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Ask a Mistress....because..... - 11/30/2015 4:56:17 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/11/2015 2:21:17 PM   
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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 1:14:34 AM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		Not many women in these forums seem pleasant to chat with as they seem to have a phobia against male sexuality. Yet they are supposed to be more open minded than vanilla folk considering they are on this site too.

For example:

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I'll also add that many men that list themselves at "submissive" aren't. They're "Do Me Bottoms" who treat dominant women like a fetish delivery system, so the turn over is high.


We always see something very similar to this said time and time again. Apparently, even if a man just mentions his sexual desires, he's a "do me" who just wants to use women. If you hold such a phobia against male sexuality by thinking that a man is using it for evil until proven otherwise, maybe you shouldn't be looking for men as male sexuality seems to fear you so much.

I am sure the womenz on here would find men pleasant to chat with if we dictated when women can and can't talk about their sexual desires, be condescending to women about their sexuality, and tell women what to do with their sexuality. Something that men face from women on here on a daily basis. There seems to be more anger against male sexuality than there is anything positive when looking in this forum.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 9:25:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: respectmen

Not many women in these forums seem pleasant to chat with as they seem to have a phobia against male sexuality.

More like a phobia against male stupidity.

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Yet they are supposed to be more open minded than vanilla folk considering they are on this site too.

Why would having a particular kink mean that someone would be more "open minded" in general?

Do you know anything about women that you haven't "learned" from porn or MRA websites?

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 9:32:03 AM   
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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 10:01:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

I think he gave us the perfect reason why he's such a misogynist, too many rejections and he still doesn't understand why....

Oh, I think he understands perfectly well, he's just a professional victim in denial.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 10:05:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: stef


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

I think he gave us the perfect reason why he's such a misogynist, too many rejections and he still doesn't understand why....

Oh, I think he understands perfectly well, he's just a professional victim in denial.


Wait a minute... I am Pharaoh, king of De'Nile and I'm not accepting new tenants. He'll have to get a room in Delusia or Dumbtopia.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 11:43:31 AM   
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Wait a minute... I am Pharaoh, king of De'Nile and I'm not accepting new tenants. He'll have to get a room in Delusia or Dumbtopia.

I think he's already got a wing reserved in the Royal Palace of Foreveraloneistan.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 12:20:36 PM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: stef


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Wait a minute... I am Pharaoh, king of De'Nile and I'm not accepting new tenants. He'll have to get a room in Delusia or Dumbtopia.

I think he's already got a wing reserved in the Royal Palace of Foreveraloneistan.



That's the special place for special Ueber-Doms, right? Because we all know that being a real cry baby attracts women so much, I mean how better to show them that you're in charge....

If I remember rightly down under most of the girls will tell him to go and shove his head up a dead bear's bum, I love their expressions, they tend to be very precise

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 3:09:20 PM   
Cuckingcurious


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Status: offline 		Really? You're on a website sharing whatever twisted desires you have but complain about men that have the balls to confront you about them... Makes a whole lot of sense. Calling them do me bottoms is just a poor excuse to say "you're not the perfect specimen I'm looking for". You claim you want to mold and shape a sub but are looking for perfection from the start. I've had a few connections on this site. Each of which seemed to be a very interesting conversation. Sooner or later kink gets brought up that's why we're all here and not on some other dating site. So kink comes up in the conversation since everything else seems to be a fit and suddenly the conversation goes south. All of the sudden your a do me sub just because you shared your likes. It all makes no sense at all! Why don't you just find a guy and cuff him to your bed and have your way with them? Why waste your time asking people question after question and then get pissed because he likes a dildo in his ass or what ever? D/s lifestyle is NOT just about the dominant half! Both partners gain from the relationship regardless of what people think. You are quick to degrade and downplay peoples opinions because I think you either have no friends and I can see why, you lack self-esteem and use forums like this to make you feel better, you are bored with a friend and decided lets go fuck with some freaks or you just plain hate men and can't trust one. Either way you are wasting your own time if all you do is dismiss one person after the next. I'm not looking for a leather clad fetish model I'm looking for someone that shares my interest in the lifestyle and accepts my kinks (that does NOT mean she has to cater to them! Nor should I have to cater to all of hers if one happens to exceed my boundaries. That doesn't mean I'd stop her from living those things out on a mother subject. Dominants worst flaw on this site is that you are totally self centered, have a bigger ego than Donald Trump, are far to quick to judge and care less about anyone's feelings. It wasn't easy admitting to myself who I am and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Now go ahead sift through my profile and find shit to criticize, note my only pic is a chastity device and how its so off putting and what ever and when you have all your opinions made up you can shove them straight up your fake asses! Unless it's a good opinion of course then I'd be glad to chat with you. At this point I can already see the wheels turning... Oh he's not a sub because of the way he conducts himself here... Well guess what? I'm not your sub your not my domme I only submit to someone that's worthy, someone that's earned my trust and respect. All you come here and lick my boots because I'm domme bitches can sit on your thumb and spin.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 3:15:53 PM   
Dvr22999874


