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RE: DD/lg - Little girl <3 - 12/6/2015 9:10:48 AM

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Your problem, Greta, is that you are putting all the age play stuff into an incest-style context.
Age play is not incest driven or motivated or even sexual in some cases.

Sometimes you need to think outside the box.

Then what is it motivated by? Authority figures are generally in real life people you shouldn't have sex with. How else is it processed? Even if it's your boss, technically, you shouldn't be having sex with him and he wouldn't be associated as Daddy anyway.

Have never ever had a crush or sexual thoughts about a teacher, or a boss, a policeman, a fireman, or some other 'authoritative' figure??
Where on earth do you get the idea that you can't have sex with a politician???

The sheer fact that you think authoritative figures are a no-no for sex means you are compartmentalising those people in an incest-style way of thinking.
It seems your encapsulated life-style has warped your sense of how the rest of the world thinks.

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RE: DD/lg - Little girl <3 - 12/6/2015 9:12:02 AM

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You can always age play but it doesn't have to be incest related...

Think about a Ms Robinson scenario, no relation, the woman just pretends she is the older and more experienced one who "corrupts" the young virgin guy, and the other way round. Some people do age play where they both pretend to be younger or older than they are, I pretended to be the mom of somebody who was a lot older, it was non-sexual.

Somebody might just WANT to be a certain age.... (personally I'd like to be 20 again, but meh, no such luck)

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RE: DD/lg - Little girl <3 - 12/6/2015 9:12:06 AM

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I did watch on Dr Phil once about a man who wanted to be treated like a baby. Diapers, milk fed, sleeps in a cradle, all that stuffs. I think they don't have sex at all. He just wants to be treated like baby and he just wants a woman to behave like his mother, and perhaps that includes not having sex. Perhaps that is the non-sexual age play you are talking about?

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RE: DD/lg - Little girl <3 - 12/6/2015 9:15:45 AM

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Nope, that is infantilism, one of the more extreme forms of age play but not the only one, as I said, old guy in his 80's pretended to be a bride before the wedding, I pretended to be the mom and told him all about the facts of life... No sex, no touching, but he was happy with that....

Imagine 2 people pretending to be teenagers again? Age play.... It's not that different from say puppy or kitten play, it's just one of those things, you're into it or you're not

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RE: DD/lg - Little girl <3 - 12/6/2015 9:34:34 AM

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Have never ever had a crush or sexual thoughts about a teacher, or a boss, a policeman, a fireman, or some other 'authoritative' figure??

I swear on my own life, I have never had a crush on authoritative figures or ever had sexual fantasies about them or ever felt sexually aroused by one. Maybe because I resent authority figures and usually they are view as negative and hostile towards me, rather than positives. So if someone plays authority figure with me, I am sexually turned off completely. That person becomes the enemy, definitely nothing sexy. My personal life experiences with authority figures have never been positive. Even teachers or head masters in school. Corporal punishment is legal over here. So to me, they are violent and all they do is hurt me intentionally because they have the power to do so. And for me, it's always war with them and never back down, and never show I am afraid. Caning is quite sadistic because they even differentiate between thin canes and thick canes, there is even a selection. Teachers can just pull your hair, slam you against the wall, and just slap you or even strip you to humiliate you.
It's pretty hard to crush on anything like that. And of course, my parents fully approved. My mom intentionally chosen this specific school because of it's known for it's no nonsense physical punishment and putting you in your place.

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RE: DD/lg - Little girl <3 - 12/6/2015 9:36:39 AM

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Somebody might just WANT to be a certain age.... (personally I'd like to be 20 again, but meh, no such luck)

Okay, I can deal with that, just role playing that you wish to be a certain age again. I guess I can imagine that.

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RE: DD/lg - Little girl <3 - 12/6/2015 10:46:24 AM

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Have never ever had a crush or sexual thoughts about a teacher, or a boss, a policeman, a fireman, or some other 'authoritative' figure??

I swear on my own life, I have never had a crush on authoritative figures or ever had sexual fantasies about them or ever felt sexually aroused by one. Maybe because I resent authority figures and usually they are view as negative and hostile towards me, rather than positives. So if someone plays authority figure with me, I am sexually turned off completely. That person becomes the enemy, definitely nothing sexy. My personal life experiences with authority figures have never been positive. Even teachers or head masters in school. Corporal punishment is legal over here. So to me, they are violent and all they do is hurt me intentionally because they have the power to do so. And for me, it's always war with them and never back down, and never show I am afraid. Caning is quite sadistic because they even differentiate between thin canes and thick canes, there is even a selection. Teachers can just pull your hair, slam you against the wall, and just slap you or even strip you to humiliate you.
It's pretty hard to crush on anything like that. And of course, my parents fully approved. My mom intentionally chosen this specific school because of it's known for it's no nonsense physical punishment and putting you in your place.

Most of what you witnessed at school just doesn't happen here.
In fact, most of that behaviour is illegal.

No wonder you have a strange idea of the world.

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RE: DD/lg - Little girl <3 - 12/6/2015 11:05:45 AM

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I'm not persuading you to enter DDlg but it just helps me to let you know that I'm against incest and pedophilia. Hell, I can't see my father as DD and I never will have any incestuous feelings for him. You can ask me why I'm interested in DD/lg because I will ask you this:

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authority figures, which again, leads to fathers.

Have you ever had a crush on a teacher?

Welcome to the forums and I hope you have lots of fun on here.

I understand your inclination to separate DD/lg from ageplay. In my mind, DD/lg is closer to adult D/s relationships that are commonly seen. But DD/lg usually implies a more affectionate, indulgent interaction rather than the stereotypical commanding Dom. I say that based on discussions of this I have seen on Fet, not on any experiences of my own, so I may be way off there.

That to me seems very different from the other types of ageplay mentioned here, but it is still ageplay. Discussing on your profile what your ageplay limits are is fine and in fact is a smart move. But just be prepared to explain yourself a lot. And another poster made a good point-to others who are looking for ageplay, even just the kind that you are looking for, you may come across as confused and/or turn off potential mates.

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RE: DD/lg - Little girl <3 - 12/6/2015 11:09:15 AM

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I thought it was only legal for boys and quite strictly regulated to 6 strokes, permission and witnessed by the headmaster and it needs to be logged for the government?

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