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GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 11:18:26 AM   
DungeonDaddy67


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Status: offline 		This woman that Goes to my church, has decided that she wants to be around me, be my friend, etc.

Everyone else sees that she is obviously interested in me. but as my old granny used to say

"I wouldn't have you off the Christmas Tree" (Not interested, don't want to have you)

This woman is UGLY, she has more wrinkles on her than a road map has lines, her Hair is stringy, flat and lifeless. she is flat chested. She wears no make up and she has 2 teen age children. She supports Causes that I am totally opposed too.

I try to keep my vanilla and my bdsm separated. I would never be happy with this woman, I find her physically repugnant and will not date a vanilla woman.

How can I tell her GO AWAY with out getting nasty, this woman does attend my church. I don't want to offend her and make her leave, since its a small struggling church that needs all the members it can get!
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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 11:26:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		find a new church...tell her you have thir d stage clap, get some vaseline for your glasses, wear a button that disagrees with her pet cause, tell her the truth.

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 11:29:07 AM   
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Wow, aren't you nice. You can actually still be civil and courteous unless she physically attacking you.

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 11:41:43 AM   
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Truth, when not coupled with compassion is just brutality.

Read that previous sentence for about a week. Then, tell her the truth; you're just not interested.

You went into some detail about her physical attributes without mentioning her personality, but if she's a decently mature human being, the truth (not brutality) should suffice.



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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 12:11:21 PM   
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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 12:31:28 PM   
Nthrall


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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 12:36:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DungeonDaddy67

This woman that Goes to my church, has decided that she wants to be around me, be my friend, etc.
You can be friendly with someone without being their friend and it's always good to have friendly people around you

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Everyone else sees that she is obviously interested in me
Remember, what they say about assumptions.

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but as my old granny used to say,

"I wouldn't have you off the Christmas Tree" (Not interested, don't want to have you)

This woman is UGLY, she has more wrinkles on her than a road map has lines, her Hair is stringy, flat and lifeless. she is flat chested. She wears no make up and she has 2 teen age children. She supports Causes that I am totally opposed too.

I try to keep my vanilla and my bdsm separated. I would never be happy with this woman, I find her physically repugnant and will not date a vanilla woman.
Well, #1 - shouldn't throw stones in a glass house and all. #2 You're here giving all the reasons not to be in a relationship with her when you don't even know what she wants. Quite ridiculous.

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How can I tell her GO AWAY with out getting nasty
You don't need to tell her to go away at all, she hasn't done anything be be friendly to you. Until she overtly makes a move, there's no need to do anything more than be polite and keep her at arms length.

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this woman does attend my church. I don't want to offend her and make her leave, since its a small struggling church that needs all the members it can get!

Yes, we can tell from the overtly Christian things you've said, how important church is to you.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 12/26/2015 12:37:14 PM >

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 12:37:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DungeonDaddy67

This woman that Goes to my church, has decided that she wants to be around me, be my friend, etc.

Everyone else sees that she is obviously interested in me. but as my old granny used to say

"I wouldn't have you off the Christmas Tree" (Not interested, don't want to have you)

This woman is UGLY, she has more wrinkles on her than a road map has lines, her Hair is stringy, flat and lifeless. she is flat chested. She wears no make up and she has 2 teen age children. She supports Causes that I am totally opposed too.

I try to keep my vanilla and my bdsm separated. I would never be happy with this woman, I find her physically repugnant and will not date a vanilla woman.

How can I tell her GO AWAY with out getting nasty, this woman does attend my church. I don't want to offend her and make her leave, since its a small struggling church that needs all the members it can get!


So, there's an old wives tale going 'round that someone is interested in you, even though she hasn't actually declared said interest.

Even in the event she is interested, I doubt she would pack her bags, up sticks and leave the town on the back of a knock back from you.

Is this what you do in the United States? You get a knock back and so the only plausible option is to get the first bus out of town? I doubt it.





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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 12:52:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DungeonDaddy67

This woman that Goes to my church, has decided that she wants to be around me, be my friend, etc.

Everyone else sees that she is obviously interested in me. but as my old granny used to say

"I wouldn't have you off the Christmas Tree" (Not interested, don't want to have you)

This woman is UGLY, she has more wrinkles on her than a road map has lines, her Hair is stringy, flat and lifeless. she is flat chested. She wears no make up and she has 2 teen age children. She supports Causes that I am totally opposed too.

I try to keep my vanilla and my bdsm separated. I would never be happy with this woman, I find her physically repugnant and will not date a vanilla woman.

How can I tell her GO AWAY with out getting nasty, this woman does attend my church. I don't want to offend her and make her leave, since its a small struggling church that needs all the members it can get!

Years of reading the forums have left me thinking there is one uniform method that 100% of all forum wimmenvolken agree on, lead with a cock shot and there is zero chance of getting any play.
So, go full Seinfeld and next Sunday, sidle up at the post service coffee soiree,strike up a conversation and then...take...It...out

"ELAINE: Hello.

JERRY: So?

ELAINE: What?

JERRY: Come on. How was your date?

ELAINE: Oh, the date. The date.

JERRY: Ya how was it?

ELAINE: Interesting.

JERRY: Really.

ELAINE: Oh ya.

JERRY: Why what happened?

ELAINE: Let's see, (thinking) how shall I put this.

