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ORIGINAL: respectmen
Such like the spoilt dommes on this site that get showered with offers and yet still remain dissatisfied in finding the right one. Maybe it's their expectations are not realistic when comparing it to the male population? Oh god forbid to place any blame on women. lolz

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


If a guy doesn't find her attractive, he's not going to date or fuck her, no matter if she's born ugly..........

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Dude are you seriously using dommes as an example

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

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Dude are you seriously using dommes as an example

So dommes aren't real people? How about women in general on vanilla dating sites and in the real world that seem to have the same problem. Which is finding a man who satisfies them even that they get a million offers. Nooo, their expectations aren't at fault at all.

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Feminism Appeals to Female Losers the Same Way that PUA Appeals to Male Losers

http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/feminism-appeals-to-female-losers-the-same-way-that-puas-appeal-to-male-losers/


I don't consider myself an MRA and I don't usually bother reading "A Voice for Men" material but this one caught my attention. Great article!

Just a snippet out of the article.

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See, while the cultural message to the male who fails at getting laid is “work harder and improve yourself”, the cultural message to the female who fails at landing her dream guy, even if he’s way out of her league and she has nothing to offer him, is always “it’s everyone’s fault except yours”.



Female privilege reeks with this one.

I have observed this exact attitude in this site for many years. I don't think feminism created this double standard as it seems to be an ingrained cultural mindset. However, feminism does support the said mindset. People would be blaming patriarchy for this. If it is patriarchy, it's funny how feminists will be in bed with patriarchy when it's giving women a benefit while being against it when it's benefitting men.

Male losers are ridiculed by nearly everyone which is usually backed by feminists. Female losers are usually coddled and told how bad men are which is usually backed by feminists.

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yanno, the thing that keeps me smiling is that hes pissed because no one owes him an erection:)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

If I gotta know PUA and MRA, I am just gonna stick with getting my dick sucked.

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

yanno, the thing that keeps me smiling is that hes pissed because no one owes him an erection:)

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

LadyConstanze

I'm starting to think that you have comprehension problems. You seem to keep creating a stance and then claim that I made it and own that said stance. Do you know what a straw man is? When I first noticed you doing this, I thought you were just playing but now I am staring to think that you probably have difficulty in understanding what people say.

I'm not going to repeat myself. I have made the point very clear in this thread. This is about the double standard of how society treats a woman when she can't get what she wants out of men compared to how society treats men when they can't get what they want out of women. It's not about anything else, even that you like to claim it is because you want it to be that way to make me an easy target of ridicule.

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yanno, the thing that keeps me smiling is that hes pissed because no one owes him an erection:)

Now that's unique. I never saw erections as a debt and besides, I get them...lickity split.

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I actually QUOTED you, meaning I showed your exact words.

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Really? So society treats undesirable women so much nicer than undesirable men?

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Btw your fabulous crusade for the downtrodden male population on the planet (unless they are darker skinned, then we should condemn them without waiting for facts, kinda shoot first, ask later)

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

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yanno, the thing that keeps me smiling is that hes pissed because no one owes him an erection:)

lolz...what keeps me smiling is that people desperately try to make out that this is my cause and reason when I complain about things. They do this to shift the focus away from the actual problem that I am talking about because the topics I raise makes them feel uncomfortable. It's out of their comfort PC zone to talk about the other side of the story of gender issues. Therefore, they need to act like children and lash out in juvenile personal attacks such as the " you can't get laid" card...which is not something you would expect from a reasonable adult when it comes to gender discussion.

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ORIGINAL: lovmuffin

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


If a guy doesn't find her attractive, he's not going to date or fuck her, no matter if she's born ugly..........

I duno, if she hangs out at a bar long enough, the girls all get prettier at closin' time. Maybe he should try that

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

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Dude are you seriously using dommes as an example

So dommes aren't real people? How about women in general on vanilla dating sites and in the real world that seem to have the same problem. Which is finding a man who satisfies them even that they get a million offers. Nooo, their expectations aren't at fault at all.

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

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yanno, the thing that keeps me smiling is that hes pissed because no one owes him an erection:)

lolz...what keeps me smiling is that people desperately try to make out that this is my cause and reason when I complain about things. They do this to shift the focus away from the actual problem that I am talking about because the topics I raise makes them feel uncomfortable. It's out of their comfort PC zone to talk about the other side of the story of gender issues. Therefore, they need to act like children and lash out in juvenile personal attacks such as the " you can't get laid" card...which is not something you would expect from a reasonable adult when it comes to gender discussion.

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Dude are you seriously using dommes as an example

So dommes aren't real people? How about women in general on vanilla dating sites and in the real world that seem to have the same problem. Which is finding a man who satisfies them even that they get a million offers. Nooo, their expectations aren't at fault at all.

Dommes are real people, but they are playing a fantasy role that appeals to the demographic of males they want to attract. Depending on their kinks. Doesn't mean they would treat a man like that in regular interaction that is non-kink.

I always tell any woman who complains that they got to kiss alot of frogs, that's how it works. Good things are very difficult to find and hard to come by.
But men who complain stupid things like, why are there only "alot of fatties" and derogatory stuffs like that, I usually tell them, to get rich, IF they want a hot woman. Simple solution. Infact, getting rich is a SURE solution to get a hot woman. Guys got a simpler solution. Hell if you want to impress a woman who ain't impressed by money, then keep donating her to her charity causes and get involve to get to her heart. When you have money, you have power. To me, this is just reality of life.

I only wish, for a woman, getting rich is the SURE solution of getting someone they want but looks is really more important most of the time. You could be the richest woman in the world, but that might work against you in obtaining the man you want, because he might even feel threatened by your wealth.