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i dont understand - 12/1/2015 12:39:06 PM   
missnikki6969


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Status: offline 		Ok I'm not sure if this is really for the site. But I don't get why escorting is illegal. I mean if the girl is of age and willing to do that with her life why should she be
Arrested for it? Or if a man wants to pay for it why should he be arrested? How is it any different then being a pornstar? All porn stars do differently
Is film it. Or how is it any different then taking someone out to a exspsinve dinner and then out to a club with over priced drinks and then gong home at the end of
The night and having sex? I've watched like cops were they do prostituttion bust and the cops always say were trying to save the girl because she cpuld
Be under aged or forced to do it. That I understand cuz children being forced into this is wrong. But you never here about the ones willing. It don't make sense
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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 12:41:19 PM   
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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 12:43:58 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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Status: offline 		In most places, 'escorting' isn't illegal.
What is usually illegal is plying for 'sex for sale'.

There's a huge difference between an escort and a hooker/hoe and the laws are different for that reason.


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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 1:01:28 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		Judging by the construction of that paragraph, there's quite a bit that you don't understand.

But, let's start with: One person with an STD could infect thousands.

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 1:17:24 PM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		I don't understand it either.

Hmm is their a difference between an escort and hooker - marketing.
But then attention whores what of them to cite one of a possible plethora of examples and seeking sugar daddy/mommy lot - id personally tar and feather

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 1:29:53 PM   
Dvr22999874


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Status: offline 		A hooker here is usually regarded as a street-walker which is illegal whereas working as a call-girl, escort, brothel worker and the like is legal in all states, I believe. The laws vary a little from state to state but not to a great degree. Yes, there are illegal ( unlicensed) brothels and some of those specialise in things that are and should be illegal ( young girls etc), but the legal, licensed ones are closely monitored. It all seems to work quite well and only the holy-rollers and very conservative busy-bodies seem to take offence but then, they would take offence at the sun rising in the east.

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 2:18:12 PM   
seekingreality


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ORIGINAL: missnikki6969

Ok I'm not sure if this is really for the site. But I don't get why escorting is illegal. I mean if the girl is of age and willing to do that with her life why should she be
Arrested for it? Or if a man wants to pay for it why should he be arrested? How is it any different then being a pornstar? All porn stars do differently
Is film it. Or how is it any different then taking someone out to a exspsinve dinner and then out to a club with over priced drinks and then gong home at the end of
The night and having sex? I've watched like cops were they do prostituttion bust and the cops always say were trying to save the girl because she cpuld
Be under aged or forced to do it. That I understand cuz children being forced into this is wrong. But you never here about the ones willing. It don't make sense



Pretty much the whole argument is right here: https:

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 3:55:38 PM   
indianriver


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ORIGINAL: missnikki6969

Ok I'm not sure if this is really for the site. But I don't get why escorting is illegal. I mean if the girl is of age and willing to do that with her life why should she be
Arrested for it? Or if a man wants to pay for it why should he be arrested? How is it any different then being a pornstar? All porn stars do differently
Is film it. Or how is it any different then taking someone out to a exspsinve dinner and then out to a club with over priced drinks and then gong home at the end of
The night and having sex? I've watched like cops were they do prostituttion bust and the cops always say were trying to save the girl because she cpuld
Be under aged or forced to do it. That I understand cuz children being forced into this is wrong. But you never here about the ones willing. It don't make sense

Non, escorting is legal. What is illegal is street prostitution.
In/out call escorting, and so is prostitution in private or even in a brothel never been illegal. Not that I know of.
Another tip to consider is, escorts are Paid by the hour while prostitutes are paid by the act.


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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 5:12:12 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: missnikki6969

Ok I'm not sure if this is really for the site. But I don't get why escorting is illegal. I mean if the girl is of age and willing to do that with her life why should she be
Arrested for it? Or if a man wants to pay for it why should he be arrested? How is it any different then being a pornstar? All porn stars do differently
Is film it. Or how is it any different then taking someone out to a exspsinve dinner and then out to a club with over priced drinks and then gong home at the end of
The night and having sex? I've watched like cops were they do prostituttion bust and the cops always say were trying to save the girl because she cpuld
Be under aged or forced to do it. That I understand cuz children being forced into this is wrong. But you never here about the ones willing. It don't make sense


It's illegal for all the reasons previously expressed and...because too many women get brought in under exigent circumstances.

(That's why).

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 5:26:45 PM   
SweerbutMental


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Status: offline 		What I find sad is that escorting is legal in all 50 states and prostitution is legal with a license in atl east 3 cities yet add the word escort (or pimp or whore) to a collarspace profile as an actual interest not just a insulting term interest... and your profile will suddenly not be found in search... took me ages to meet the right slave girl for this very Reason... Had to make hundreds of profiles each that would get cancelled.. Luckily my slave escort and I eventually found each other. Stupid politically correct rules....

