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Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 5:12:35 AM   
Greta75


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Status: offline 		I thought this was actually a pretty decent topic.

It's often interesting to hear what are buzz kills for different kind of men and women, and anything peculiar?

I've already heard from 2 men that I would buzz kill them in sex, by falling asleep on them, and talking about random shit, like what colour to paint the ceiling during sex lol! OMG! I would have killed some men's erection on here!

But hey! We are all different! Other men love my nonsense in bed. I seldom meet a man who gets upset with me for falling asleep on them, they usually continue, as they had my permission to continue, I usually tell them, nothing I love more than to be fucked awake when I am sleeping. Or I am pretty much fighting sleep to stay awake to enjoy their attentions, but I'm totally enjoying it! I guess prompting them in advance about how I feel about being fucked to sleep or fucked while I am sleeping, does make a difference as it sets their expectations if they agree to go ahead.

So ladies and gentlemen, do share your buzz kills.

For myself, I think if the man ever utters a different woman's name, it would be a buzz kill. I would probably get up and leave immediately.

And I was sharing that I have met many men who cannot maintain an erection without french kissing. I hate french kissing, and try to avoid doing it. So in doing that, I discover alot of men can't get hard without it.





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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 5:19:36 AM   
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Clearly we are not sexually compatible, I don't shut up about random conversations in sex, and I always tell men to fuck me when I am sleeping, this means, they can fuck me anytime when I am asleep. For me, it's something I enjoy alot, even when I can barely open my eyes, and am super tired and the guy is having sex with me.

I would venture to say that you are no more exciting in bed than a sack of potatoes.
No obvious enjoyment, no feedback in stimulus, detached, impersonal, unimaginative.
In other words.... downright boring.
Maybe you like your sex that way.

Over here, that would one of the biggest turn-off's ever.
I would say that most men over here wouldn't find it stimulating and is a common topic for citing in break-ups and divorces.



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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 5:54:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am not for men who don't enjoy making women cum continuously forever. As I am self-absorbed in my own pleasure, and have the ability to unlimitedly continuously cum forever. And cumming for longs hours continuously does put you to sleep eventually out of sheer exhaustion, most men who enjoys that sort of thing totally understand. Try a 3 days sexual marathon, and see how awake you can stay. I've done it, in and out of sleep.

On top of that, try running a full actual marathon, and then have marathon sex immediately after! I've done that too! Men who fucks me know I love to utterly exhaust myself.

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 6:02:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		Fuckathons and self-satisfaction for a long time doesn't usually appeal to most here - at least with all those that I've dated, played with, been swinging with over the years.

An hour or two is fun but pushing beyond a few hours just gets very very boring.

Our lady friend that often visits us has the same problem.... the guy she plays with gets boring after two hours if he hasn't cum - she gets turned off and disinterested.


If you like sexathons, then fair enough.
But I don't think it's the norm for most people.


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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 6:17:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've never had sex under an hour or within 2. I don't have sex unless the man is free to spend all evening to night with me till morning and carry on in the morning hopefully till noon. If he has limited time, then I wouldn't be interested in having sex with him.

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 6:24:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds to me like you are very self-centred on the sexual side of things.

As I've said before, it doesn't sound like something most people would find very interesting.
When somebody is all self-self-self, whether it's sexual or something else, makes for a very boring person generally.
It's only one step away from all those do-me subs we see on here all to often.

It's not a matter of being sexually incompatible, it's more along the lines of someone being wholly selfish in their demands - and that isn't a nice trait to have.

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 7:38:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		While I don't think it's self centered...

Is like two hours really normal for folks?

My guy can maybe hit two hours a few times a year.

But I really wouldn't say we were having sex for two hours- we play and then bang.

Like on average we are probably like maybe forty five minutes.

Two hours? Like of just sex? Or like is that all the things?

Am I weird in this? We get tired (though, we could both be in better shape)? And my back starts to hurt, and other things start to get sore. I'm mostly just impressed.

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 7:49:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		What you do sounds pretty normal to me.
Play a bit, then some sex, a quick respite, play some more, maybe more sex.

But sexathons for hours and hours on end like Greta seems to like??
I think I'd be hard pushed to find many men that can keep up that sort of 1-way marathon for more than a hour or two at a time.

And if it's always just for her pleasure and gratification, I'd call that very selfish.


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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 8:13:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		When I was having sex our encounters would last around 6 hrs with 2 hour breaks in there, so around 4 hours. It would be play, sex, play, sex, play, sex, rest...
Then there was always the quickie at 4 am, where he would wake me and flip me over.
Good times

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 8:53:37 AM   
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I wouldn't be interested in having sex with him.


Since you have said that all you do is lay there it would appear that you are not having sex with him...he is having sex with you. Kinda like slick willie "I did not have sex with that woman..." I just stood there while she had sex with me.

