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RE: How can a couple find a real time Mistress without... - 11/21/2015 9:55:53 PM

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First I already gave up. Second this isn't my first first child I have 3 others and no one comes near them. Third I'm not looking for kinky sex I could care less if sex had anything to do with a relationship between me and a Dom. And not that it's anyone's business but my husband and I are not really sexual to being with. I know what I'm looking for and it's not online or at parties she'll find me one day until then I'm done here. Thanks everyone.

Actually, the point is that you will have very little time to give to a Dominant when the baby comes along..which is exactly how it should be, but isn't a great situation for the Dominant.

You're looking at the second to smallest demographic to meet your desires. There's a lot of competition for that person. You say that what you're looking for isn't online...but at this point what can you offer?

The only way you have a chance at finding what you seek is to be realistic about the situation and work with it. (And being snarky to people that offer honest advice isn't going to help when someone on the other side clicks the button that says "View forum posts")

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RE: How can a couple find a real time Mistress without... - 11/21/2015 10:11:41 PM

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Wtf was that all about? Shes layed up in bed knocked up with her fourth brat, can't afford going to functions - but she's having her fourth... and she's looking for a mistress to serve while lying in bed along with some pup dood ---and who the hell is working and taking care of all these kids and expenses?
Who in their right mind is going to take that mess on??

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RE: How can a couple find a real time Mistress without... - 11/22/2015 6:10:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PupandKitten

First I already gave up. Second this isn't my first first child I have 3 others and no one comes near them. Third I'm not looking for kinky sex I could care less if sex had anything to do with a relationship between me and a Dom. And not that it's anyone's business but my husband and I are not really sexual to being with. I know what I'm looking for and it's not online or at parties she'll find me one day until then I'm done here. Thanks everyone.

Well if you aren't sexual and you managed to get pregnant 4 times, maybe you should change your name to Mary.

I'm with JanahX on this one, you got 3 kids with a 4th on the way and you are financially so strapped that you can't even afford to go to a munch, it would be a deal breaker even if I was into kitten and puppy play and would live around the corner. Not that you don't have money to go to a munch but that you are so irresponsible to have 4 kids you can't really provide for, don't you think they'll need money for school trips, maybe they want to attend a college, might need braces and all that? You should kick your other half into finding another part time job to earn money for the kids instead of playing with somebody. The children should be the first responsibility, they had no choice if they wanted to be born or not, you had a choice to use contraceptives or not, I understand that accidents can happen, but hardly 4 times in a row...

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RE: How can a couple find a real time Mistress without... - 11/27/2015 3:46:59 PM

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Put more out there about your interests and shared interests, while making it clear what (non-monetary) benefits there are to playing with you as a couple. Are you level-headed? Chill? Drama-free? Good at cooking? Let people know.

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RE: How can a couple find a real time Mistress without... - 11/28/2015 8:07:26 PM

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I want to apologize if I said anything wrong to anyone in here. I do appreciate all the feedback I got on this a lot of it helped.

Just an update we are still looking for our perfect domme, maybe online would be best right now. In any case I have a lot going on (kinda why I need someone helping me stay focused) but I'm not trying as hard right now. If someone finds us that's great if not that's okay too. Thanks everyone God bless.

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RE: How can a couple find a real time Mistress without... - 12/22/2015 9:48:15 AM

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nods at janahx

Too many to name ( i just cant spell names correctly without clicking on their profiles copy and pasting) have given you a variety of advice, and a lot of it is good advice. But from my perspective you seemed to make excuse after excuse regarding those that offered fine advice. Something seems amiss to me..but I am like that at times and I so love that clip.

Have you tried looking online; perhaps you could quote some figures. I am of the belief you expect them to drop out of the sky.

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RE: How can a couple find a real time Mistress without... - 12/25/2015 2:56:21 PM

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I think the OP needs counseling, and I hope she seeks it out if she is not already getting it. Based on what she has said, it sounds like the four pregnancies were on purpose, and at the same time she's essentially advertising for a mom to take care of her. I'm no expert, so I can't name the dysfunction, but clearly there is an unhealthy obsession here.

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