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 5:47:30 PM   
missnikki6969


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Status: offline 		No because I use to post in the escort section of back page and that's how I went to jail. But what's the difference then being a porn star who gets paid to have sex and have it filmed. I think its unfair. As for the std thing as long as the girls make their Johns were condoms then there should be barley in risk of spreading anything. It's the same as you going out with someone and them paying for your drinks and then going home with them and having sex. And when I worked back page I was paid for the amount of time not the act that happens in that time. I would have guys asking me well if i only take 5mins why do I gotta pay lets say 100$ for 30mins and only get one pop and I would have to tell them its for up to that Long.

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 5:48:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: missnikki6969

No because I use to post in the escort section of back page and that's how I went to jail. But what's the difference then being a porn star who gets paid to have sex and have it filmed. I think its unfair. As for the std thing as long as the girls make their Johns were condoms then there should be barley in risk of spreading anything. It's the same as you going out with someone and them paying for your drinks and then going home with them and having sex. And when I worked back page I was paid for the amount of time not the act that happens in that time. I would have guys asking me well if i only take 5mins why do I gotta pay lets say 100$ for 30mins and only get one pop and I would have to tell them its for up to that Long.


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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 6:09:35 PM   
LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: missnikki6969

No because I use to post in the escort section of back page and that's how I went to jail. But what's the difference then being a porn star who gets paid to have sex and have it filmed. I think its unfair. As for the std thing as long as the girls make their Johns were condoms then there should be barley in risk of spreading anything. It's the same as you going out with someone and them paying for your drinks and then going home with them and having sex. And when I worked back page I was paid for the amount of time not the act that happens in that time. I would have guys asking me well if i only take 5mins why do I gotta pay lets say 100$ for 30mins and only get one pop and I would have to tell them its for up to that Long.


I absolutely agree and in most places in Europe prostitution is legal and regulated (with health checks) in fact hardly any diseases were spread by prostitutes, if they catch something they can't work = no income, so they insist on condoms.

Apart from having a general shit fit if OH would stray, I think I'd worry less about him going to a prostitute (who'd make him wear a condom) than him picking up somebody in a bar, who possibly went home with a different guy every night of the weak and didn't use condoms or doesn't have regular STD checks. Not that I'd recommend that he does it, if he wants to keep the family jewels and me

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 6:15:41 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: SweerbutMental

Stupid politically correct rules....

It's to protect the site from legal problems and to protect the members from scrutiny from law enforcement. I don't consider that "stupid".

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 6:29:46 PM   
SweerbutMental


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Status: offline 		You don't have to find it stupid.. In most parts of the world.... Included where the collarspace servers are hosted bdsm is barely legal and consentual slavery is illegal yet escorting is not. It's stupid and illogical to disallow legal things like escorting while allowing illegal things like consensual slavery. You don't have to agree but I am certain most anyone with a law degree would tell you it's stupid to Make a website about an illegal activity while disallowing legal ones. You want to no what kind of problems escorting brings... ask backpage... the only thing anyone can legally do to stop it is stop the credit card Companes From dealing with them.... As its not actually illegal. Again I say it's stupid and just another way collarspace fails at doing its job of connecting lifestylers in a romantic way. They do the same thing with all sorts of totally legaltopics while ignoring profiles of complete illegal activities like thosewho seek to be used by dogs or horses.... Collarspace has some stupid rules

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 6:33:26 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		If you see anybody into bestiality, I would suggest you report it ASAP and I'm pretty sure the mods will take care of it

Btw consensual slavery counts as role play and role play doesn't seem to be illegal

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 6:35:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		here in Nevada there are legal brothels and the workers male and female get checked each week and to date no customer has ever contracted a std from the houses. all the workers are of age and even get benefits like having college loans paid. having legal brothels cuts down on the street walkers but not eliminates them

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 6:36:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SweerbutMental

You don't have to find it stupid.. In most parts of the world.... Included where the collarspace servers are hosted bdsm is barely legal and consentual slavery is illegal yet escorting is not. It's stupid and illogical to disallow legal things like escorting while allowing illegal things like consensual slavery. You don't have to agree but I am certain most anyone with a law degree would tell you it's stupid to Make a website about an illegal activity while disallowing legal ones. You want to no what kind of problems escorting brings... ask backpage... the only thing anyone can legally do to stop it is stop the credit card Companes From dealing with them.... As its not actually illegal. Again I say it's stupid and just another way collarspace fails at doing its job of connecting lifestylers in a romantic way. They do the same thing with all sorts of totally legaltopics while ignoring profiles of complete illegal activities like thosewho seek to be used by dogs or horses.... Collarspace has some stupid rules



Soooo... wot's the name of your brand new site and do you have a link for us to join up?

I'd call it AnarchyOnline... but it may be taken.

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 6:38:02 PM   
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If you see anybody into bestiality, I would suggest you report it ASAP and I'm pretty sure the mods will take care of it

Btw consensual slavery counts as role play and role play doesn't seem to be illegal


Hey!!!! Fucker, I am quite the animal.

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RE: i dont understand - 12/1/2015 7:17:44 PM   
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Hey!!!! Fucker, I am quite the animal.

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