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 9:02:08 AM   
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Since you have said that all you do is lay there it would appear that you are not having sex with him...he is having sex with you. Kinda like slick willie "I did not have sex with that woman..." I just stood there while she had sex with me.



Yes, if you want to be stickler of details, he will be fucking me, I won't be fucking him. I don't do being on top or anything like that.

But I've recently met my sexual soulmate who has the exact same sex drive as me. It's very difficult to find a man who gets hornier and hornier the more he cums, the more he wants to carry on cumming over and over again. Usually most men cum and needs break, or worst of all, some men cum and it's over. But my sexual soulmate is exactly the male counterpart of me, who the more we both cum, the more our sex drive increases. We are like energizer bunnies, and I for see alot of more long sessions of marathon sex coming up for us. Whenever we are together, we almost never sleep and fuck all night and both of go to work like zombies with big smiles on our faces next day.

With sex, it's all about finding your compatibility whatever that version is, when you meet him or her, I am sure it will always be great for all involved!

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 9:18:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yah, sometimes we are like that- but I have to say- If it were all the time...I don't know I could do that.

We have a lot of anal. That pretty much taps me out for a couple hours.

And I have back problems. Too long and I'm in for days of pain (not the fun kind), so I don't think that is for me right now.

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 9:28:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know if me and this guy can keep this up too, but at the moment, I never met a guy who has increased sex drive with every cum. Never in my life. I never thought this is ever possible in a man! So for now, I am gonna enjoy him as thoroughly as I can until I wear him out! And he claims his never met a woman who doesn't need breaks in between cums and happy to carry on forever. So at the moment, we are in amazement with each other.

I am sure eventually we will slow down, but things are very new now and exciting for both of us, honeymoon stage as they call it! Time will tell if this continues this good!

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 1:21:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

I thought this was actually a pretty decent topic.

It's often interesting to hear what are buzz kills for different kind of men and women, and anything peculiar?

I've already heard from 2 men that I would buzz kill them in sex, by falling asleep on them, and talking about random shit, like what colour to paint the ceiling during sex lol! OMG! I would have killed some men's erection on here!

But hey! We are all different! Other men love my nonsense in bed. I seldom meet a man who gets upset with me for falling asleep on them, they usually continue, as they had my permission to continue, I usually tell them, nothing I love more than to be fucked awake when I am sleeping. Or I am pretty much fighting sleep to stay awake to enjoy their attentions, but I'm totally enjoying it! I guess prompting them in advance about how I feel about being fucked to sleep or fucked while I am sleeping, does make a difference as it sets their expectations if they agree to go ahead.

So ladies and gentlemen, do share your buzz kills.

For myself, I think if the man ever utters a different woman's name, it would be a buzz kill. I would probably get up and leave immediately.

And I was sharing that I have met many men who cannot maintain an erection without french kissing. I hate french kissing, and try to avoid doing it. So in doing that, I discover alot of men can't get hard without it.






Yes it is indeed a thrilling discussion. ( we give good thread )

However, what I think " erection killers " is , in its most prominent and common form, is those ( 45 yo and older ) women who have been pushed to retirement against their will because they are simply " DONE" and they have absolutely NOTHING more to give. They were fairly Banished and excluded from participating in whatsoever practice related to social life.those desponded women portay the

scene of erection slaughter.
We may be lucky that we still can stand out of their short influence range.
We are still safe from them because they don't have the right tool to use, they don't have the right vaginal " most wanted kind of vagina" to use to climb the ladder of social life, and they definitely would , if they could fuck their way up to the top.
Those hoes are my erection killers.



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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 2:04:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		The only time I killed my partner's erection was when I fell off the bed while changing position and got stuck between the bed and the wall... We were too busy laughing to carry on after that!

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 3:15:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		I find it difficult to have sex to very catchy music. The desire to sing along and the struggle to refrain from doing so sucks up all of my attention.

Yes. Really.


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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 3:21:08 PM   
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I find it difficult to have sex to very catchy music. The desire to sing along and the struggle to refrain from doing so sucks up all of my attention.

Yes. Really.





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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 3:21:29 PM   
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I find it difficult to have sex to very catchy music. The desire to sing along and the struggle to refrain from doing so sucks up all of my attention.

Yes. Really.



Are you referring to the non availability of a free mouth to sing during the process. It happens to me all the time.

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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 6:12:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Buzz kill ----> when a guy is all into anal and then acts surprised when feces "appears".
Dumbfucks.
Duh...



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RE: Erection Killers/Buzz Kills - 11/19/2015 8:36:53 PM   
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I find it difficult to have sex to very catchy music. The desire to sing along and the struggle to refrain from doing so sucks up all of my attention.

Yes. Really.



Hey, that's something new I never heard of! Thanks!

Never thought this could be issue. I always love music during sex, sometimes even heavy metal. And my latest favourite sex song is that smurf britney song, ooh lala, that would be considered catchy music I guess.

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