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RE: I'm lost! - 12/11/2015 12:48:35 PM

LadyPact

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A few quick good-bye tips.

* Your profile wording does matter. You'll get the same advice regarding negativity there as you will here.

* You are responsible for your reactions. Not the climate of any particular site.

* You will also find fin dommes on Fet.

* A kink-centric name isn't always well received on either site.

Best of luck to you.

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RE: I'm lost! - 12/11/2015 12:59:47 PM

LadyConstanze

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FR:

If you couldn't find anybody in Germany, that has pretty much a huge scene and you don't like munches, you think a webpage is doing the trick?

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RE: I'm lost! - 12/11/2015 1:04:07 PM

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I could answer this many ways *mulls*

1. Change your profile text, as darksteven suggests, let me look see if you’ve done anything. Refine and refine it over time.
2. Have you considered the dark arts, for bewitching purposes, 5 magic beans.
3. As OsideGirl says. The Ratio of men to women varies on each type of site. And is heavily skewed in favour of women
4. Join a swingers site but the ratio is about 100:1 on those places or worse. When I say 100:1 that is before I factor in women, or couples into that
5. Join the two most popular single sites, and hint a wee bity in your profile..I use the same profile everywhere on the 1-4 sites I can be bothered to go on. So the two main fetish sites and mainstream dating one – free.

Not sure this is worth my time….but understand on fetish sites and swingers sites, if you are genuine, you will be competing with 100s of married (and fibbing about it and everything else) men. Competition is therefore exceptionally tough.

Okay my time

Scotland population 5.5million haggis and haggisettes and a sandal wearing loon with fondness for truisms cake and cats 7 cheap Chardonnay.
Search parameters checked = pictures & dominant

Number of female dominant profiles online in scotland since December = 14 (has it come to that on here – not my doing a shameful total)

Pro domes = 6
Fake profiles =5
Genuine - I use that term loosely to encompass cheats too, benefit of the doubt profiles included = 3

Sighs I will do submissive men too without the breakdown = 75 and none of them will be pro and I can assure you the bulk attached and it

Giving a ratio of 75 men: 3 genuineish women or 25:1

Your profile - the regulars have given you good advice. Its a shame so few people visit these forums.

Personally I think if you delete the first section its actually not bad and be aware of the ratio and the demographic make up constituent parts - this means you have to plug away

dear genuine ladies in no way am i saying all the 75 men are genuine and credible

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RE: I'm lost! - 12/11/2015 2:09:01 PM

Cuckingcurious

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Her

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RE: I'm lost! - 12/11/2015 2:27:08 PM

Cuckingcurious

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There we go with assumptions again... Just because I lived in Germany does not mean I had these desires. I was 19 when I came to the states. My kinks didn't develop till I was 21 and in the army. I did not like the munches I went to but I just found out that there are more now than there were before. I will be going. Thank you wickedsdesire for confirming what I've been trying to say all along. Woman have the luxury of assuming and being picky. I on the other hand have to basically conform or pretend to be someone I'm not by bending my desires or accepting new ones to be accepted. We dont have the luxury of 500 emails in our inbox. Sounds alot like politics to me...

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RE: I'm lost! - 12/11/2015 2:31:31 PM

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Thought you were leaving 2 hours ago.

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RE: I'm lost! - 12/11/2015 2:33:01 PM

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I thought this was ask a domme not a sub...

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RE: I'm lost! - 12/11/2015 2:53:34 PM

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Forum policy has always been that anyone can post in any area as long as they don't violate TOS or the forum guidelines.

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RE: I'm lost! - 12/31/2015 4:05:00 PM

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Let me help you? Walk out the door and turn left, walk down the passage and through the door, turn right, keep right and walk 16 blocks. You will see belvue hospital.Get the hospital cops to escort you to the psyche wards and check yourself in for observation. See I found you and got you back home dude?

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