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Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/13/2015 9:29:19 PM

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It's an hour long documentary, where it's interesting to learn why women would want to change their vagina with surgery:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eFQSpSgu8rc

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/13/2015 9:37:33 PM

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What does this have to do with BDSM?

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/13/2015 10:59:45 PM

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Because poor ol' crumpets is still utterly baffled by women and what makes them tick!

So he does all this extra data investigation crap to try and work it out and thinks we should all be looking into it so we can 'splain it to him in simple terms he might be able to grasp.
Coz if we don't do this shit, he thinks we are all severely lacking for not doing it.

@crumpets: Instead of posting stuff to do with with women changing their bits (which wouldn't be very many), try seeking out documentaries on Gender Reassignment Surgery (both sexes) or the reasons behind why so many men like to be XD's or TV's - that will probably get you a better insight to how the human brain works so you can digest that info and apply it to women.
Treating women as a specialist subject will get you nowhere fast - as we have witnessed your total and utter blundering confusion in many threads on these boards.

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 12:52:24 AM

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You might wanna watch/look for a program out there called "Botched" Its about people, both men and women who have had issues with their surgeries(of all kinds)
There is one program out of the series that deals with intimate surgery.

I wouldnt have surgery to improve the look of my genitalia, the women who do are a tiny percentage, a REALLLLY tiny tiny tiny percentage.
Having multiple scars for multiple reasons, Im pretty sure mine is not anyones idea of perfection, but im not putting myself thru surgery, healing, pain, possible infection and the mess to be "perfect".
The cost of it is unimportant to my response but the complications are.
I can understand the rationale for porn stars/sex industry models, etc to have it done, they are selling "perfection" not reality.
I can understand the rationale for having surgery for previous botched surgeries. But losing sensation is horrible.

Men and women are having surgery, vets are getting penis transplants in the near future, penis implants are more and more popular. This isnt a woman man thing, its a human condition.

oh yeah its also NOT a BDSM thing....

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 1:32:53 AM

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The very thought of this makes me want to cross my legs. Kind of the same reaction some men have when watching a show when some man on screen gets nailed in the balls.

Just to improve the look of the va-jay-jay? Ummm... Thanks, but no. Mine's not lined with gold or anything like that but the kitty is just fine the way it is. It wouldn't break my heart if it grew less hair or something like that...

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 1:44:43 AM

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The very thought of this makes me want to cross my legs. Kind of the same reaction some men have when watching a show when some man on screen gets nailed in the balls.

Just to improve the look of the va-jay-jay? Ummm... Thanks, but no. Mine's not lined with gold or anything like that but the kitty is just fine the way it is. It wouldn't break my heart if it grew less hair or something like that...

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 1:46:36 AM

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Precisely why I trim my own.

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 1:47:37 AM

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To OP,

Why do you bother with vagina surgeries when men circumcise and it's no issue anyway.

Men have been defacing their dicks for ages! And when a woman wanna change the appearances of their vagina, it's a problem?

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 1:57:06 AM

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well..of course there is religious "surgery" of many kinds, but that is kinda taken outta their hands, males have absolutely no say in infant circumcision.
And most girls have little choice in their "surgery" either.
This is a conscious decision to change ones body parts.
I also dont have an issue with consensual modification. Its a choice.

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 2:18:42 AM

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<Fast reply.>

Just so y'all know, MP laughed at this when I told him about it.

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 7:05:35 AM

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Ya know, I've not ever encountered a woman that didn't want me put some serious milage on her tweeter regardless of how ugly she thought it was.

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 3:12:12 PM

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The very thought of this makes me want to cross my legs. Kind of the same reaction some men have when watching a show when some man on screen gets nailed in the balls.

Just to improve the look of the va-jay-jay? Ummm... Thanks, but no. Mine's not lined with gold or anything like that but the kitty is just fine the way it is. It wouldn't break my heart if it grew less hair or something like that...

chemical burns suck

Well waxing tends to slow down unwanted growth and you kinda get used to it, only done the chemical hair removal once during my teenage days and walking bow legged and whincing when you sit down is so not fun!

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 3:26:54 PM

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I did so badly with surgery I HAD to have- its hard to imagine electing to go under the knife again.

But every single year I think about weight loss surgery, despite allllll the night mare stories I've heard.

I imagine this surgery is not unlike that. Sometimes you just don't like something about yourself- and if you have the means and courage and will to change it via surgery- more power to you.

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/14/2015 4:09:19 PM

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I have a fun scar on my balls from hernia surgery last year.

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/16/2015 11:19:04 AM

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The very thought of this makes me want to cross my legs. Kind of the same reaction some men have when watching a show when some man on screen gets nailed in the balls.

Just to improve the look of the va-jay-jay? Ummm... Thanks, but no. Mine's not lined with gold or anything like that but the kitty is just fine the way it is. It wouldn't break my heart if it grew less hair or something like that...

well.. I didnt watch the posted vid but I think i have seen some porn girls that musta had surgery cuz they didnt look normal down there.. and quite frankly, if what i saw was from surgery to "improve the look", imo it was a major failure!!! they were dam ugly imo.. but on the plus side they could write off the cost as a business expense.. haha

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/16/2015 12:32:16 PM

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Just some time spent on k&p showed me women have an astounding variety in appearance of "naughty bits". How would one discern whether one's own looked right or needed correcting?

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/17/2015 11:56:35 AM

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Just some time spent on k&p showed me women have an astounding variety in appearance of "naughty bits". How would one discern whether one's own looked right or needed correcting?

I think the problem in today's world is, we all have access to porn and many of the women in porn videos have designer vaginas. When a young woman watches her man get worked up by, what's actually not a normal vagina, she may well get a complex about the shape and size of her own labia. Women don't generally go round comparing their 'rosies' with each other and so the one big comparison is porn videos and pornographic pictures.

When I went through puberty I was horrified at how things started to change down there but back then, when I looked at porn, I was able to reassure myself that mine was perfectly average. This of course was before porn stars started having ops to make themselves look like pre-pubescent girls.

A scene friend of ours works as a nurse for the cosmetic side of a well known private hospital branch in the UK. She claims they get around 15 women a month (which to me is a huge amount) having labia reduction surgery at that practice and that the numbers are getting bigger year on year.

This is a topic that is probably one of the least popular subjects amongst women and yet it is a topic that we should be able to talk quite openly about.

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/19/2015 9:57:55 PM

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Precisely why I trim my own.

What? MP does not mow the grass?

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RE: Do you want to change the look of your naughty bits? - 12/19/2015 10:29:41 PM

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Just some time spent on k&p showed me women have an astounding variety in appearance of "naughty bits". How would one discern whether one's own looked right or needed correcting?

Blue and green aren't normal colors. Puss is never a good sign. DOT fitting it for an on-ramp should cause concern (don't worry about the tollbooth though).

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