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TimYearneau -> Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/17/2015 12:28:42 AM)

I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT PRO-DOMME OR DOMINANT WOMEN WHO REQUIRE A TRIBUTE

There are so many webcam sites and the women will do almost any type of BDSM on webcam for money. Many will penetrate themselves with a dildo if you pay them. However, there is no physical contact and no intercourse.

Would you consider them prostitutes?




LadyPact -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/17/2015 12:34:50 AM)

No.

You asked for opinions. You got one.




spellslave -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/17/2015 2:21:27 AM)

No. Just because many *will* do penetration for money, does not mean that they have to even if paid. They control what goes on in the show, after all. Their cam, their rules.




Lucylastic -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/17/2015 3:46:10 AM)



no...




PeonForHer -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/17/2015 4:35:45 AM)

In terms of moral and social status, which is really what this is about, there's a continuum from street prostitutes right 'up' to certain Hollywood actresses, all of whom make most if not all of their money from servicing men's sexual desires in one way or another. These days, I don't distinguish, and don't care. If they don't want to call themselves prostitutes: fine. If they do: surprising, but also fine. Myself, I'd avoid using the term basically because it feels rude. YMMV.




Zonie63 -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/17/2015 6:08:02 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TimYearneau

I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT PRO-DOMME OR DOMINANT WOMEN WHO REQUIRE A TRIBUTE

There are so many webcam sites and the women will do almost any type of BDSM on webcam for money. Many will penetrate themselves with a dildo if you pay them. However, there is no physical contact and no intercourse.

Would you consider them prostitutes?


If you're concerned about legal repercussions of using a webcam site, you may want to check your local laws.




Miyani -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/17/2015 8:38:06 AM)

Sex workers, yes. Prostitutes, no.




UllrsIshtar -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/17/2015 10:35:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: spellslave

No. Just because many *will* do penetration for money, does not mean that they have to even if paid. They control what goes on in the show, after all. Their cam, their rules.


As a former red light prostitute, I can tell you that the same thing applies for hookers. I didn't have to do anything with anybody, I controlled what went on, and even if a deal had been made (hell even midway through the act) if I changed my mind, that was that.
The room I (higher end) room I rented to work had a panic button on several locations, and a 24/7 security guard that I never had to use, dispite several times backing out at various stages for various reasons. I can assure you that I never 'had' to do penetration for money either.

I don't see how those things say anything about whether or not Webcam chicks are hookers or not.

BTW, to the OP: me, and other actual hookers I know considered webcam girls to be sexworkers, but not prostitutes.




ResidentSadist -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/17/2015 2:41:17 PM)

I do not have anything negative associated with the term prostitute. Other than food and water, it is one of the oldest bartering commodities we know of.

Although the strict definition of prostitute is "sexual intercourse, usually in exchange for money", the law considers a "blow job, in exchange for money", a "hand job in exchange for money" and etc, all to fall under prostitution. So in my mind, a woman engaging in sex acts for money is a prostitute... whether that is self penetration, sex on camera or dressing up like a nun and laying very, very still.

I consider all adult industry service providers like escorts, cam girls, phone sex girls, porn stars, hookers, certified sexual suragates and even pro-dommes to be sex workers. Because they are selling sex in one form or another. What do you call a sex sex worker other than employed?




NorthernGent -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/17/2015 4:45:20 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TimYearneau

I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT PRO-DOMME OR DOMINANT WOMEN WHO REQUIRE A TRIBUTE

There are so many webcam sites and the women will do almost any type of BDSM on webcam for money. Many will penetrate themselves with a dildo if you pay them. However, there is no physical contact and no intercourse.

Would you consider them prostitutes?


Just don't pay 'em, mate. Demand free access to the natural process of human behaviour. Works for me!




nocontrol49 -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/18/2015 1:22:30 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

In terms of moral and social status, which is really what this is about, there's a continuum from street prostitutes right 'up' to certain Hollywood actresses, all of whom make most if not all of their money from servicing men's sexual desires in one way or another. These days, I don't distinguish, and don't care. If they don't want to call themselves prostitutes: fine. If they do: surprising, but also fine. Myself, I'd avoid using the term basically because it feels rude. YMMV.