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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 3:29:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Cuckingcurious

Really? You're on a website sharing whatever twisted desires you have but complain about men that have the balls to confront you about them... Makes a whole lot of sense. Calling them do me bottoms is just a poor excuse to say "you're not the perfect specimen I'm looking for". You claim you want to mold and shape a sub but are looking for perfection from the start. I've had a few connections on this site. Each of which seemed to be a very interesting conversation. Sooner or later kink gets brought up that's why we're all here and not on some other dating site. So kink comes up in the conversation since everything else seems to be a fit and suddenly the conversation goes south. All of the sudden your a do me sub just because you shared your likes. It all makes no sense at all! Why don't you just find a guy and cuff him to your bed and have your way with them? Why waste your time asking people question after question and then get pissed because he likes a dildo in his ass or what ever? D/s lifestyle is NOT just about the dominant half! Both partners gain from the relationship regardless of what people think. You are quick to degrade and downplay peoples opinions because I think you either have no friends and I can see why, you lack self-esteem and use forums like this to make you feel better, you are bored with a friend and decided lets go fuck with some freaks or you just plain hate men and can't trust one. Either way you are wasting your own time if all you do is dismiss one person after the next. I'm not looking for a leather clad fetish model I'm looking for someone that shares my interest in the lifestyle and accepts my kinks (that does NOT mean she has to cater to them! Nor should I have to cater to all of hers if one happens to exceed my boundaries. That doesn't mean I'd stop her from living those things out on a mother subject. Dominants worst flaw on this site is that you are totally self centered, have a bigger ego than Donald Trump, are far to quick to judge and care less about anyone's feelings. It wasn't easy admitting to myself who I am and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Now go ahead sift through my profile and find shit to criticize, note my only pic is a chastity device and how its so off putting and what ever and when you have all your opinions made up you can shove them straight up your fake asses! Unless it's a good opinion of course then I'd be glad to chat with you. At this point I can already see the wheels turning... Oh he's not a sub because of the way he conducts himself here... Well guess what? I'm not your sub your not my domme I only submit to someone that's worthy, someone that's earned my trust and respect. All you come here and lick my boots because I'm domme bitches can sit on your thumb and spin.

Stop it.

Not everyone is a good fit for everybody else.

I am 5'2". That means I'm not suited for men who like tall women.

My eyes are green. That means I'm not suited for anyone who wants a blue eyed babe.

I'm in my forties. That means I'm too old for some people.

Like needles and blood. Another not good match for you.

And, guess what?

That's ok.


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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 3:40:37 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cuckingcurious

Really? You're on a website sharing whatever twisted desires you have but complain about men that have the balls to confront you about them... Makes a whole lot of sense. Calling them do me bottoms is just a poor excuse to say "you're not the perfect specimen I'm looking for". You claim you want to mold and shape a sub but are looking for perfection from the start. I've had a few connections on this site. Each of which seemed to be a very interesting conversation. Sooner or later kink gets brought up that's why we're all here and not on some other dating site. So kink comes up in the conversation since everything else seems to be a fit and suddenly the conversation goes south. All of the sudden your a do me sub just because you shared your likes. It all makes no sense at all! Why don't you just find a guy and cuff him to your bed and have your way with them? Why waste your time asking people question after question and then get pissed because he likes a dildo in his ass or what ever? D/s lifestyle is NOT just about the dominant half! Both partners gain from the relationship regardless of what people think. You are quick to degrade and downplay peoples opinions because I think you either have no friends and I can see why, you lack self-esteem and use forums like this to make you feel better, you are bored with a friend and decided lets go fuck with some freaks or you just plain hate men and can't trust one. Either way you are wasting your own time if all you do is dismiss one person after the next. I'm not looking for a leather clad fetish model I'm looking for someone that shares my interest in the lifestyle and accepts my kinks (that does NOT mean she has to cater to them! Nor should I have to cater to all of hers if one happens to exceed my boundaries. That doesn't mean I'd stop her from living those things out on a mother subject. Dominants worst flaw on this site is that you are totally self centered, have a bigger ego than Donald Trump, are far to quick to judge and care less about anyone's feelings. It wasn't easy admitting to myself who I am and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Now go ahead sift through my profile and find shit to criticize, note my only pic is a chastity device and how its so off putting and what ever and when you have all your opinions made up you can shove them straight up your fake asses! Unless it's a good opinion of course then I'd be glad to chat with you. At this point I can already see the wheels turning... Oh he's not a sub because of the way he conducts himself here... Well guess what? I'm not your sub your not my domme I only submit to someone that's worthy, someone that's earned my trust and respect. All you come here and lick my boots because I'm domme bitches can sit on your thumb and spin.



Dear sock, I am actually happily married, so go and knock yourself out.

I actually never needed to force a guy, and I do have friends, non-sexual friends.

And guess what, you can go and **** yourself because most women won't. And I got news for you, I'm on this site for the forums, not to hear what Tom, Dick and Harry want, I am quite happy to have a civil conversation with about anybody (you might want to look up civil conversation, it's obviously a term you aren't very familiar with) but I am not a fetish delivery system for anybody who doesn't even have basic skills.

