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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Actually, my thought process was this. First you said you never put your dick in a vagina before.
I didn't believe your claim, so I asked if you mean it that you never had sex? And your respond as to why you never have sex is because you claim you were based in the middle east.
To me, you are telling me it's hard to get sex in the middle east because of muslim conservativeness. So I responded by telling you how middle eastern can get sex.
no, & I don't want to put it in any vagina, its more to me than just sex. it has other sort of aspects than just dicks & vagina`s ..
it has aspect of feelings & connection real connection not shallow connection of someone offering someone a drink from across the room.
then you moved to assuming that I want casual sex, comparing some story you got from someone that its free. which in fact is another thing. then you moved to suggesting that I should have done it before.
I did not say that I couldn't get sex because I was there. you assumed that. anyone can get sex if he/she want to. I never wanted shallow meaningless sex. I wanted something else.
I actually was telling in sort of way how hard it was to get a real relationship outside of marriage when the society is so closed minded.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Then you replied by saying you wouldn't get it on with a prostitute. I never suggest once that you get it with a prostitute. The scene that I told you about was how Saudis get casual sex.
They aren't paid whores, but just genuine women who wants to get laid, and getting it done without getting in trouble. It's like a normal person in a regular society going out to a club, buy a girl a drink and hook up if they like each other.
how the Saudis get sex is their own thing. every society has its own problem. you are comparing my own personal value wanting a relationship to how Saudis get casual sex.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
So you were the one who brought up hookers in amsterdam, that's why I say I would never suggest that you get laid in amsterdam with hookers because it would not be a good first experience.
replaying to your own "chain of thinking & assuming's " that I am some 30 years old virgin who have something wrong with him & he should get it over with.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
And as to why you are in a kink site, you replied that you enjoy wanking. And it reminded me of men who prefers wanking to sexual penetration, so I brought it up and I was wondering if it's like that for you.
again with the assuming. when I did not say that you jumped from your idea of a wanker & applying it to someone else.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Anyway, pretty much, that's how everything went. No where was I insulting you at all.
no, you was not insulting you was & still judgmental & assuming things that wont / shouldn't / wouldn't work in other person idea of real relationship.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
I've explained and clarified and apologised for hurting your feelings and if you are still upset, then I can't help you. You can simply stop corresponding with me.
no you did not, you kept on assuming & judging how I was & still living my life. saying
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Perhaps you mistake the saudi girls as hookers, because I forgot to add that, if the lady declines the drink, it means she is not interested, then no hook up would happen.
So for it to work out, the lady has to make eye contact and accept the man's drink to her.
Different culture do things differently for non-cash transaction hook ups. It was you who assume they were prostitutes by the way! And why the hell would you even think that of them?
again where did I say that? what are you talking about? I did not said that anyone want a casual sex is a hooker. I simply said its not something for me. stop assuming what I did not say & then put it in my words.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
Also, I actually respect prostitutes as human beings with a legitimate career, so I also didn't like how you spoke about them.
I said Amsterdam hookers aren't a good first experience, because they do it like a job, as it is their job. As I feel first experience should be passionate and mindblowing, and that may not be the role they can play for you.
Of course Ishtar has now clarified that it is possible to get a passionate sexual experience with a sex worker in Amsterdam, and with that new information, I would also retract anything I said about it not being a good idea for first time sex
to be with a Amsterdam prostitute.
i did not like saying that about them either. but its kind of true. most of them smell kind of ..... you know. but that is how i see things maybe i am wrong.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
My own brother first sexual experience was with a prostitute, I don't see anything wrong with it, he paid a woman to teach him how to pleasure a woman properly and how to make love properly.
When he eventually had his girlfriend, he put everything he learnt from the prostitute into good use to give his girlfriend a great time.
good for him. I would not do it. i think going to a prostitute & paying for sex is kind of demeaning to all women. i think its wrong.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
I mean, it's one great way to learn!
that is on hell of sentence there. its not actually demeaning. its actually an advice to some freak. what you actually said here is : go find yourself a vagina you virgin freak.
& that is something i would let slide here, simply because what you describe of sex just dicks & vagina`s ... how you stripped sex from its true meaning of two people feeling something for each other & comfortable naked with each other
how it goes both ways... some kind of connection that the heart beat 300 beats/minute the adrenaline rush into someone system & the endorphin release into the brain.
how two people will stay in bed cuddling afterwards talking what they like & what they would try next time.
bottom line is your idea of ( just stick that dick into my vagina) sex ... I would rather go to 60 without it.
if its work for you... don't assume it would work for someone else.
one more thing, please be a bit more open-minded about what other people think. after all we are in a BDSM site. what you like maybe a hard limit for others.
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