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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 8:22:34 AM   
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Listen Alaska lady, I am not sluting around offering my self as a doormat to a random wannabe mistress, and I don't thing the fact that I am looking for a vanilla D/s would put me to shame, no. I am liberal and also believe in female supremacy FYI.
this won't make all females superiors only because they are genetically females, some people areschool drop off , and they miss graduation
Leave the farm alone ,you are 100% right, I have only been twice in a BDSM munch, you can even call mild my involvement in this life style, I may fit better in a different bdsm subcategory , may be more of a gorean, I don't know, I'm trying to find out.

Here's something I might suggest to you. While I am not Gorean, I've done my best to learn about the culture, and from what I know, female supremacy and Gorean don't exactly mix. Part of the latter's philosophy is something called the natural order and women aren't exactly on top. It's not that male slaves can't be owned by Gorean Free Women. There are plenty of examples of it. Still, it is my opinion that any male wanting to pursue the path of a kajirus had better put some actual thought into it, rather than being turned by a pretty face. Granted, Ishtar is a very beautiful woman. Probably the exact type that some males would be happy to sink to the bottom of the totem pole in a particular culture. Heck, my sadistic little heart would probably enjoy watching the Gorean Free rip you to shreds on a regular basis but that's a topic for another day.

I'm actually the first person around here to tell folks that they can live their kink any way they want. I may not agree with certain ways that other people run their dynamics because their methods don't work for me but if the persons in that household have all agreed to it and are participating willingly, I'll support whatever alternative lifestyle label that they choose. Since I hold this belief, I find many of your statements to be hypocritical.

The attempts at slut shaming? It's just showing your ignorance. Not only in the fact that opinions of small minds don't matter and dude, you really, really picked the wrong target. If you've got to reach for that, allow me to acquaint you with an old country saying. Your slip is showing.

Since you aren't a native English speaker, I'll tell you what I have said for years. There is a difference between ignorance and stupidity. Ignorance can be remedied with education. For stupidity, there is no help. Most folks will tell you that I don't suffer the latter well.

I'm going to pull this from the other thread:


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ORIGINAL: J0K3ER

My 2nd question, in case a Goddess and a slave/sub enter in a relationship, under the absolute authority of the Goddess, what kind of guarantees and sureties can the slave/sub obtain and is entitled to, knowing that goddesses don't like to be negotiated , it is their way or the highway.


That's ramirez34/alpha499.

And the Goddess he's whining about is me.
He wants a relationship. I stated my terms. He finds them unacceptable and started lying and whining. And so I blocked him.

And now he's trying to find support here to apparently try to show me that I'm wrong, and I *have* to negotiate with him.

Ain't gonna happen, baby, you don't like my terms, you don't get to serve me. Simple as that.

If you are creating profile after profile to a) circumvent moderation, or b) for the purposes of stalking and harassing that woman, it would be my opinion that the site can't just ignore it while "busy" with other things. When you hit that little "I agree" button, you accepted that nice part of ToS that says you won't stalk, harass, or attempt to continue contact with other users who have wanted you to cease communication. That section of ToS is here:

quote:

7.3.7. You will not "stalk" or otherwise harass any person, and if any member or other person requests that You cease communications with them, at any time, for any reason, You will immediately comply with said request. Further, You stipulate to liquidated damages of $50,000.00 per such violation, and You agree to pay any and all fees incurred in the recovery of this amount, including attorneys' fees and all associated costs. We expressly reserve the right, and You stipulate, that We may assign the rights to sue for these liquidated damages to any third party, including the party stalked or otherwise harassed by such violation.


You might want to pay attention to that. If you won't, hopefully New Mod will. If Admins won't, that's going to be bad ju ju for decent folks around here. If E wants this place to be a cesspool, that might just be a way to a very quick succession of the goal.




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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 8:34:10 AM   
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Not a problem for Me. I thought things through in advance, including that possibility/perspective.
So I carved My name in her tit, took a snapshot and use that as My main profile shot :-)


I had to look, Kana. I personally like the pic of the little kitten peeking at you from between your legs. But then, I'm not a masochist, so the other ones just made me cringe. :)

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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 8:49:06 AM   
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You might want to pay attention to that. If you won't, hopefully New Mod will. If Admins won't, that's going to be bad ju ju for decent folks around here. If E wants this place to be a cesspool, that might just be a way to a very quick succession of the goal.


