UllrsIshtar
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ORIGINAL: KenDckey How much time do you think should be spent on homework daily? I got a (this coming year) 4th and 2nd grader. They are actively prohibited by us to spend more than an hour on homework after school, including if that means they don't finish it. The reasoning is simple: we expect them to be able to have time to be kids. They have chores, music homework, are expected to play outside, are expected to have free time they can fill in as they please, are expected to spend time with their family in social activities, are expected to get enough rest/sleep. Doing more than an hour of homework a day means sacrificing one or more of these other things their father and me expect them to do, which is unacceptable to us, and so unless the circumstances are exceptional, homework at this house has a cut off point, finished or not. With a kid that age, you only have 4-5 hours a night to get all that stuff crammed in if you want them in bed at a reasonable time. And then you haven't factored in meals and bath times yet. Homework doesn't take priority over all else. Getting time to relax, recreate and rest, learning social responsibility by doing chores, or building emotional connections by spending time with family are just as important as learning good study habits. The school gets this though... it's exceedingly rare that they have work they cannot finish in 30-45 minutes... and more of the time when they don't it's because they wasted their time instead of getting on with it.
< Message edited by UllrsIshtar -- 8/16/2015 4:12:46 AM >
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