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RE: Serious question - 10/29/2015 7:39:50 AM   
Awareness


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Well just stop putting so many on ignore....., problem solved.... have a ok day...
Actually if she has so many people on 'ignore' why would the mod need to do any work? She has the view of the forums she wants and therefore no action would be required.

What kind of person would insist the forums are moderated to suit their own personal predilections?


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RE: Serious question - 10/29/2015 8:16:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Awareness
Actually if she has so many people on 'ignore' why would the mod need to do any work? She has the view of the forums she wants and therefore no action would be required.

What kind of person would insist the forums are moderated to suit their own personal predilections?


I don't seem to recall you having a comfy chair and a cup of tea during the Arpig days. Same thing.



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RE: Serious question - 10/29/2015 2:22:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Is it ok to address alpha499 as JOK3ER?

Which is a point I was trying to make - if they can't communicate properly then they aren't going to win anything because they lack clarity and precision of thought.
MAY BE IT IS NOT CLARITY THEY LACK, MAY BE THEY ARE BEATING A DEAD HORSE.

You didn't like my use of dead horses or goats the other day.... why the change of heart.... buddy ?

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RE: Serious question - 10/29/2015 2:29:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hi JOK3ER or Finsock.... still just can't post a comment and let it lay....lol have a great life....

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RE: Serious question - 10/29/2015 2:35:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: J0K3ER


I joined on April 2008.


Hey that is when the site started to be less appealing too!, so is your joining the real issue no one can exchange views and opinions...

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RE: Serious question - 10/31/2015 9:01:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

another malarkey comment:) oh good



28292 posts in 9 years equal 3,143 or in one year per day is 8.9 posts today every day for the last nine years now that is Malarkey.....



Well fine, but here are some other words you could use: balderdash, foolishness, drivel, hogwash and or nonsense



and even if you would have it wouldn't of been anything other than your opinion over mine.....

28292 posts in 9 years equal 3,143 or in one year per day is 8.9 posts today every day now that is Malarkey..... to be representing that you have un-aided produced 3,143 post in a year

Have a great day Lucylastic


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RE: Serious question - 10/31/2015 9:41:35 AM   
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I wasnt talking to you. It was a comment about the socks commenting on malarkey.
What I post and how many a day I post is to do with what exactly?
oh look, yes we did..
for your perusal...
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4850686

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RE: Serious question - 10/31/2015 10:27:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		As for the pot calling the kettle black, like with others you've been zeroing in on so prodigiously aside from post content,

You can attack the post, not the poster herself/himself.

Makes you look like a pamf when your post wasn't even being commented upon.

(You can't go by the "In Reply To" user name and take it personally when a fast reply is being made, because it will always pick up from the last one posting on a thread in default mode unless you select otherwise.)

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Edit - Let's see, 242 posts in 14 days = 17.2857 posts per day
. . . Dayum Lucy, somebody's got your record beat, and it would appear that I have a load of catching up to do!

< Message edited by dreamlady -- 10/31/2015 10:59:26 AM >

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RE: Serious question - 10/31/2015 10:44:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Awareness

You can approach any woman at pretty much any time provided you're socially adept and can charm them with conversation.

You appear to lack the social skills to do that. the best reply to this one is in proverbs 18-13. I'd suggest you focus on improving them. DANG! sorry for not waiting on your advice.

If I wanted to talk to such a woman, I'd make eye contact, KO. people with just mederate social skills set the bar for eye contact to minimum. raise an eyebrow what the keck is that ?? raise one eyebrow? have you thought about finding a bush or a light pole, and you drop to your knees as such woman is watching, then you raise one leg and pee pee. doing this will also give you an extra bonus for creativity. and quip, "Nice outfit." I really gotta love this "quip" one. but thanx I pass on it.

All social interactions are effectively seeds. You sow them and see what happens. Some will flourish, some won't. Accept either outcome with equanimity.

and you DO NOT appear to be the kind of guys who master direct approach techenics. "Fortune favours the bold", "Fortune favours the brave"

again, revise proverbs 18-13

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RE: Serious question - 10/31/2015 2:49:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

WTF didnt we already go over this?
I wasnt talking to you. It was a comment about the socks commenting on malarkey.
What I post and how many a day I post is to do with what exactly?
oh look, yes we did..
for your perusal...
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4850686



Damn I am getting old....well will sorry work again Lucylastic????

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RE: Serious question - 10/31/2015 2:53:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: dreamlady

As for the pot calling the kettle black, like with others you've been zeroing in on so prodigiously aside from post content,

You can attack the post, not the poster herself/himself.

Makes you look like a pamf when your post wasn't even being commented upon.

(You can't go by the "In Reply To" user name and take it personally when a fast reply is being made, because it will always pick up from the last one posting on a thread in default mode unless you select otherwise.)

