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How do you and your partner plan on using the collar? Can you expand a bit on the thinking behind deciding to go this route.
My husband works from home, and I'm a housewife, so we're together in the house most of the day while he's working.
His office is off from the main part of the house, and so it's kinda hard for him to summon me when he needs something from me without shouting. Recently we both got Apple Watches, which have worked really well, because he can just give me a tap on the wrist to call me over.
Considering how well that's gone, we'd like something a little more kinky to achieve the same effect.
So the primary reason of the collar will be to be worn is to have an easy kinky way to say "come here", primarily with the use of the tone and vibration.
The second reason we'll be using it is as a powerful fear deterrent which will (hopefully) enable me to push myself further than I'm currently able to.
We both love the idea of overnight bondage of the type that's fairly comfortable to start, but ends up becoming increasingly painful or uncomfortable over time. However, the issue we keep consistently hitting is that, somewhere around 3-4am, it's not so sexy and hot anymore, I'm just uncomfortable and want to go to sleep, and so I wake him up and complain. At that point he's too groggy to want to do anything other than go back to sleep, and so the easily thing to do is to let me out, which leaves us both incredibly disappointed in the morning. The shock collar is supposed to be an easy way for him to have an on the spot correction that doesn't require too much effort or thought, where he can just order me to shut up "or else". Ideally the "or else" will be strong enough to begin with that I won't even get to the point of waking him up in the first place... but we'll have to see about that.
Thirdly we'd like to get into torture type scenes where unrealistic expectations are set "here's very restrictive bondage and a toothbrush, I want this floor spotless in half an hour" and the shock collar can be used for punishment/encouragement if orders aren't carried out well enough, or quickly enough.
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ORIGINAL: Cell
Whatever the case, I'd be interested in reading about your experience after using the collar for a while and hope you post some updates. Do you have a blog or anything?
We've got a collar that has got a 7 steps of increasing intensity, and a dual setting where you can turn it on "low" or "medium". So on "low" it would basically go from 1-7, and on "medium" from 4-11 in intensity.
Currently the collar is left permanently on low, and we've experimented with it both on our leg, through the entire 1-7 sequence. I'm more sensitive to it than he is (lower intensities hurt more quickly for me than for him).
So for me, 1 is a slight tingle, 2 the first setting I perceive as a "shock", and 3 and above is where it starts to get uncomfortable/painful, with 7 being about as bad as a really bad long cattle prod shock.
For him, he doesn't feel 1 at all, and then has the same transition from slight tingle, to shock, to cattle prod intensity.
On the neck, we both perceive the 1 setting as a healthy painful shock, and 3 is getting into the "intolerable" range. Because of this, we're currently not going higher than 3 on the neck, either in play or for experimentation, though this may still change over time.
As far as play goes: haven't gotten around to it yet... been stuck with kids in the house, and this type of electrical play triggers LOUD reactions. We'll hopefully get around to it once they're back at with their mother.
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