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RE: Explain punishment? - 12/26/2015 9:02:13 PM

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Crotan Oil would be better than poison. she'll be too busy doing other things to bother you at all. she will think the ass has fallen out of her world. Or maybe vice versa.

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RE: Explain punishment? - 12/27/2015 3:11:40 AM

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She gets on your nerves, you inject a dose of poison into her tea.

That's punishment.

She won't do it again.

And neither will future suitors in her absence.

Nancy Astor to Winston Churchill: If I were your wife, I'd put poison in your tea.

His reply: If I were your husband, I'd drink it.

It is not what you teach that has the greatest impact; it is what you tolerate.

Oh, and I don't think it was his tea.

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RE: Explain punishment? - 1/4/2016 11:52:55 PM

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Thanks for your affirming words. I think the reason this works out in our relationship is because we know each other so well and communicate openly. For example I would never punish her, even if she might deserve it, if she looked like she wasn't in the mood. I wouldn't even bring it up. This hasn't actually happened, she is very submissive and caters to me at all times. If anything I would just save the spanking for later. The point is she is allowed to tell me anything at any time. I also am very open with my feelings.

I'm sorry to hear about your last relationship. I'm sure you'll find what your looking for.

It sounds like you have a very good relationship going on.
I want my dom to be open to my feelings as I would his or her's. If I do something foolish, or it looks like I am about to do sonething that would send me down a very bad path, I want my Dom to punish me and chide me immediately like a parent would. In otherwords, I don"t want my dom to spare the rod
when I really need it no matter how upset I may be.

However, after I get beaten or chided, I want my dom to hug me and let me cry in his/her arms.

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RE: Explain punishment? - 1/5/2016 11:08:07 AM

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That's not the best way to rear offspring. Unless you want them to fear you and as soon as they escape your house, to not want to spend time with you.

My son, like a lot of others, had a fascination with xbox that overruled his desire to do homework. Most people I knew took it away telling them it was punishment. It didn't help the kids with their time management. They took it away for months and then gave up because it wasn't working. Many of those kids went to summer school.

I commiserated with mine about how much more fun the xbox was and how he couldn't be expected to do homework with it whispering to him. And that he should give me the controller Sunday night at bedtime and would get it back on Fridays an hour after coming home. Within a week he was willingly doing his homework and had set up the routine of getting it done first. At that point he kept the controller and had no more problem. Same consequence but viewing it as a help instead of a hindrance made all the difference.

I find him problem solving instead of having to be as cruel as possible to be much more effective. Because he could drag me out to the woodshed and beat me, but he'd still have to help me figure out what the problem really was and how to solve it for the future. Going straight to the problem solving eliminates all that crying and unhappiness and me closing down unable to talk things out. But I don't like unnecessary drama. YMMV.

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RE: Explain punishment? - 1/5/2016 2:08:10 PM

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Interesting. I think I would ask my dom to
keep my posessions under lock and key when
they are not being used, and that if I get too addicted
to something (the tablet or phone, for example), then into the secure
room or safe it goes and I have to earn it back somehow.

I would also ask my dom to password protect things
such as the cable box and WiFi so he/she can decide
when i have access to those things, and withdrawl
access when he/she feels she needs to.

I still want physical punishment for very severe
infractions, but for more mundane ones such
as surfing the web when I was supposed to
be cleaning the living room, or for regulated times
such as bedtime wheb I am not supposed to
be on the web or watching TV, lockouts are
the way to go and what I want.

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RE: Explain punishment? - 1/7/2016 8:27:18 AM

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She gets on your nerves, you inject a dose of poison into her tea. Notherngent peed my pants thankee thee

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