DreamLady

Edit - Let's see, 242 posts in 14 days = 17.2857 posts per day
. . . Dayum Lucy, somebody's got your record beat, and it would appear that I have a load of catching up to do!



point taken and I screwed the pooch on this one cause I simply forgot we had addressed.... lol but be fair lol if in nine years from now I have 17 posts per day, then we have a record....

I am heading to a short pier for a long walk.....

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RE: Serious question - 10/31/2015 3:29:15 PM   
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RE: Serious question - 10/31/2015 9:40:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: zombiegurlsos
point taken and I screwed the pooch on this one cause I simply forgot we had addressed.... lol but be fair lol if in nine years from now I have 17 posts per day, then we have a record....

I am heading to a short pier for a long walk.....

Assuming you haven't been here for the past nine years under other screen names.

But, if you had, you would have known about the Fast Replies, and how posters don't always remember to notate a post as such.

Good of you to apologize. It was no skin off of my nose, admittedly.
It's always better for any misunderstandings to get cleared up lest they carry over elsewhere.
Or to put it another way, to give others the benefit of the doubt (which is easier said than done).

DreamLady

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RE: Serious question - 11/1/2015 12:01:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I've never been to any munch where people were not in street clothes.

Ditto that.

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RE: Serious question - 11/2/2015 2:27:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		First off... Just because that's how she dresses, does not imply that she is a hoe at all. And secondly, she would probably approach you if she was interested in sharing her interests in BDSM. Feel free to compliment but don't bother her.

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RE: Serious question - 11/3/2015 4:23:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TinglyTigress

First off... Just because that's how she dresses, does not imply that she is a hoe at all. And secondly, she would probably approach you if she was interested in sharing her interests in BDSM. Feel free to compliment but don't bother her.



Common sense for the common people..... thank you

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RE: Serious question - 11/3/2015 7:19:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: masmiss


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I've never been to any munch where people were not in street clothes.

Ditto that.

:D

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RE: Serious question - 11/3/2015 7:24:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TinglyTigress

First off... Just because that's how she dresses, does not imply that she is a hoe at all. And secondly, she would probably approach you if she was interested in sharing her interests in BDSM. Feel free to compliment but don't bother her.

Another reincarnation of slavemali. Impressive.

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RE: Serious question - 11/4/2015 12:10:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: J0K3ER

I am gonna put this down as simple as I can without any crafting, like i were talking to the neighbor next door. it is just a simple question for ALL. ( men, women, dom/mes, switches and subs ). wait a second...... NO TROLLS!. Oh!... did i forget to say please? .... I dont say please to trolls in fine prints.
lets cut through the chase. if you live in the land of milk and honey, you probably have an idea on how people customarily dress up in an ordinary day. but, lets say you stumbled upon an exception. you went to a gas station, for your daily fuel up, or to a store to buy beer,.... and a woman !!! OMG! dressed up just like those " findomme or amazon" hoes. knee high boots, Crop Top,Stripe Skirt etc...
Now my question is: is it considered appropriate behavior to approach that woman decently, introduce yourself and ask her if she is into BDSM, i focus on the last part of the question which is ((( if she is into BDSM ))). and i will certainly consider your points of view.


1. I can't say I commonly run into women wearing fetish attire in everyday places. But I live in LA so it does happen from time to time
2. I think it's perfectly fine to approach anyone anywhere and strike up a conversation.
3. Some men are funny and charming enough to ask about BDSM right off the bat in this scenario; most men who tried to do this would come off as creepy. Personally, I would strike up a conversation but I wouldn't immediately ask if someone was into BDSM.

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RE: Serious question - 11/4/2015 1:29:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		alpha499 why are you replying to the post I addressed directly to JOK3ER? This kind of sock-puppetry will not stand!

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ORIGINAL: JOK3ER/alpha499/mysterio47/tinfoilhatbrigade12

DANG! sorry for not waiting on your advice.
It's a shame your efforts haven't borne any fruit. Your skill set clearly needs a lot of work.

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KO. people with just mederate social skills set the bar for eye contact to minimum.
What does that even mean? Is English your second language?

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what the keck is that ?? raise one eyebrow?
What is it? It's a facial expression.

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have you thought about finding a bush or a light pole, and you drop to your knees as such woman is watching, then you raise one leg and pee pee. doing this will also give you an extra bonus for creativity.
No dude, that would make you look even more socially inept than you are.

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I really gotta love this "quip" one. but thanx I pass on it.
I agree, it's too subtle for you.

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and you DO NOT appear to be the kind of guys who master direct approach techenics. "Fortune favours the bold", "Fortune favours the brave"
Approaching directly is fine if you're in a club looking to score. However I'm not desperate for pussy and consider approaching women to be neither bold nor brave. You might because you're still afraid of them.


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