Initially this troll and his countless socks running amok unmoderated was the problem. Then they were given an astounding amount of attention from women on the threads. Does anyone really think these desperate losers are going to stop their behavior here when it is garnering them more female attention than they've ever experienced? It isn't "E" who is the problem here. If everyone would ignore the trolls they would vanish, either of their own accord or via the hide button.

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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 9:27:25 AM   
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You might want to pay attention to that. If you won't, hopefully New Mod will. If Admins won't, that's going to be bad ju ju for decent folks around here. If E wants this place to be a cesspool, that might just be a way to a very quick succession of the goal.


Initially this troll and his countless socks running amok unmoderated was the problem. Then they were given an astounding amount of attention from women on the threads. Does anyone really think these desperate losers are going to stop their behavior here when it is garnering them more female attention than they've ever experienced? It isn't "E" who is the problem here. If everyone would ignore the trolls they would vanish, either of their own accord or via the hide button.

I second this motion. I am one of the people that was toying with these dumbasses earlier, but it is no longer entertaining. And no matter what any of us reply with to any of their comments, it is going to result in responses that are just as annoying and nonsensical as they have been in the past.

Nothing will come of trying to reason with them. It just gives them the attention they are trying to get. So I say just hide them.

I say 'hide' rather than ignore, because I can usually ignore for only so long before I jump back in. This way I won't be tempted. I finally did with with a couple of people in P&R and have been a much happier person for it!

So I am about to hide the troll in this thread. There will be a couple of others, but I am bad about identifying socks, so if any of you see them coming in with additional socks, I would appreciate it if you to pointed them out so I can hide them as well.

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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 9:53:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2
Initially this troll and his countless socks running amok unmoderated was the problem. Then they were given an astounding amount of attention from women on the threads. Does anyone really think these desperate losers are going to stop their behavior here when it is garnering them more female attention than they've ever experienced? It isn't "E" who is the problem here. If everyone would ignore the trolls they would vanish, either of their own accord or via the hide button.

In my opinion, this is incorrect. The "don't feed the trolls" theory doesn't work. Very much like certain other things don't work in kink communities.

However, it's not up to the forum participants to control the situation. That's on Admin.



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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 10:22:52 AM   
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If your opinion that ignoring the trolls doesn't work means you are going to continue to give them attention, then that opinion will "prove" itself. Gonna give him your amazon wish list too?

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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 10:47:17 AM   
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If your opinion that ignoring the trolls doesn't work means you are going to continue to give them attention, then that opinion will "prove" itself. Gonna give him your amazon wish list too?

This might shock some folks but I actually don't have one. I've ordered things from Amazon. Candle dye being the main one for myself. The rest has all been things for other people.

(I don't have facebook, either. I think it's me, MP, and about six other people on the planet holding out.)

I do think, however, that your logic is flawed. In your opinion, what entity is responsible for curtailing crime? Are you more likely to favor citizen's arrest or let that job be done by LEO? If he's really harassing that girl (no offense, Ishtrar) my interaction with him on the forum doesn't change it. Only Admin can do that.



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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 11:26:18 AM   
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You probably right, apparently language barrier is not the cause of proper communication failure with you, *****Ah ah! That's not allowed. Be nice or be moderated!***** Your obsession with the TOS is unjustified unless you feel the need to slip in few sentences that were written in academic English. TOS are individually and directly sent to individuals to read and agree to them , they have never been Indoctrinated to users thru a 3rd wanna be party.
However in case TOS are violated, there moderators who can enforce them at any given time, and certainly that Mod will not be you. Therefore , spitting out shit loads of nonesense and implying I 1) violating the TOS, 2) harassing people will only show your lack of self esteem.

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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 11:30:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2
If your opinion that ignoring the trolls doesn't work means you are going to continue to give them attention, then that opinion will "prove" itself. Gonna give him your amazon wish list too?

This might shock some folks but I actually don't have one. I've ordered things from Amazon. Candle dye being the main one for myself. The rest has all been things for other people.

(I don't have facebook, either. I think it's me, MP, and about six other people on the planet holding out.)

