the syllabus is changing. However, I would have to wonder that after a decade or more if it being taught this way, if it is truly because the 'cat is out of the bag', or because it is just easier to bear the change of syllabus, instead of all the scrutiny being lobbed his way as a pervert, etc. by some people. Professors are given guidelines on how to teach their classes, then they have to submit what they teach for approval. That is exactly my point. The daughter is an adult, and should be treated as one. The daughter had a choice, she could have chosen to 'possibly fail'. It was not even a 100% chance of failing. She read the syllabus and knew what to expect. Yes, I still consider that even if the Mother was paying for the class that she butt out of it, and address this class choice with her daughter. If the Mother only agreed to pay for a certain degree, and the daughter choose to take another not agreed upon degree then the Mother would have the choice to withdraw her funding of the daughters college. The daughter could then choose to get loans and such like the rest of the world, to continue in her career path. If however, the Mother was aware of the degree path her daughter was on and simply does not agree with what is being taught, and how it is being taught, that is something again she should take up with her daughter, the adult in this situation. Yes, even if the Mother thinks that her child was not going to be gainfully employed and live with her until 30. No one can be 100% sure that a degree will amount to nothing, and again, at this time the Mother would have the option to not have her child live with her or to have her work at a factory to get gainfully employed, after all many college grads do not get a job in their degrees.( except for STEM jobs) If, as an adult, you asked for help in a certain life situation from your family and parents, then they should help, it is then appropriate. However, if they took it upon themselves to take care of it, without you asking for it from them, because you wanted to try and solve it for yourself, they overstepped. Once your child is 18, you have NO legal right over their information, medical, grades, or anything else any longer. You cannot ask for info to be released to you as a parent either. This is the law. The only way for someone to get your info is if you release it to them.
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