I agree about avoiding that term. I agree with you , I see a commonality with all of them, they are servicing sexual desire for money. Whether that's with direct contact or online masturbation it amounts to the same thing.




nocontrol49 -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/18/2015 1:23:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent


quote:

ORIGINAL: TimYearneau

I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT PRO-DOMME OR DOMINANT WOMEN WHO REQUIRE A TRIBUTE

There are so many webcam sites and the women will do almost any type of BDSM on webcam for money. Many will penetrate themselves with a dildo if you pay them. However, there is no physical contact and no intercourse.

Would you consider them prostitutes?


Just don't pay 'em, mate. Demand free access to the natural process of human behaviour. Works for me!


Totally agree with you man. Don't pay them




Arturas -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/18/2015 2:53:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TimYearneau

I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT PRO-DOMME OR DOMINANT WOMEN WHO REQUIRE A TRIBUTE

There are so many webcam sites and the women will do almost any type of BDSM on webcam for money. Many will penetrate themselves with a dildo if you pay them. However, there is no physical contact and no intercourse.

Would you consider them prostitutes?


No more than any other woman who dances, models or sings or otherwise entertains while displaying her body. The difference is she is not touched. That is a good place to draw the line and seems to be where the line has always been drawn.




seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/18/2015 4:09:08 PM)

It's raining outside so I peeked at this site for amusement, and saw your post.


Have encountered those you speak of, and was about to give an emphatic ... "YES"!

Then I had to clear my eyes

Did i really see LP responding? And She said no?

Well i will have to read further into the responses (even as I think .. yes, the Opis right)


And Lady Pact, if that is You, i am thrilled to see You again! [:)] Hope all is well!






seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/18/2015 4:11:08 PM)

Wow ...

Am delighted to see You, LP

been missing You! [:)]

Hope all is well!





seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/18/2015 4:28:31 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I do not have anything negative associated with the term prostitute. Other than food and water, it is one of the oldest bartering commodities we know of.

Although the strict definition of prostitute is "sexual intercourse, usually in exchange for money", the law considers a "blow job, in exchange for money", a "hand job in exchange for money" and etc, all to fall under prostitution. So in my mind, a woman engaging in sex acts for money is a prostitute... whether that is self penetration, sex on camera or dressing up like a nun and laying very, very still.

I consider all adult industry service providers like escorts, cam girls, phone sex girls, porn stars, hookers, certified sexual suragates and even pro-dommes to be sex workers. Because they are selling sex in one form or another. What do you call a sex sex worker other than employed?



I view it a little differently.

Men always pay, one way or another. For example,

Years ago, when a beautiful woman lived with me, I paid rent, utilities, took her out to dinner ... and slept with her.

Not a whole lot different, in my mind, than any "in-person" and "real life" encounter.

But that is where I draw the line.

Web Cam and Sexually explicit interaction, without REAL LIFE interaction ... is something I despise.

Call it prostitution or Fin Dom ... In my view it is a despicable thing ... when there is no real life interaction.






JVoV -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/18/2015 4:40:12 PM)

One of my first jobs was on a phonesex hotline. I didn't feel like a whore. Mostly I just felt like maybe my drama professor was a sick fuck for finding me the job.




ResidentSadist -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/18/2015 6:38:33 PM)

Do you have a negative association to the term whore/prostitute?
quote:

ORIGINAL: JVoV

One of my first jobs was on a phonesex hotline. I didn't feel like a whore. Mostly I just felt like maybe my drama professor was a sick fuck for finding me the job.





JVoV -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/18/2015 8:41:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Do you have a negative association to the term whore/prostitute?


It all depends on the context, like most words.




DerangedUnit -> RE: Do You Consider Webcam Women Prostitutes? (7/18/2015 8:53:09 PM)

Yes. But then I consider nearly everyone a hooker. Have sex for dinner... hooker. Get married... hooker. Have kids for welfare/child support.... hooker. Sales person... hooker. Fucking yourself with dildos for money.... hooker.




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