I do think, however, that your logic is flawed. In your opinion, what entity is responsible for curtailing crime? Are you more likely to favor citizen's arrest or let that job be done by LEO? If he's really harassing that girl (no offense, Ishtrar) my interaction with him on the forum doesn't change it. Only Admin can do that.



I think its a little of both. If anyone is feeling harassed, then it is up to them to report it to admin. As an aside, I'm not sure she is feeling harassed. Maybe a little annoyed, I sure as hell would be, but it can be an entertaining diversion as well. There really isn't anyone else can do in regards to that particular aspect of it.

But I do think he is desperate for attention, and when several of us started responding over and over to him, it gave him the attention he was looking for, and encouraged him to step it up. What else would he do for attention, I don't know. I just think that if his inane posts stop getting attention, then he will have to either quit the boards or quit the BS posts so that people will talk to him.

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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 11:32:57 AM   
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I find the "I didn't read" concept ridiculous. Perhaps you need the South Park level?


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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 11:42:55 AM   
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You probably right, apparently language barrier is not the cause of proper communication failure with you, *****Ah ah! That's not allowed. Be nice or be moderated!*****

Irony, you has it.

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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 4:24:09 PM   
J0K3ER


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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Listen Alaska lady, I am not sluting around offering my self as a doormat to a random wannabe mistress, and I don't thing the fact that I am looking for a vanilla D/s would put me to shame, no. I am liberal and also believe in female supremacy FYI.
this won't make all females superiors only because they are genetically females, some people areschool drop off , and they miss graduation
Leave the farm alone ,you are 100% right, I have only been twice in a BDSM munch, you can even call mild my involvement in this life style, I may fit better in a different bdsm subcategory , may be more of a gorean, I don't know, I'm trying to find out.

Here's something I might suggest to you. While I am not Gorean, I've done my best to learn about the culture, and from what I know, female supremacy and Gorean don't exactly mix. Part of the latter's philosophy is something called the natural order and women aren't exactly on top. It's not that male slaves can't be owned by Gorean Free Women. There are plenty of examples of it. Still, it is my opinion that any male wanting to pursue the path of a kajirus had better put some actual thought into it, rather than being turned by a pretty face. Granted, Ishtar is a very beautiful woman. Probably the exact type that some males would be happy to sink to the bottom of the totem pole in a particular culture. Heck, my sadistic little heart would probably enjoy watching the Gorean Free rip you to shreds on a regular basis but that's a topic for another day.

I'm actually the first person around here to tell folks that they can live their kink any way they want. I may not agree with certain ways that other people run their dynamics because their methods don't work for me but if the persons in that household have all agreed to it and are participating willingly, I'll support whatever alternative lifestyle label that they choose. Since I hold this belief, I find many of your statements to be hypocritical.

The attempts at slut shaming? It's just showing your ignorance. Not only in the fact that opinions of small minds don't matter and dude, you really, really picked the wrong target. If you've got to reach for that, allow me to acquaint you with an old country saying. Your slip is showing.

Since you aren't a native English speaker, I'll tell you what I have said for years. There is a difference between ignorance and stupidity. Ignorance can be remedied with education. For stupidity, there is no help. Most folks will tell you that I don't suffer the latter well.

I'm going to pull this from the other thread:


quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

quote:

ORIGINAL: J0K3ER

My 2nd question, in case a Goddess and a slave/sub enter in a relationship, under the absolute authority of the Goddess, what kind of guarantees and sureties can the slave/sub obtain and is entitled to, knowing that goddesses don't like to be negotiated , it is their way or the highway.


That's ramirez34/alpha499.

And the Goddess he's whining about is me.
He wants a relationship. I stated my terms. He finds them unacceptable and started lying and whining. And so I blocked him.

And now he's trying to find support here to apparently try to show me that I'm wrong, and I *have* to negotiate with him.

Ain't gonna happen, baby, you don't like my terms, you don't get to serve me. Simple as that.

