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Was not aware of this site until recently - 9/18/2015 7:48:21 AM   
sir4you2kneel


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Joined: 9/17/2015
Status: offline 		Was turned onto this site from a member of ALT. I like the interface though should have read the rules a little closer, got put in message purgatory for awhile for sending the same message to several members. Anyone have an idea of how long I am in purgatory?
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RE: Was not aware of this site until recently - 9/18/2015 8:33:49 AM   
NookieNotes


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Status: offline 		From what I understand it's 24-48 hours, usually, depending on what you've done.

Welcome.

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RE: Was not aware of this site until recently - 9/18/2015 8:53:29 AM   
freedomdwarf1


Posts: 6845
Joined: 10/23/2012
Status: offline 		Why send the same or very similar message to several people??
That's very unimaginative and quite frankly, very boring.

Treat people as people first, kink second.
Everyone is an individual and that implies that they deserve an individual message.
The one major complaint we hear and see is lazy asshats that copy/paste bland messages.
Be a little more creative and make a personal one.


to the chat side of CollarSpace.


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RE: Was not aware of this site until recently - 9/18/2015 9:40:36 AM   
peppermint


Posts: 5169
Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		As a receiver of many copy and pasted messages I will say that they are easy to spot. They are completely generic and could have been sent to anyone. Those messages got ignored, especially the ones that said they loved my picture when I didn't have a picture in my profile.

If you want to get someone's attention, show that you read their profile. Mention something in their profile that caught your attention. The first Dom I ever met and played with wrote about gardening as he saw that was one of my interests. He loved to garden also so that gave us something to talk about as we got to know each other.

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Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Was not aware of this site until recently - 9/20/2015 11:48:09 AM   
smartsub10


Posts: 865
Joined: 4/23/2010
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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

Why send the same or very similar message to several people??
That's very unimaginative and quite frankly, very boring.

Treat people as people first, kink second.
Everyone is an individual and that implies that they deserve an individual message.
The one major complaint we hear and see is lazy asshats that copy/paste bland messages.
Be a little more creative and make a personal one.


to the chat side of CollarSpace.



He's married so I guess he's not interested in connecting with anyone except for fun.

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RE: Was not aware of this site until recently - 9/20/2015 12:30:18 PM   
peppermint


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ORIGINAL: smartsub10



He's married so I guess he's not interested in connecting with anyone except for fun.


I really should remember to read the profile before I reply to someone.

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Was not aware of this site until recently - 10/21/2015 10:51:22 PM   
zombiegurlsos


Posts: 434
Joined: 10/17/2015
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quote:

ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

Why send the same or very similar message to several people??
That's very unimaginative and quite frankly, very boring.

Treat people as people first, kink second.
Everyone is an individual and that implies that they deserve an individual message.
The one major complaint we hear and see is lazy asshats that copy/paste bland messages.
Be a little more creative and make a personal one.


to the chat side of CollarSpace.

well that would require that everyone here be real and no sockpuppets.... sounds great but it is not likely to happen here...




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