JERRY: Just put it.

ELAINE: He took it out.

JERRY: (confused) He what?

ELAINE: He took (blows on her glasses twice to clean them) it out.

JERRY: He took what out?

ELAINE: It.

JERRY: He took It, Out?

ELAINE: Yessiree Bob.

JERRY: He couldn't.

ELAINE: He did.

JERRY: (motions of making out) Well you were involved in some sort of amorous...

ELAINE: Noooo.

JERRY: You mean he just

ELAINE: Yes.

JERRY: Are you sure?

ELAINE: Oh quite.

JERRY: There was no mistaking it?

ELAINE: (looks straight into his eyes) Jerry.

JERRY: So you were talking, (Elaine makes an agreement sound "mmm") you're having pleasant conversation, (Elaine makes an agreement sound "mmm") then all of sudden...

ELAINE: Yea.

JERRY: It.

ELAINE: It.

JERRY: Out.

ELAINE: Out.

JERRY: Well I, I can't believe this. I know Phil, he, he's a good friend of mine. We play softball together. How could this be?

ELAINE: Oh it be. (sarcastically) You got any other friends you want to set me up with?

(Kramer enters)

KRAMER: Hey. (to Elaine) Hey how was your date with Phil Titola?

ELAINE: (to Kramer) He took it out.

(Shocked, Kramer acts like he just got a cold shiver down his back)

KRAMER: Maybe uh, it needed some air. You know sometimes they need air, they can't breathe in there."

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 1:19:52 PM   
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This woman that Goes to my church, has decided that she wants to be around me, be my friend, etc.

Everyone else sees that she is obviously interested in me. but as my old granny used to say

"I wouldn't have you off the Christmas Tree" (Not interested, don't want to have you)

This woman is UGLY, she has more wrinkles on her than a road map has lines, her Hair is stringy, flat and lifeless. she is flat chested. She wears no make up and she has 2 teen age children. She supports Causes that I am totally opposed too.

I try to keep my vanilla and my bdsm separated. I would never be happy with this woman, I find her physically repugnant and will not date a vanilla woman.

How can I tell her GO AWAY with out getting nasty, this woman does attend my church. I don't want to offend her and make her leave, since its a small struggling church that needs all the members it can get!

I am not near as polite as osidegirl but then she is a girl...
Look in the mirror dude...beggars can't be choosers unless you and your right hand are really an item this could be your last chance.

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 1:34:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		While I do agree with some of the other posters that you didn't have to go into such harsh detail about why you are not interested in this woman, I'm not seeing any reason you couldn't politely tell her that you're not interested in dating her.

It's a small church. I get it. Everybody mingles after services and she seems to cling around you. Some people don't get the hint to go away. If telling her things like, "enjoy your day, I'm going to socialize with others now" doesn't get the point across, take her aside and tell her that you are not interested in dating. Of course, you have to deal with feeling silly if she wasn't really interested in you, but either way, she'll probably leave you alone at that point.


PS. What was the prompt for you to change your screen name?


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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 1:43:15 PM   
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Back in college, a dear friend became convinced that a female classmate had a crush on him. He set about gently letting her down, explaining that he was gay.

Her startled response: "Whatever gave you that idea?!"

It still rankles a bit, three decades later.

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 2:26:12 PM   
cloverodella


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Status: offline 		Aside from the your odious description of this woman, your presumptuous attitude about her interest in you, and the fact that you lack the grace and humility to say "I'm flattered but not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship" without being nasty and offensive,

how the hell do you know she's vanilla, anyway? I mean, picking up on that that could be why she's interested in you, if she even actually is.

Personally, it sounds like she (and the rest of you) needs a different church. If you're so involved with the church but still this mean and judgmental, it must not be a very good church.

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 2:48:49 PM   
Lucylastic


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Status: offline 		I think the way you described the woman tells me all i need to know about you...op
Thats without the name change.
Shallow as a gob of spit.
Friends need to be perfect???

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 5:05:09 PM   
stef


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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 6:51:40 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		I keep rewording this, because it seems counterintuitive to be mean to you about your post.
Maybe less gossip and judgement and more worship and reflection is in order?
When all else fails, you can always ask yourself, ,WWJD? It being church and all.

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 7:29:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think you should go for the direct approach: tell her that it seems as though she is interested in you and if she acknowledges that, then tell her she just is not your type.
If she asks further, then tell her simply you are not good enough for her.

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 7:39:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		You will have to give the ...lets just be friends talk... and soften it with flowers or a casual dinner. If that does not work then just refuse to answer her calls, letters, texts and emails. She will get the hint. We all know how it feels to be rejected so be nice.

Butch

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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 7:56:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		So you see her at church? Big fucking whoop
What is she doing? Stalking you? Has your schedule down so she is at the grocery store when you are?

Where EXACTLY is she seeing you and "hanging around" you besides church? How many hours do you spend in church a week? One, two at the most?



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RE: GO AWAY, I don't want you - 12/26/2015 10:44:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		This vile and heartless post is only funny because the unattractive, dumpy, saggy older man making it is talkling about any one else being ugly?? Wow. This guy is a 2 at best. Why is he in a CHURCH? He is not even a little bit Christian. Guess he forgot about Jesus talking about not judging, throwing stones and kindness? This lady dodged a bullet!!

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