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dreamlady -> RE: Seeking Advice (10/2/2015 8:15:26 PM)
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ORIGINAL: CREAMPIEincome
But this thread is still off topic and I do not see many Dommes offering the kind of advice NotaBull was looking for.
And there would be a very good reason for this. All but one of his comments/questions zeroes in only upon particular kinds of Dommes and excludes the rest of us. So why should someone like me bother to jump in there with nothing more than heresay to contribute?
As for his first remark, this is so general in vanilla terms, he might as well have asked How do women (in general) deal with having a male partner who makes less money than she does (in general)? But this isn't really what he wants to hear.
He is not asking for advice about a specific situation affecting him personally where he would stand a better chance of receiving helpful advice.
Usually in a case where there are multiple questions, it's the final one which has whittled down what he came here to find out.
But, I will recap and give my own spin on how I interpreted this:
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ORIGINAL: notaBULL
I just finished watching the movie THE INTERN with Robert De Niro.
In this movie a very successful Woman is having problems with her hubby because she is successful. It made me wonder.
Hmm, women on the fast track having difficulties in their marriage with a less-than-understanding husband. Nothing new there.
Spouses who feel neglected and shunted down the list of priorities by their spouses' careers. This is as old as the hills.
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ORIGINAL: notaBULL
Do Pro Dommes have permanent lovers?
Why wouldn't they? [8|] This insinuates that they only take on temporary lovers. Their clients are not their lovers, btw.
But, I am not a pro-Domme, so I can't answer this without talking about other people and other people's marriages and/or long-term relationships.
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ORIGINAL: notaBULL
And if they do, is it difficult to juggle such a relationship?
Again, I am not qualified to answer this. It's pretty much the same, though, as asking whether anybody with a career finds it difficult to juggle time spent dating steadily, time spent with their relationships, how to balance career with family, and so forth.
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ORIGINAL: notaBULL
I mean does hubby get jealous to the point of going into tantrums?
Let me see, do husbands get jealous of the time their wives devote to their careers, and to interacting with other men in the workplace. . . .
Yep. There are those who do. There are those who don't.
Do they throw tantrums as a result? Fuck if I know. Some do, some don't.
OP is interested in cuckolding,* therefore I have to surmise that his angle is the unspoken one of,
Do married pro-Dommes have jealous husbands who aren't into cuckolding? Or,
Are there Cuckoldresses out there who would like to chime in and post about how they cuckold their primary partner and handle the situation so that it becomes a moot point?
There may be pro-Domme Cuckoldresses who could join into this discussion, but again, OP is indirectly addressing a subset of a subset of a subset. [:-]
DreamLady
Edit - clarity
* OP doesn't want to be the bull, doesn't identify with being a cuckolded husband since he seeks non-sexual servitude with a Mistress who already has a bull, and probably doesn't have the foggiest idea what a cuckolding dynamic is actually about. No Cuckoldress needs a voyeuristic passive (useless) 4th wheel; and as far as CREAMPIE is concerned, I don't know of any Domme on the face of this planet who would want to own a "slave" with the singular fetish of eating her out for her sex partner's cream pie leftovers.
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