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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/6/2015 11:13:03 AM

M38284

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@Kirata

I have no profile. Please feel free to make suggestions on any and all updates that could/need to be done. Some, I can do on my own (but just have not gotten to/seen), and some I will need to get policies set for. But it's good to have the ideas.

And if you have questions, please contact me. I'm at the support link.

I'll tell you something. I'd rather keep the moderation here very small, with the help of the community, than have a crap-ton of people, every one of which may get trigger-happy.

That will rely on you, though.

So, help? :)

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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/6/2015 11:25:37 AM

UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: M38284

I'll tell you something. I'd rather keep the moderation here very small, with the help of the community, than have a crap-ton of people, every one of which may get trigger-happy.

That will rely on you, though.

So, help? :)

I'm willing to put in a couple hours a week helping with whatever you need.

I'm opposed to keeping moderator identities hidden from the membership though, IF the moderator is somebody the membership base already knows and has a history with. If that makes me not good forum mod material, I'm willing to handle profile/pic tickets just the same though.

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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/6/2015 12:01:51 PM

M38284

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I mean, just report and make suggestions to me. I think if the regulars put in good faith effort, we can keep this lively and free-of-speech, without too much crap.

As far as moderators being known, I get that, and I've waffled with it. Personally, I think it relates more to the stalking/death threats/nastiness issue than any sort of keeping it from you.

It would be uncool to put people I care about in danger for any reason.

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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/8/2015 4:55:13 PM

notaBULL

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: CREAMPIEincome

If she chooses to Dommes, she is unconsciously attracted to that type of career and probably prefers lying to herself about a submissive anchor.
Nope. She's pursuing a Master's degree, has a limited amount of free time and this presented the most money for the number of hours available.

This isn't her chosen career, it's a way to pay the bills.

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Therefore she will have to submit to those who want to label her Goddess.
Submission requires consent.

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After all, did you not say she is a sub, so why would she care if other subs call her Goddess?

So, since she's a sub she shouldn't care how others label and address her?

could this friend of yours be YOU?

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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/8/2015 5:13:30 PM

OsideGirl

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could this friend of yours be YOU?

Nope. I don't have a lot of patience for male submissives and it would be a pay cut for me.

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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/8/2015 6:49:07 PM

alpha499

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BS, fart in stiff breeze, you are not taking suggestions, at least from mature people, you may be moderated and controlled by a bunch of addicts and pot heads but not likely to put the least efforts to review which suggestion is best.

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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/9/2015 10:27:26 AM

Kirata

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quote:

ORIGINAL: M38284

@Kirata

I have no profile. Please feel free to make suggestions on any and all updates that could/need to be done. Some, I can do on my own (but just have not gotten to/seen), and some I will need to get policies set for. But it's good to have the ideas.

And if you have questions, please contact me. I'm at the support link.

I'll tell you something. I'd rather keep the moderation here very small, with the help of the community, than have a crap-ton of people, every one of which may get trigger-happy.

That will rely on you, though.

So, help? :)

I just want to say that my lack of response isn't intended to stiff you on the invitation. I just want to give the matter the thought it's due, and there are things going on in my life right now, none of them good, that have been keeping me distressingly preoccupied.

Best regards, &c.

K.

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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/14/2015 1:01:06 AM

MClandestine

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Was wondering in the US about how much do web Cam/Sykpe sessions go for,give or take.Lets say the the hour?Thank you hope to find the info Im in search of soon.I like the thread ,read everything.👍Awesome😊

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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/15/2015 11:28:11 AM

notaBULL

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ORIGINAL: MClandestine

Was wondering in the US about how much do web Cam/Sykpe sessions go for,give or take.Lets say the the hour?Thank you hope to find the info Im in search of soon.I like the thread ,read everything.👍Awesome😊

Cam usually go from 1 dollar 50 cents a minute to 7 dollars a minute

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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/16/2015 8:04:32 PM

J0K3ER

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ORIGINAL: M38284

@UllrsIshtar

I mean, just report and make suggestions to me. I think if the regulars put in good faith effort, we can keep this lively and free-of-speech, without too much crap.

As far as moderators being known, I get that, and I've waffled with it. Personally, I think it relates more to the stalking/death threats/nastiness issue than any sort of keeping it from you.

It would be uncool to put people I care about in danger for any reason.

Hello Mod,

pardon me I'm a little crazy but I like to laugh a lot to release stress,was that a job application you just rejected

. I rather get banned laughing my little ass out.BTW Mod , are you male or female ? Just asking . I don't usually stalk women but if at one point I decide to stalk someone , there no better than stalking a Mod. So in this case no jackass gets the chance to use the sticker system.
In a nutshell, I DO NOT AGREE THAT A MODERATOR POSITION SHOULD BE A SIGNED TO A " FINDOM".

< Message edited by J0K3ER -- 10/16/2015 8:35:59 PM >

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RE: Seeking Advice - 10/16/2015 9:05:42 PM

J0K3ER

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: M38284

I'll tell you something. I'd rather keep the moderation here very small, with the help of the community, than have a crap-ton of people, every one of which may get trigger-happy.

That will rely on you, though.

So, help? :)

I'm willing to put in a couple hours a week helping with whatever you need.

I'm opposed to keeping moderator identities hidden from the membership though, IF the moderator is somebody the membership base already knows and has a history with. If that makes me not good forum mod material, I'm willing to handle profile/pic tickets just the same though.