If you are creating profile after profile to a) circumvent moderation, or b) for the purposes of stalking and harassing that woman, it would be my opinion that the site can't just ignore it while "busy" with other things. When you hit that little "I agree" button, you accepted that nice part of ToS that says you won't stalk, harass, or attempt to continue contact with other users who have wanted you to cease communication. That section of ToS is here:

quote:

7.3.7. You will not "stalk" or otherwise harass any person, and if any member or other person requests that You cease communications with them, at any time, for any reason, You will immediately comply with said request. Further, You stipulate to liquidated damages of $50,000.00 per such violation, and You agree to pay any and all fees incurred in the recovery of this amount, including attorneys' fees and all associated costs. We expressly reserve the right, and You stipulate, that We may assign the rights to sue for these liquidated damages to any third party, including the party stalked or otherwise harassed by such violation.


You might want to pay attention to that. If you won't, hopefully New Mod will. If Admins won't, that's going to be bad ju ju for decent folks around here. If E wants this place to be a cesspool, that might just be a way to a very quick succession of the goal.




lets check with the Mods about whether or not open accusation is a TOS violation.
NOW, I think it is high time for you to be put in YOUR CORNER and to stop talking like a Moderator because you are not one. YOU ARE JUST A USER HERE ... and if anybody here feels like they are being ( STALKED ,HARASSED ) they can report it to the Mods, it is not up to you to decide for them.
sweetie you will receive a golden email shortly, and if , like you claim have too much respect for the TOS , I assume you GONNa HALT! and I will be very glad to see the TOS enforced in this forum.

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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 6:25:33 PM   
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Yep. The very first minute that New Mod tells me to cease and desist, I will.


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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 7:41:31 PM   
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Yep. The very first minute that New Mod tells me to cease and desist, I will.


A new Mod? Does not make any sense to me. why I feel the emphasis falls on ("new" Mod) ?. there's an implication to the ("Old" Mod) in your message , anyway you will cease and desist period. As for me I don't have much of a preference between old and new Mods as long as they DO NOT base their judgment on either bias or favoritisme. This is will be my last interaction of any sort with you ,your posts,anything you say, I won't comment on your posts, or any shit load you dump on this entire website, and I hope you do the same. Salam and thanks for the fish.


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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 8:19:13 PM   
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Oh, thank God.

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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/12/2015 8:28:11 PM   
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Oh, thank God.

When you say thank God , God knows what were you thanking him for because he is God, but you direct your reply to me I am not the omniscient, I need to know why? And remember TOS apply to ALL users alike...

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RE: Pictures of ex partners on profiles - 10/13/2015 3:57:29 AM   
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Yeah. It's my own personal nickname for the most recent head Mod. I actually don't envy the position. I think the former head Mod left this place in one hell of a wreck. I have certain opinions about that but I'm willing to try to follow forum guidelines and not express them (in the entirety) against someone who isn't here to defend themselves. I highly doubt I'm the only one biting my tongue on the subject.

When I first joined up here, Mod Eleven was pretty much the person in charge. There were also Mods Three, (not the most recent one) Mod Six, and Mod Twenty-One. Six and Twenty-One put a lot of time in on this site. Eleven wasn't exactly everyone's favorite person but when people got moderated, the majority of them knew they crossed the line and would admit it after the time out was over. Twenty-One was really good about keeping the Section five ToS violations out of here. Six knew how to make the (computer) system work.

Then, the Video Admins came. Looking back, A shouldn't have called ollie ollie oxen free. It was a nice idea at the time. Knowing how it turned out, it was a big mistake. I've got a feeling that history is going to repeat itself on that point. It's either going to get cleaned up or it's going to go to hell. A had a lot of people who donated their time and mostly did a pretty good job. A lot of man hours went into forums, chatrooms, the profile side, and Support.

After A had to be fired, (I would have made the same call) Gamma, Chi, Omicron, et all tried to fix certain things. I know. There were some folks who didn't especially like any given Mod or another. Always will be. Doesn't matter who is in charge of the place.

When Mod-Gate happened? That was just a new level of stupid. It's the only thing that points to E being sick in the manner of being less than competent. Heck, if I'm ever touched where my brain isn't firing on all cylinders, the LAST thing I'm going to do is hand my business over to someone who isn't in any better shape than I am. Call me practical like that.

New Mod asked for a clean slate but it's wearing thin fast. There's a good resource pool here (and, NO, I do NOT mean me) of folks who would do a VERY good job as fellow Moderators. Well versed in ToS, forum guidelines, why some things work well and others don't. Over half a dozen come to mind, easily. That's up to New Mod but I know who I'd be reaching out for.


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