As for you being glad to chat with me, I think I give it a miss, I tend to only chat with people who's IQ is above room temperature, and I am talking Celcius.

So have a nice life and do enjoy being lonely and frustrated, hope you are a masochist who's inclined that way, in case you're not, oh well, too tough, I won't lose sleep about it.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 4:22:44 PM   
Cuckingcurious


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Status: offline 		Dear self absorbed what ever you are, I have probably forgotten more than you will ever know in 3 languages (all fluent BTW). Just more proof you feel the need to belittle people just to make your self feel better. If I was even remotely interested in a conversation with you or anyone else spouting nonsense in this forum I would of made contact via email. As far as my IQ goes I'm quite certain it surpasses most people's in the states multiple choice is so easy for someone that actually had to write answers in fountain pen instead of checking boxes. Just as expected a totally selfish response... Was I even talking to you specifically? Did I mention your name? I didn't think so! And I don't see you attacking all the people that ganged up on respectmen... You say you're happily married yet you're talking to people here instead of your partner... I wonder why lol! As for lady pact I can clearly see we wouldn't be a match I actually read profiles. I wouldnt waste your time or mine contacting someone I knew was not compatible. What I was saying was that when a connection has been made past reading profiles and judging them and basic interests etc have been shared and the discussion goes to play men are quickly accused of being a internet wanker or what ever other names you can come up with. Like I said neither of you understood the context of my post. Primarily I was trying to defend someone else. Clearly lady constanze is mad because her reading comprehension mirrors that of a 6 year old and only saw a imagined attack on her in the text... Self absorbed, bitter, sad and truly pathetic. Obviously I struck a nerve and the outcome was just as I expected...

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 4:23:13 PM   
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Me thinks the sock is here for humiliation purposes, since he can't get it in r/l.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 4:33:16 PM   
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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 4:35:57 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cuckingcurious

Dear self absorbed what ever you are, I have probably forgotten more than you will ever know in 3 languages (all fluent BTW). Just more proof you feel the need to belittle people just to make your self feel better. If I was even remotely interested in a conversation with you or anyone else spouting nonsense in this forum I would of made contact via email. As far as my IQ goes I'm quite certain it surpasses most people's in the states multiple choice is so easy for someone that actually had to write answers in fountain pen instead of checking boxes. Just as expected a totally selfish response... Was I even talking to you specifically? Did I mention your name? I didn't think so! And I don't see you attacking all the people that ganged up on respectmen... You say you're happily married yet you're talking to people here instead of your partner... I wonder why lol! As for lady pact I can clearly see we wouldn't be a match I actually read profiles. I wouldnt waste your time or mine contacting someone I knew was not compatible. What I was saying was that when a connection has been made past reading profiles and judging them and basic interests etc have been shared and the discussion goes to play men are quickly accused of being a internet wanker or what ever other names you can come up with. Like I said neither of you understood the context of my post. Primarily I was trying to defend someone else. Clearly lady constanze is mad because her reading comprehension mirrors that of a 6 year old and only saw a imagined attack on her in the text... Self absorbed, bitter, sad and truly pathetic. Obviously I struck a nerve and the outcome was just as I expected...


You replied specifically to me, I guess that escaped your superior intelligence, for which we only have your word for.

Oh don't worry about my relationship, obviously in my vows it didn't say that I only have to talk to my hubby, who by the way is asleep now.

No darling, you didn't strike a nerve, you got to aim a lot better, and btw if you are so smart, why can't you use spell check? And if you would like to continue this conversation in another language, I hope you are more fluent than in English.

As for not understanding your post, could be, maybe it would help if you would learn to articulate yourself, or do you think I didn't understand you because English is my 3rd language?

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 4:47:25 PM   
stef


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Status: offline 		It's always amusing when a person goes on at length about how smart they are, or how rich they are, or how long their dick is...

Who are you trying to convince, us or yourself? Trust me, we already know the truth.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 5:01:15 PM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

It's always amusing when a person goes on at length about how smart they are, or how rich they are, or how long their dick is...

Who are you trying to convince, us or yourself? Trust me, we already know the truth.



Obviously you are also intimidated by his intellect, shall we grab a cup of coffee and have our low brow conversation in the pauper room

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/15/2015 6:10:58 PM   
Cuckingcurious


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Status: offline 		1. I'm on a cell phone.
2. Spelling has nothing to do with intelligence.
3. Where I come from one can't simply purchase a degree it is earned.
4. I wasn't bragging on my intelligence I was merely defending it from some twat hiding behind a computer using spell check.
5. What you people think I could give two shits about was just standing up for someone else you cowards demonized in this thread.
6. Point 5 shows selflessness, something you all obviously lack.
7. You sit here criticizing people but get all pissed off when that criticism is pointed toward you! Hypocrite's!
8. My point is being proven over and over as I read your comments.
9. There are only 2 things infinite, the universe and human stupidity. I'm not so sure about the former.
10. I've counted to ten which is basically like passing the SATs and the Asvab...

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