joyinslavery
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ORIGINAL: subnumber1 Hi, My quest to find my Top has been, to be frank, not that successful lately. Perhaps my profile needs work on, but I don't think this is completely it. I think the simple answer is there is too many sub males competing for too few dom Females. I know if I want things to change I must innitiate change in the way I approach my quest. Which brings me to the topic of Munchies. I have never been to one and have always been reluctant to, for fear they are for exhibitionists and couples. I do have a Dominant Female friend that has always said she would be happy to go as my date. (We are strictly friends these days). My questions about Munchies are : Are these events places where I could have a realistic expectation to meet a potential partner, or are they for couples only? Would I be expected to get up and humiliate myself? I am not into public humiliation so this would be a deal breaker for me. Also, assuming that Munchies are for me, how do I go about finding a suitable event? (I am in Melbourne) Thankyou to all who respond for your kindness. subnumber1 You've gotten some really good advice here subnumber1 and I don't really have anything to add but just wanted to say thanks for the giggle on the whole "munchies" thing! Honestly, I think it's adorable! Get out to a munch man! It'll do you good. My only advice? Don't play on the first night! Spend that time talking with people in the group. If the club does have playtime afterwards, and many do, I (personally) would suggest you not play the first time but just go and observe (most clubs will allow you to do this). Just check it out, talk to people (without interrupting any scenes), follow the rules (they'll tell you what they are) and know that there will always be time to play later. Get your feet set first and get comfortable with the people and the surroundings. IMHO, it will make for a better experience later. Good Luck to you!
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