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NookieNotes -> RE: Male to Female Ratios -- Look at Ashley Madison (9/5/2015 4:26:47 AM)
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ORIGINAL: crumpets
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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes
A friend of mine organizes gang-bangs. He says that out of 200 men who have said they were interested in a particular date, approximately 20 will confirm, and four or five will show up.
This is a good point, and is often considered, for example, when people write Craigslist ads, they often say "we're tired of flakes and fakes" who don't show up.
And many of THOSE people accusing others of being flakes and fakes ARE THE FLAKES AND FAKES, which is why they know it happens and expect it. They are heading off being accused by pointing the finger first.
Just wanted to clear that up.
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ORIGINAL: crumpets
Where, on the net, do the women outnumber the men?
You are really something. Can't google, even to answer the most basic questions, can you?
Women DOMINATE social media: http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/231970
Women also dominate DATING sites: http://www.informationweek.com/women-seeking-straight-men-flock-to-sites-popular-among-women/d/d-id/1052021?
Erotica sites: http://www.wsj.com/articles/SB10001424052748704463804576291181510459902
Here's two interesting quotes (bold mine):
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Women account for only one out of 50 purchases of porn-site subscriptions, but they make nine out of 10 purchases of romance novels. (In fact, the main billing company for porn sites flags female names as potential fraud, since so many of these charges result in an angry wife or mother demanding a refund for the misuse of her card.) In 2008, 74.8 million people read an English-language romance novel—close to the number of men who visited online pornography sites that year in the U.S. and Canada.
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And, in fact, somewhere between a quarter and a third of the visitors to the major pornography sites are women. Our data suggest that these women probably have a higher sex drive than other women and that they are more socially aggressive and more comfortable taking risks.
Those tidbits took me five minutes to find, because there were so many options.
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ORIGINAL: crumpets
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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2
He'd be floored to find out how much sex women want with a man who's good at it [:D]
I don't think the "volume" of sex was the issue; it's the number of partners, that is fundamentally the issue on a cheating site such as Ashley Madison advertised itself to be.
The actual copulation or orgasm numbers is not at all the same thing as wanting another person to have sex with.
Just the fact that hookers exist in the millions must tell you something (unless you prefer to ignore that fact).
Bullshit. As I pointed out before, numbers do not indicate want. Many many men want sex and don't have it. Just as many women want it and don't have it.
Quite trying to change the discussion to suit your "facts." No one is contesting that more men look for sex.
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ORIGINAL: crumpets
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Reversely, the guys who know what they're doing in the sack never seem to have any complaints at all about female sex drives... interesting how to works...
We've been down this road before.
If you actually believe that the average female's sex drive is anywhere near an order of magnitude of the average male's sex drive, then you don't fundamentally understand men.
And you just parrot the same thing over and over, never actually paying attention to facts.
Because yes, we've been over this before, and you've admitted that ALL YOU HAVE IS OPINION.
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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2
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ORIGINAL: crumpets
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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2
He'd be floored to find out how much sex women want with a man who's good at it [:D]
I don't think the "volume" of sex was the issue; it's the number of partners, that is fundamentally the issue on a cheating site such as Ashley Madison advertised itself to be.
The actual copulation or orgasm numbers is not at all the same thing as wanting another person to have sex with.
Just the fact that hookers exist in the millions must tell you something (unless you prefer to ignore that fact).
Consider that many men pay for sex with hookers not because they want more sex than women do, and not because they want more partners than women want, but possibly because paying hookers is the only way those men can get any sex at all. Not typically a problem women face. Using your brain is not prohibited on the forums.
*gigglesnorts* BOOM!
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ORIGINAL: crumpets
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic
All I see is excuses for being shady, lying and ignorant about what women feel.
I'm sorry. You must associate with low-quality men.
She's talking about you. LOL!
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ORIGINAL: crumpets
That argument, it seems to me, has NOTHING germane to do with the premise that women don't satisfy men, overall.
Red and bold mine, of course.
And the entitlement shows up! Perfect. Now we've gotten to the crux of the issue. It's not about more men than women on adult sites. It's not about men wanting sex more than women. It's about women not satisfying men by:
1. Putting out sex.
2. Simply accepting when a single man (crumpets) gives an opinion, that that is worth FAR more than any links or facts or wimmin's thoughts, because, man.
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ORIGINAL: longwayhome
Those sort of atitudes, still alive in the 21st century, create a wall of misunderstanding and distrust that every man has to negotiate even if his default position is not cheat and deceive.
And every woman. This is the point I've been making.
Ever been in an argument, and had your partner tell you "I didn't do X because you would do Y, and I didn't want that," and you were standing there wondering who the hell they think you are, because that was NOT your reaction?
This is what it means to be a woman being told that we want sex less than men, and therefore, we are treated a particular way.
Just yesterday, I was told that I don't want sex, because I turned a man down because he was not attractive to me. I was told I do not want sex, because I would not accept it from a man who sent me a cock shot. I do not want sex because I would not consider a man whose main line was "hi bae".
In these, I was called a dry, shriveled old cunt, a faker, a phony, a tease getting her rocks off...
So, when you treat a woman who actually wants sex this way, because of your personal beliefs (who WOULDN'T want all that—gesturing at you), you are creating a reality for yourself, then passing that onto others like a virus, and making it that much more difficult for women to GET sex when they want it.
And more difficult for men as well, because hey, we put it out there, and we get crap like that. Better to go back to our sexy romance books and erotica. At least with those and BOB we are never left orgasmless with a bruised ego or heart...
And, believing that women don't want sex from men, makes men behave in ways that, frankly, turn women off. They barter with things they think we want (usually material goods, dinners, etc.), thinking if they just put enough $$$ into the vending machine of sex, they will eventually get the payoff, forcing us to run straight into the arms of an asshole who KNOWS women want it, and will give us the god dick, until we can't stand him anymore.
LOL!
Of course, I'm generalizing. I've seen scenarios like this happen over and over... "She doesn't like sex, she just likes men who treat her like shit."
Oh yeah... THAT'S what she's after. Duh.
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